Da li da USTANETE ili da odustanete? |||aufstehen||| (verb to be)|question particle|(verb to be)|you get up|or|(verb to be)|you give up Sollten Sie AUFSTEHEN oder sollten Sie aufgeben? Should you STAND UP or give up?

Dragi moji, dobro mi došli! Dear|my|well|to me|arrived My dear ones, welcome!

ja sam Slavica, I|am|Slavica I am Slavica,

a ovo je moj YouTube kanal and|this|is|my|YouTube|channel and this is my YouTube channel

i svakog četvrtka ovde imate and|every|Thursday|here|you have and every Thursday you have here

korisne savete kako da kreirate život i posao koje ćete da obožavate. useful|tips|how|to|create|life|and|work|that|you will|to|love useful tips on how to create a life and business that you will love.

U današnjem videu In|today's|video In today's video

radi se o tome kako da ne odustanete it is about|reflexive pronoun|about|how|to|not||give up it's about how not to give up

kada ste na putu ostvarenja svojih ciljeva. when|you|on|path|achievement|your|goals when you are on the path to achieving your goals.

Prošle nedelje sam imala LIVE na YouTube-u i puno ljudi me je to pitalo. Last|week|I|had|LIVE|on|||and|many|people|me|was|that|asking Last week I had a LIVE on YouTube and many people asked me about it.

i čak i kada sam objasnila, opet malo kasnije, and|even|and|when|I|explained|again|a little|later and even when I explained it, a little later,

opet me je neko to pitao i onda sam odlučila da ću da snimim video o tome jer očigledno to predstavlja again|me|was|someone|that|asked|and|then|I|decided|to|I will||record|video|about|that|because|obviously|that|represents someone asked me about it again and then I decided that I would record a video about it because obviously it represents

ljudima danas veliki problem. people|today|big|problem a big problem for people today.

A i inače, iz prakse znam, And|also|otherwise|from|practice|I know And also, from experience I know,

da su ljudi jako nestrpljivi danas kada su that|are|people|very|impatient|today|when|are that people are very impatient today when it comes to

u pitanju ostvarenja nekih ciljeva životnih in|question|achievement|some|goals|life regarding the achievement of certain life goals

i da lako odustaju od velikih stvari and|that|easily|give up|from|great|things and that they easily give up on big things

i onda životare i to je velika šteta. and|then|just survive|and|that|is|great|shame and then they just get by, and that is a great shame.

Ja ću vam danas dati par I|will|to you|today|give|pair Today, I will give you a few

ideja kako, u stvari, možete da idea|how|in|fact|you can|to ideas on how, in fact, you can

istrajete lakše u ostvarenju svojih ciljeva. you persist|more easily|in|achieving|your|goals you persevere more easily in achieving your goals.

Obavezno pogledajte ovaj video do kraja Be sure to|watch|this|video|until|the end Make sure to watch this video until the end

i pritisnite subscribe i zvonce, kako biste and|press|subscribe|and|bell|how|you would and press subscribe and the bell, so you can

uvek bili obavešteni kad ima nešto novo na mom kanalu. always|be|informed|when|there is|something|new|on|my|channel always be notified when there is something new on my channel.

I korisno, naravno! It|useful|of course And useful, of course!

Tamo negde, pre dvadeset godina There|somewhere|before|twenty|years Somewhere, twenty years ago

ja sam upoznala NLP i coaching I|am|met|NLP|and|coaching I met NLP and coaching

prvo NLP, pa kasnije coaching. first|NLP|then|later|coaching first NLP, then later coaching.

i prva misao koju sam imala kada sam upoznala tu fenomenalnu metodologiju and|first|thought|that|I|had|when|I|met|that|phenomenal|methodology And the first thought I had when I encountered that phenomenal methodology

je bila da was|female|to be was that

da zaista od srca želim that|truly|from|heart|I wish that I truly wish from the heart

da dođem u Srbiju to|come|to|Serbia to come to Serbia

i da podučavam ljude. and|to|teach|people and to teach people.

Jer sam shvatila koliko je to korisno i da želim Because|I|realized|how much|is|it|useful|and|that|I want Because I realized how useful it is and that I want

svima to da to everyone|that|yes everyone to

približim, da mogu da uče, I bring closer|so that|they can|to|learn I get closer so they can learn,

da im obezbedim da mogu da that|to them|I provide|that|they can|to to provide them with the ability to

imaju kvalitetan trening na našem jeziku. they have|quality|training|in|our|language have quality training in our language.

Ali, zašto počinjem odatle? But|why|do I start|from there But why do I start from there?

Zato što je to bio san koji sam imala pre 20 godina Because|that|it was|that|dream|dream|that|I|had|before|years Because that was a dream I had 20 years ago.

a danas ga živim. and|today|him|live and today I live it.

I zato što je jako dugo trajalo I|that's why|that|is|very|long|lasted And because it lasted a very long time

to ostvarenje. Ali danas kada pogledam, to|realization|But|today|when|I look to achieve. But today when I look,

šta bih sve izgubila da sam odustala, what|would|everything|have lost|if|I|had given up at what I would have lost if I had given up,

bukvalno mi nije dobro. literally|to me|is not|well I literally feel unwell.

Jako mi je bilo teško Very|to me|was|hard|difficult It was very hard for me.

jako dugo je trajalo, very|long|it|lasted It lasted a very long time,

kroz mnoga pakla sam prošla, through|many|hells|I|have passed I went through many hells,

ali, but but,

sam mnogo srećna što sam danas tu gde jesam. am|very|happy|that|am|today|here|where|I am I am very happy that I am here today.

I znam da mnogi od vas imaju neke svoje velike snove I|know|that|many|of|you|have|some|their|big|dreams And I know that many of you have some big dreams

i žele da postignu neke stvari and|they want|to|achieve|some|things and want to achieve some things

ali odustanu. but|they give up but give up.

Neki odustanu zato što ne ide brzo Some|give up|because|that|not|goes|fast Some give up because it doesn't happen quickly

Zato što razmišljaju da se sve to dešava preko noći Because|that|they think|that|reflexive pronoun|all|that|happens|overnight|night Because they think that all of this happens overnight.

Ni drugim ljudima se ne dešava preko noći! Neither|other|people|(reflexive particle)|not|happens|overnight|night It doesn't happen to other people overnight either!

Vama se ČINI to you|reflexive pronoun|seems It SEEMS to you

da se nekome dešava preko noći to|oneself|someone|happens|overnight|night that something happens to someone overnight

ali vi niste imali pojma da ja postojim but|you|were not|had||that|I|exist but you had no idea that I existed

pre dvadeset godina before|twenty|years twenty years ago

niste imali pojma da sam ja imala san pre dvadeset godina you (plural)|had|idea|that|I|I|had|dream|before|twenty|years you had no idea that I had a dream twenty years ago

vi sada možda mene vidite i kažete: you|now|maybe|me|see|and|say you might see me now and say:

"WOW, blago Slavici! Ona priča na YouTube-u! Ljudi je slušaju!" WOW|lucky|Slavica|She|talks|on|||People|are|listening "WOW, lucky Slavica! She's talking on YouTube! People are listening to her!"

"Ona ima neke edukacije, ljudi dođu!" She|has|some|training|people|come "She has some educational sessions, people come!"

"Tako bih volela i ja! Ona je napisala neke knjige" So|would|love|also|I|She|has|written|some|books "I wish I could do that too! She has written some books"

"Tako bih volela i ja!" So|would|love|also|I "I would love that too!"

Ali najgore je što ljudi koji bi voleli tako da rade But|worst|is|that|people|who|would|like|like that|to|work But the worst part is that people who would love to work like that

kao ja i koji bi možda mogli i trebali da rade kao ja like|me|and|who|would|maybe|could|and|should|to|work|like|me like me and who might be able and should work like me

možda i bolje od toga, maybe|and|better|than|that maybe even better than that,

odustanu zato što to give up|because|that|it give up because of that.

Primete da za godinu dana ne postignu to što sam postigla They notice|that|in|year|days|not|achieve|what|that|I|achieved They notice that in a year they don't achieve what I have achieved.

za dvadeset niti mogu da postignu za dve in|twenty|threads|I can|to|achieve|in|two In twenty years, they can't achieve it in two.

i onda, kao, "Ok", odustanu. and|then|like|okay|they give up And then, like, "Okay," they give up.

A ne treba odustajati! And|not|should|give up But you shouldn't give up!

Ako je nešto vaš san If|is|something|your|dream If something is your dream.

onda zaista postoje načini then|really|there are|ways then there really are ways

kako vi možete da dođete do njega. how|you|can|to|get|to|him how you can reach it.

Ali jedan od osnovnih But|one|of|basic But one of the basic

sastojaka tog ostvarenja je, u stvari, istrajnost. ingredients|that|achievement|is|in|fact|perseverance ingredients of that achievement is, in fact, perseverance.

Da istrajete u tome. To|persevere|in|that To persevere in it.

I istrajati naravno nije lako, It|to persist|of course|is not|easy And persisting is certainly not easy,

jer da je lako, svako bi, because|to|is|easy|everyone|would because if it were easy, everyone would,

istrajao, ali ne može svako da istraje persevered|but|not|can|everyone|to|persevere persist, but not everyone can persist

i teško je! and|hard|is and it is hard!

Ja vas neću lagati. Neću reći I|you|will not|lie|I will not|tell I will not lie to you. I will not say

"Postoji lak način da" There is|easy|way|to "There is an easy way to"

"stignete do svojih ciljeva". Ne! you reach|to|your|goals| "reach your goals". No!

Ne postoji lak, samo postoji način! There|is|easy|only|exists|way There is no easy way, there is only a way!

Jedna od ključnih stvari je vaša svest One|of|key|things|is|your|awareness One of the key things is your awareness

znači, pod broj jedan je vaša svest o tome it means|under|number|one|is|your|awareness|about|that meaning, number one is your awareness of that

šta ćete sve izgubiti ako odustanete. what|will|everything|lose|if|give up what you will lose if you give up.

i zato vam ja dajem moj primer. and|therefore|to you|I|give|my|example and that's why I give you my example.

Zamislite danas da ja nemam ovaj život Imagine|today|that|I|do not have|this|life Imagine today that I don't have this life

da sam i dalje u Nemačkoj zaposlena that|I am|still|employed|in|Germany|female employee that I am still employed in Germany

i da nisam uzela svoj život u svoje ruke i da sam, evo, sa pedeset i nešto godina and|that|I had not|taken|my|life|in|my|hands|and|that|I|here|at|fifty|and|something|years and that I haven't taken my life into my own hands and that I am, look, in my fifties.

skoro, onako almost|like that almost, like that

poprilično u tom nekom fairly|in|that|some pretty much in that kind of

dobu u kom kada izgubite posao, ne možete više da se zaposlite nigde time|in|which|when|you lose|job|not|you can|anymore|to|reflexive pronoun|get employed|anywhere time when you lose your job, you can't get hired anywhere anymore

i da drhtim da li će me neko zaposliti and|to|tremble|||will|me|someone|employ and I tremble whether someone will hire me

i upropastiti mi moj stil života and|ruin|my|my|style|life and ruin my lifestyle

na koji sam navikla to|which|I|got used to that I have gotten used to

i sve te stvari koje idu s tim. and|all|those|things|that|go|with|that and all those things that come with it.

Znate, s tim godinama kada ste zaposleni You know|with|those|years|when|you are|employed You know, with those years when you are employed

i kada će vas otpustiti i, šta ja znam, zameniti nekim mlađim. and|when|will|you|fire|and|what|I|know|replace|someone|younger and when they will let you go and, I don't know, replace you with someone younger.

To je jedna stvar, a druga je stvar It|is|one|thing|but|another|is|thing That's one thing, and the other thing is

zamislite sve te ljude koje sam u poslednjih imagine|all|those|people|whom|I|in|last imagine all those people I have met in the last

eto, šesnaest godina, koliko sam stvarno here|sixteen|years|how much|I am|really well, sixteen years, how long I have really

na putu u Srbiji, da kažem, on|the road|in|Serbia|to|say been on the road in Serbia, to say,

na našim prostorima koliko radim in|our|areas|as much as|I work in our areas how much I work

sve te ljude koji su od mene učili, da nisu all|those|people|who|are|from|me|learned|that|they are not all those people who have learned from me, if they hadn't

imali tu priliku da uče od mene they had|that|opportunity|to|learn|from|me they had the opportunity to learn from me

i da nisu imali tu priliku da promene svoje živote. and|that|they did not|had|that|opportunity|to|change|their|lives and they did not have the opportunity to change their lives.

I koliko u stvari je to nekim životima značilo And|how much|in|fact|is|that|some|lives|meant And how much that actually meant in some lives

mom najviše! mom|the most the most for me!

Ali i mnogim drugima takođe. But|and|many|others|also But for many others as well.

I to što vi imate kao san, takođe I|to|what|you|have|as|dream|also And what you have as a dream, also

može da znači mnogim životima can|to|mean|many|lives can mean a lot in many lives

mnogo, jer ne znam, šta god da je vaš san a lot|because|not|I know|what|ever|to be|your|your|dream a lot, because I don't know, whatever your dream is

problem je u tome što mi u stvari the problem|is|in|that|what|we|in|reality the problem is that we actually

često odustajemo zbog nestrpljenja often|give up|due to|impatience often give up due to impatience

i zbog toga što ne shvatamo šta ćemo sve izgubiti ako and|because|that|what|not|we understand|what|we will|everything|lose|if and because we do not understand what we will lose if

odustanemo we give up we give up

a drugi problem je što odustajemo zbog toga što nam ljudi govore. and|second|problem|is|that|we give up|because|that|what|to us|people|say and another problem is that we give up because people tell us.

Ja se sećam pre I|reflexive pronoun|remember|before I remember 20 years ago I had that dream,

20 godina imala sam taj san, years|had|I|that|dream

i, naravno, kad sam o tome govorila, and|of course|when|I|about|that|spoke and, of course, when I talked about it,

svi su mislili: Ma pusti je, neće to ona uraditi. everyone|were|thinking|Oh|leave|her|will not|that|she|do everyone thought: Oh, just leave her, she won't do that.

Kao, nemoguće je da će tako nešto uraditi Like|impossible|is|that|will|so|something|do Like, it's impossible that she would do something like that

da će dati otkaz i doći u Srbiju da radi that|will|give|resignation|and|come|to||to|work that she would quit her job and come to Serbia to work

ali kada sam konačno to uradila, but|when|I|finally|that|did but when I finally did it,

2003\. sam dala otkaz i 2004. sam prestala da radim I|gave|resignation|and|I|stopped|to|work In 2003, I quit my job and in 2004, I stopped working. došla prvi put u Beograd arrived|first|time|in|Belgrade I came to Belgrade for the first time.

i krenula da započinjem celu ovu stvar I|started|to|begin|whole|this|thing And I started to begin this whole thing.

to je bilo jako teško, it|was|very|hard|difficult It was very difficult,

znači, tri - četiri godine kasnije nakon što sam zaista poželela it means|three|four|years|later|after|that|I|really|wished I mean, three to four years later after I really wanted to.

i sebi postavila taj cilj, and|to myself|set|that|goal and set that goal for myself,

tri godine straha i drhtanja three|years|of fear|and|trembling three years of fear and trembling

i premišljanja i odlučivanja and|reflection|and|decision-making and reconsidering and deciding

i konačno kad sam odlučila, and|finally|when|I|decided and finally when I made the decision,

i kada sam došla ovde, and|when|I|arrived|here and when I came here,

ljudi su mislili da sam odlepila. people|were|thinking|that|I|went crazy people thought I had gone crazy.

Toliko su mislili da sam poludela They thought|were|thinking|that|I|went crazy They thought I had lost my mind.

da su mi davali vizit kartice that|they|to me|gave|business|cards They even gave me business cards.

da s nekim porazgovaram to|with|someone|I talk to talk to someone.

"sa nekim pametnim", tako su mi govorili. with|someone|smart|like that|they|to me|told "to someone smart," that's what they told me.

"Evo imam ja...", pa onda psihoterapeut ili Here|I have|me|then|or|psychotherapist| "Here I have...", then the psychotherapist or

psiholog ili psihijatar psychologist|or|psychiatrist psychologist or psychiatrist