10 Signs You're a Sigma Male
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hey everyone and welcome to top think
today we're going to learn about 10
signs you
are a sigma male now let's begin
number one rejecting expectations
everyone's heard of alpha males and beta
males alphas stand at the top of our
social hierarchy
they lead with decisive voices confident
attitudes and strong personas
betas on the other hand are followers
they sink to the bottom of our social
hierarchy
they're submissive insecure and weak
willed they settle for less and run away
from conflict
but alphas and betas aren't the only
kinds of male personalities out there
the sigma male is the rarest of the
three male archetypes
unlike an alpha or a beta a sigma male
doesn't care about social standings or
hierarchies
they ignore social norms trends and
expectations
to a sigma male there's no correct way
to dress speak
or act society has a rigid list of male
expectations
created by alphas and idealized by betas
but sigma males discover their own path
they create their own definition of
what's attractive
cool and confident just take clothing
for example
alpha males are trendsetters they
confidently push the boundaries of
what's attractive and what's not
beta males copy the styles created by
the alphas
they wear expensive clothes and famous
brands
they want to gain respect or bolster
their reputation but their lack of
confidence
shows right through but sigma males
don't create
fads or follow them you'll never see
them wearing something popular or trendy
because sigma males don't care what
society likes or
dislikes so if you march to the beat of
your own drum
if you reject social trends and
expectations then you may be the rarest
male archetype the sigma male
number two material insignificance
sigma males are minimalistic they don't
prioritize the same luxuries as other
men
because they don't need material things
to complete them
they don't rely on luxuries to create or
enhance their personality
just think about fancy cars for seconds
the beta male may spend tens
even hundreds of thousands of dollars on
a sports car
they think an expensive car will make
them more desirable
more attractive more confident but it
won't
that's why a sigma male drives whatever
they want
they're just as confident driving a
rundown wagon as they are a bright red
ferrari
they know material goods are not a
substitute for self-worth
so instead of chasing luxuries a sigma
male focuses on
immaterial accomplishments if you're a
sigma male
you dedicate your life to the pursuit of
your passions
you seek knowledge skill and wisdom day
after day
your life is not driven by what you have
it's driven
by what you can do number three
self-management are you self-employed do
you resist people in power
sigma males like alpha males struggle
with authority
they make terrible followers and worker
bees unlike betas who do as they're told
sigma males break the rules on a regular
basis
in the workplace sigma males feel stuck
like they're sitting in stop traffic
they don't want anything or anyone
slowing them down they want to solve
problems their own way
they want space and flexibility to
rethink reinvent
and reshape that's why sigma males work
best on their own
they're dedicated self-starters they
flourish when they have complete control
many sigma males are business owners
risk takers and creative thinkers they
confidently tackle high stakes positions
and difficult challenges but if someone
tries to control them
the sigma mail will not go down easy
number four mysterious privacy
sigma males keep their passions close to
their chest
they're called private selfish and
secretive by others
but here's the real truth sigma males do
shield their passions and interests
it's not because they have something to
hide it's because they don't feel the
need to share
a sigma mail does not advertise their
accomplishments
many people talk about their passions to
earn the approval of others
they tell people about their successes
because telling someone
gives them a little ego boost but sigma
males don't want or need outside
approval
they keep their passions to themselves
because telling themselves
is more than enough this can make
sigma's very difficult to understand
it takes a long time to get to know them
friends may feel like they're always
unwrapping new layers of this complex
archetype
even though it takes a long time sigma
males are the most rewarding people to
connect with
and befriend underneath that quiet
exterior is a confident passion
unlike any other number five
humble leadership in their careers and
their lives
sigma males are lone wolves but in the
right circumstances they can be
inspiring leaders too alpha males use
power and aggression to lead but sigma
males
lead by example they pour their hearts
into their work
and their dedication inspires others to
follow in their footsteps
they rarely intimidate or dominate
others and they rarely want to
sigma males generate as much power and
respect as an
alpha without lording over anyone sigma
males don't care about
titles and standings they don't use
their position or paycheck to get their
way
instead they create the best product
that they can
they learn improve and streamline
because they want to make themselves
proud
they have a humble yet disciplined
mindset but that mindset
is why sigma males become such respected
leaders
number six independent pursuits
have you ever turned down a leadership
position sigmas make great leaders
but they don't always enjoy leadership
positions
many sigma males have been pursued
they're chased and revered for their
innovative ambitions
and relentless drive but they prefer to
make it on their own
they're rarely tempted by the perks of
any leadership position
they don't find meaning in titles
paychecks and authority
now many sigmas think they'll get more
done on their own
and they're usually right so they turn
down leadership positions and pursue
success
independently yeah they may make less
money they may have less job stability
they may not know what their future
holds
but they have a chance to pursue their
passions to the fullest
and for a sigma nothing is more
important
number seven the sigma lifestyle
no one lives their lives quite like a
sigma male they're picky about their
lifestyles their routines and their
habits
and there's no one who can change the
way they live for a sigma male
nothing is worse than a controlling
person they can't stand it when someone
tries to change their lifestyle
sigma males do what they want when they
want anyone who tries to impose
expectations onto a sigma male may get
kicked to the curb
now this may sound stubborn or selfish
and in some ways it is
but deep down sigmas value themselves
for who they are
they're willing to change they're open
to new perspectives but they only make
changes if they genuinely want to make
changes
sigma males don't cater to the people
around them they don't transform their
lifestyles
to make others feel better they're
unflinchingly true to themselves
and that's one of their best qualities
number eight confident introversion
most alpha males are commanding
extroverts they use their social
aptitude to gain control over the world
around them
but sigma males are rarely extroverted
instead they're
independent and solitary introverts they
don't like to be the center of attention
they rarely talk to strangers
and they spend most of their time alone
on the outside
a sigma male looks like any other shy
introvert
that's why sigmas go unnoticed sigmas
have the confidence and self-security of
an alpha
but they keep to themselves they don't
leave lasting impressions on everyone in
the room
they listen far more than they talk and
they approach social interactions with
modesty
and control but that muted exterior
hides a rich interior world
their intrinsic confidence can surpass
even the most powerful alphas
they live and lead from the inside out
so don't be fooled by their quiet
exterior
a sigma male may seem shy but they're
far from it
number nine room to breathe sigma males
require a lot of personal space they
need plenty of flexibility to do their
own thing
to chase new ventures to travel and
explore
they need to satisfy their internal
drive to learn
and achieve and they don't want anyone
to hold them back
so if you're a sigma male you may make
radical changes in your life
you may disappear for days on end you
may become so absorbed in your passions
you forget about the rest of the world
your friends and family may worry about
you they may question your decisions
but your pursuit of innovation is one of
the strongest parts of your personality
so take as much space as you need and
don't let
anyone stand in your way
number 10 the outlier there's plenty of
information
circling about alpha males and beta
males but many people struggle to place
themselves in either category
you hear their personality traits and
lifestyle habits but nothing sounds
familiar
nothing seems to fit your personality
so if you don't fall into either
category you may be a sigma male
sigma males are far and away the most
diverse of the three sigma males by
nature
defy labels and archetypes they exist
outside the usual categories and
expectations
they don't fit into any of the most
common groups because they themselves
are uncommon they walk a path that only
they
could walk so if this sounds like you if
you aren't an
alpha or a beta you may fit into this
diverse category
you may be a sigma male hey thank you
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