3 zamke u koje MENTALNO JAKI ljudi nikad ne upadaju traps|in|which|MENTALLY|STRONG|people|never|not|fall 3 Fallen, in die GEISTLICH STARKE Menschen niemals tappen 3 traps that MENTALLY STRONG people never fall into

Dragi moji, dobro mi došli! Dear|my|well|to me|arrived My dear ones, welcome!

Ja sam Slavica Squire i ovo je moj YouTube kanal I|am|Slavica|Squire|and|this|is|my|YouTube|channel I am Slavica Squire and this is my YouTube channel

i četvrtkom uvek za vas imam korisne savete and|on Thursdays|always|for|you|I have|useful|advice and every Thursday I always have useful tips for you

kako da kreirate život i posao koje ćete da obožavate. how|to|create|life|and|business|that|you will|to|love on how to create a life and business that you will love.

U današnjem videu In|today's|video In today's video

pričam o tri stvari I talk|about|three|things I talk about three things

koje su zaista nešto uobičajeno which|are|really|something|usual that are really quite common

i mnogi ljudi and|many|people and many people

naročito ljudi koji nisu mentalno jaki, especially|people|who|are not|mentally|strong especially people who are not mentally strong,

vrlo često upadaju u te zamke very|often|fall|into|those|traps they often fall into these traps

i to ih koči u životu da postanu srećni i uspešni. and|that|them|hinders|in|life|to|become|happy|and|successful and it holds them back in life from becoming happy and successful.

Zato ću ja danas pričati sa vama koje su That's why|I will|I|today|talk|with|you|which|are So today I will talk to you about what these

to zamke, da biste ih prepoznali i the|traps|to|you would|them|recognized|and traps are, so you can recognize them and

šta raditi kada uhvatite sebe da ste upali u tu zamku. what|to do|when|you catch|yourself|that|you are|fallen|into|that|trap what to do when you catch yourself falling into that trap.

Jer, u principu, koristićemo metod koji koriste mentalno jaki ljudi. Because|in|principle|we will use|method|that|use|mentally|strong|people Because, in principle, we will use the method that mentally strong people use.

šta oni u stvari rade u takvim situacijama. what|they|in|fact|do|in|such|situations What they actually do in such situations.

Pogledajte obavezno video do kraja Watch|обязательно|video|until|the end Make sure to watch the video until the end.

pritisnite SUBSCRIBE i pritisnite zvonce press|SUBSCRIBE|and|press|bell Press SUBSCRIBE and hit the bell.

kako biste uvek dobijali informacije kada how|would|always|received|information|when So you always receive notifications when

izađe nešto novo. something new|| something new comes out.

I da krenemo odmah! I|to|start|immediately And let's get started right away!

Dakle, prva stvar koja So|first|thing|that So, the first thing that

koja je jedna ogromna zamka koja nas koči da napredujemo u životu, which|is|one|huge|trap|that|us|hinders|to|progress|in|life is a huge trap that holds us back from progressing in life,

i ja to na svakom koraku vidim, and|I|that|at|every|step|see and I see it at every step,

a to je da se predaje odgovornost nekom drugom and|that|is|to|oneself|surrenders|responsibility|to someone|other and that is to pass the responsibility to someone else

za nešto što se dešava. for|something|that|reflexive particle|happens for something that is happening.

Kao: "Pa nisam ja kriva... Ne mogu ja ništa za to..." Like|Well|I am not|I|guilty|No|can|I|anything|for|that Like: "But it's not my fault... I can't do anything about it..."

"Kriva je država... Moji roditelji su krivi..." The guilty|is|state|My|parents|are|guilty "The government is to blame... My parents are to blame..."

"Kriv je moj muž... Moj šef..." Guilty|is|my|husband|My|boss "My husband is to blame... My boss..."

"Moja firma je katastrofa..." My|company|is|a disaster "My company is a disaster..."

Kriv je neko drugi. is guilty|is|someone|other Someone else is to blame.

"Kriv je neko drugi", znači: "Nije moja odgovornost" guilty|is|someone|else|means|It is not|my|responsibility "Someone else is to blame" means: "It's not my responsibility"

Ako nije moja odgovornost, onda sam ja nemoćan i ja tu ne mogu ništa. If|is not|my|responsibility|then|I am|I|powerless|and|I|here|not|can|anything If it's not my responsibility, then I am powerless and I can't do anything about it.

I to je ogromna zamka! It|is|huge|trap|trap And that's a huge trap!

Mentalno jaki ljudi ne upadaju u tu zamku. Mentally|strong|people|not|fall|into|that|trap Mentally strong people do not fall into that trap.

Ne! Šta u stvari oni rade? No|What|in|fact|they|do No! What do they actually do?

Oni rade ovako: "Ok, dešava se to što se dešava..." They|work|like this|Ok|happens|reflexive pronoun|that|what|reflexive pronoun|happens They do it like this: "Okay, this is happening..."

"Na neke stvari ja mogu da utičem" On|some|things|I|can|to|influence "There are some things I can influence"

"Na mnoge stvari mogu da utičem, a na neke ne mogu". On|many|things|I can|to|influence|but|on|some|not|I can "There are many things I can influence, and some I cannot."

Ali razlika između onih koji su slabi i onih koji su jaki je But|the difference|between|those|who|are|weak|and|those|who|are|strong|is But the difference between those who are weak and those who are strong is

šta rade u situaciji kada se dešava nešto na šta ne mogu da utiču. what|do|in|situation|when|(reflexive pronoun)|happens|something|on|what|not|can|to|influence what they do in a situation when something happens that they cannot influence.

Slabiji kažu: Šta ću ja jadan, nisam ja kriv. The weaker|say|What|will|I|poor|am not|I|guilty The weaker ones say: What can I do, I'm not to blame.

Ja ne mogu, to nije do mene... I|not|can|that|is not|up to|me I can't, it's not up to me...

A mentalno jaki ljudi kažu The|mentally|strong|people|say And mentally strong people say

Ok, dešava se to što se dešava, Ok|happens|reflexive pronoun|that|what|reflexive pronoun|happens Ok, it is happening what is happening,

shvatam. I understand I understand.

I razmišljam kako ja ipak I|think|how|I|nevertheless And I think how I still

bez obzira na sve without|regard|to|everything regardless of everything

bez obzira na situaciju u zemlji without|regard|to|situation|in|country regardless of the situation in the country

bez obzira na to ko su moji roditelji, without|regard|to|that|who|are|my|parents regardless of who my parents are,

bez obzira without|regard regardless

na muža, bez obzira na šefa, on|husband|without|regard|to|boss of my husband, regardless of my boss,

bez obzira na firmu without|regard|to|company regardless of the company

kako ja ipak mogu da uradim svoj deo how|I|still|can|to|do|my|part how I can still do my part

sve što je potrebno everything|that|is|necessary everything I need

da postanem srećan i uspešan. to|become|happy|and|successful to become happy and successful.

Šta je moj deo? What|is|my|part What is my part?

To znači, preuzimam odgovornost za sebe That|means|I take|responsibility|for|myself That means, I take responsibility for myself

preuzimam odgovornost za svoj život I take|responsibility|for|my|life I take responsibility for my life

preuzimam odgovornost I take|responsibility I take responsibility

kako ću ja da se how|will|I|to|myself how I will behave

ponašam, šta ću ja da uradim I behave|what|will|I|to|do what I will do

u određenim situacijama na koje možda ne mogu da utičem. in|certain|situations|to|which|perhaps|not|I can|to|influence in certain situations that I may not be able to influence.

Ali mogu da utičem na to šta ću ja da uradim. But|I can|to|influence|on|that|what|I will|I|to|do But I can influence what I will do.

Tako da, vodite računa o tome da kad god So|that|you take|care|about|it|that|whenever|ever So, keep in mind that whenever

upadnete u to: Šta ću ja jadna, pa ne mogu to, you fall|into|that|What|will|I|poor|well|not|can|that you fall into this: What will I do, poor me, I can't do that,

nije do mene, nisam ja kriva... is not|to|me|am not|I|guilty it's not up to me, I'm not to blame...

da postavite sebi to pitanje: šta ipak možeš? to|ask|yourself|that|question|what|nevertheless|can to ask yourself this question: what can you still do?

Šta možeš TI? What|can|you What can YOU do?

Ima li nešto što propuštaš? A sigurno ima. Is there|question particle|something|that|you are missing|And|surely|there is Is there something you are missing? And there surely is.

Uvek ima, jer to je recept za uspeh i za sreću. Always|has|because|it|is|recipe|for|success|and|for|happiness There is always something, because that is the recipe for success and happiness.

Ok, i druga stvar Ok|and|second|thing Okay, and the other thing

a to je zavist. but|that|is|envy is envy.

To srećem na svakom koraku. I|meet|at|every|step I encounter that at every turn.

Znate, vide nekoga tamo ima lep auto You know|they see|someone|there|has|nice|car You know, you see someone over there with a nice car.

lepo živi, nešto i odmah počne da se pljuje po njemu. well|lives|something|and|immediately||to|himself|spit|at|him They live well, and immediately people start to talk bad about them.

"On kompenzuje nešto. Ružan je." He|compensates|something|Ugly|is "He's compensating for something. He's ugly."

"Mator je... Glup je..." Old man|is|Stupid| "He's old... He's stupid..."

Nemam pojma, odmah mu se nešto prišije. I have no|idea|immediately|to him|reflexive pronoun|something|happens I have no idea, they just start to label him right away.

A u stvari se samo radi o zlobi And|in|fact|reflexive pronoun|only|is about|about|malice And in fact, it's just about malice.

i o zavisti. and|about|envy And about envy.

I zavist je zaista And|envy|is|really And envy is really

što kažu: đavolja rabota. what|they say|devil's|work what they say: devil's work.

Ne treba vam to! To je No|need|to you|that|It|is You don't need that! That's

osećaj koji vas drži feeling|that|you|holds the feeling that holds you

u tom nekom in|that|some in that certain

položaju da ste nemoćni. position|that|you are|powerless position that you are powerless.

Šta rade u stvari What|they do|in|fact What do mentally strong people

mentalno jaki ljudi mentally|strong|people actually do?

umesto toga što rade slabići da instead of|that|that|weaklings|do| instead of what weaklings do

onda ogovaraju, pokazuju prstom, then|gossip|they point|with a finger then gossip, point fingers,

i kao objašnjavaju to na neki način and|like|they explain|it|in|some|way and somehow explain it

bezveze pointless for no reason

jaki ljudi strong|people strong people

koji verovatno koračaju svojom stazom uspeha who|probably|walk|their|path|of success who are probably walking their path to success

možda i ako još nisu, ali koračaju, maybe|and|if|yet|they are not|but|they are walking maybe even if they haven't yet, but they are walking,

Kažu: A vidi ti njega! They say|And|look at|you|him They say: Look at him!

On je uspeo i pored svega da ostvari svoj cilj. He|(past tense marker)|succeeded|and|despite|everything|to|achieve|his|goal He succeeded despite everything to achieve his goal.

I ja ću tako, svaka mu čast! I|will|so|every|him|honor|respect I will do the same, hats off to him!

Verovatno je puno radio Probably|he|a lot|worked He probably worked a lot

verovatno je zaslužio probably|is|deserved he probably deserved it

i ja ću tako! and|I|will|like that and I will too!

Znači, uspešne ljude koji So|successful|people|who So, successful people who

nešto imaju something|they have have something

uzimaju kao inspiraciju take|as|inspiration they take as inspiration

a ne da pljuju po njima but|not|to|spit|on|them and not to spit on them

jer to je stvarno nešto što vas drži because|it|is|really|something|that|you|keeps because that is really something that keeps you

kao da vi ne možete. as|that|you|not|can as if you can't.

Ok, pogledajte nekoga ko je Ok|look at|someone|who|is Okay, look at someone who is

pošteno i lepo zaradio fairly|and|nicely|earned fairly and nicely earned

svoj auto, own|car his car,

svoj stan, šta god... own|apartment|what|ever his apartment, whatever...

i kažite: Kad može on, mogu i ja. I ja ću tako! and|say|When|can|he|can|and|I|I||will|like that and say: If he can do it, I can too. I will do it like that!

Postavite sebi cilj Set|to yourself|goal Set a goal for yourself

i krenite putem ostvarivanja tih ciljeva. and|start|way|achieving|those|goals and start on the path to achieving those goals.

I treća stvar koju bih volela da sa vama prođem I|third|thing|that|would|like|to|with|you|go through And the third thing I would like to go through with you

a to je but|that|is is

ta zavisnost od mišljenja drugih ljudi. that|dependence|on|opinions|other|people the dependence on the opinions of other people.

Ogromna količina ljudi, pa čak i porodice cele Huge|number|of people|even|including|and|families|whole A huge number of people, even entire families

stalno se upravljaju po tome šta će ljudi da kažu constantly|reflexive pronoun|are guided|by|that|what|will|people|to|say they are constantly guided by what people will say

"Jao, nemoj to, šta će reći ljudi?!" Oh no|don't|that|what|will|say|people "Oh no, don't do that, what will people say?!"

"Pa nemoj ovo, šta će ljudi reći?" well|don't do this|this|what|will|people|say "Well, don't do this, what will people say?"

I onda se strašno plaše I|then|themselves|terribly|are afraid And then they are terribly afraid

da imaju bilo kakav cilj to|have|any|kind|goal to have any kind of goal

jer gde ćeš ti to? because|where|will you|you|that because where will you go?

Šta će ljudi da ti se smeju What|will|people|to|you|reflexive pronoun|laugh What will people laugh at you for?

jesi ti normalan, ti si budala! are|you|normal|you|are|fool are you normal, you are a fool!

I onda se desi na primer, And|then|it|happens|for|example And then it happens for example,

sretnu nekog partnera kog vole, ali they meet|some|partner|whom|they love|but they meet a partner they love, but

razmišljaju šta će reći ljudi ako baš sa njim budu, they think|what|will|say|people|if|exactly|with|him|are they think about what people will say if they are with him,

ili imaju neku super ideju or|they have|some|great|idea or they have some great idea

imaju neki talenat, imaju nešto što they have|some|talent|they have|something|that they have some talent, they have something that

za čim im srce gori, ||their|heart|burns their heart burns for,

ali ne usuđuju se ni da probaju da se time bave but|not|dare|themselves|not even|to|try|to|themselves|that|deal with but they don't even dare to try to engage in it.

zato što, "šta će reći ljudi, zaboga..." because|that|what|will|say|people|for God's sake because, "what will people say, for God's sake..."

"Baš ćeš ti to..." really|will|you|that "You will really do that..."

"Baš tebe čekaju..." Exactly|you|are waiting "They are really waiting for you..."

I šta, na primer, ako ne uspem? And|what|for|example|if|not|succeed And what, for example, if I don't succeed?

Šta ću onda? What|will|then What will I do then?

Onda će svi da me ismevaju i da kažu: vidi budale... Then|will|everyone|to|me|mock|and|to|say|look at|fool Then everyone will mock me and say: look at the fool... znali smo da neće uspeti... i tako dalje. we knew|(past tense marker)|that|will not|succeed|and|so| we knew he wouldn't succeed... and so on.

Međutim, šta činiti u tim situacijama? Zaista je važno However|what|to do|in|those|situations|Really|is|important However, what to do in those situations? It is really important

pogledati u sebe i razmisliti: šta ja u stvari ovde radim? to look|into|oneself|and|to think|what|I|in|reality|here|am doing to look within myself and think: what am I actually doing here?

Zbog koga ja radim ovo što radim? For|whom|I|do|this|that|I do For whom am I doing this that I am doing?

Jel ovo nešto moje ili samo radim Is|this|something|mine|or|just|working Is this something of mine or am I just working?

šta će da kaže tata, šta će da kaže mama, šta će da kaže what|will|to|says|dad|||||mom|||| What will dad say, what will mom say, what will

šef, šta će da kaže komšiluk, šta će da kaže žena, boss|what|will|to|say|neighbors|||||wife the boss say, what will the neighbors say, what will my wife say,

šta će da kaže... Ma boli me uvo šta će da kaže! what|will|to|say|But|hurts|me|ear|what|will|to|say what will... I don't care what anyone will say!

ko god hoće da kaže! Hoću da živim svoj život whoever|wants|to say|to|say|I want|to|live|my|life Whoever wants to say something! I want to live my life.

po svome, pa neka kažu šta god hoće. by|my own|and|let them|say|what|ever|want in your own way, let them say whatever they want.

I verujte mi, kad krenete tako, And|trust|me|when|you start|like that And believe me, when you start like that,

onda vi razvijate samopouzdanje then|you|develop|self-confidence then you develop self-confidence

Kad kažete: ja ću da živim svoj život kako meni odgovara. When|you say|I|will|to|live|my|life|how|me|suits When you say: I will live my life the way it suits me.

Onda vaše samopouzdanje u stvari Then|your|self-confidence|in|fact Then your self-confidence actually

nekako da samopouzdanje i drugima. somehow|to|confidence|and|to others somehow to self-confidence and others.

Oni osete to vaše unutrašnje samopouzdanje They|feel|that|your|inner|confidence They feel your inner confidence

i imaju više poverenja u vas. and|they have|more|trust|in|you and have more trust in you.

I onda se mnogo mnogo ređe dešava And|then|reflexive pronoun|much|much|less often|happens And then it happens much, much less often

da ne uspete zato što imate samopouzdanja to|not|succeed|because|that|you have|confidence that you fail because you have confidence.

znate šta radite, zato što imate svoje ciljeve you know|what|you are doing|that's why|because|you have|your|goals you know what you are doing, because you have your goals

Znači, prvo razmislite o tome So|first|think|about|it So, first think about it

šta u stvari vi želite u životu what|in|fact|you|want|in|life what do you actually want in life

baš vas briga šta drugi kažu really|you|care|what|others|say you really don't care what others say

i baš vas briga and|really|you|care and you really don't care

što, ne znam, what|not|I know what, I don't know,

će neki zlobnici i pakosni ljudi da vas ogovaraju, will|some|malicious people|and|spiteful|people|to|you|gossip some malicious and spiteful people will gossip about you,

boli vas uvo! hurts|your|ear you don't care!

Oni koji vas vole, oni će za vas da se raduju Those|who|you|love|they|will|for|you|to|reflexive particle|rejoice Those who love you, they will rejoice for you

Ali to je ono što rade mentalno jaki ljudi kada vide nekoga But|that|is|what|that|do|mentally|strong|people|when|see|someone But that's what mentally strong people do when they see someone

ko je uspešan i kažu: WOW! who|is|successful|and|they say|WOW who is successful and they say: WOW!

E svaka mu čast! And|every|to him|honor Well, hats off to him!

To će uraditi ljudi koji It|will|do|people|who This will be done by people who

nisu zlobni. Oni koji su zlobni i pakosni, baš vas briga! are not|malicious|They|who|are|malicious|and|spiteful|really|you|care are not malicious. Those who are malicious and spiteful, you really don't care!

Znači, mentalno jaki ljudi So|mentally|strong|people So, mentally strong people

ne upiru prstom u druge do not|point|with a finger|at|others they do not point fingers at others

nego preuzmu odgovornost, koja je u stvari moć za njihov život. but|they take|responsibility|which|is|in|fact|power|for|their|life but take responsibility, which is actually power for their life.

Kada preuzmete odgovornost, vi imate moć When|you take|responsibility|you|have|power When you take responsibility, you have the power

da vi upravljate svojim životom that|you|manage|your|life to manage your own life

ne zavide drugima, nego se raduju za njih. not|envy|others|but|themselves|rejoice|for|them they do not envy others, but rejoice for them.

NIsu tužni kad je neko uspešan They are not|sad|when|is|someone|successful They are not sad when someone is successful

nego su srećni zbog njega but|they|happy|because of|him but they are happy for him

i uzimaju ga kao inspiraciju and|they take|him|as|inspiration and take him as inspiration

i na kraju krajeva, and|at||of the end and at the end of the day,

boli ih uvo hurts|them|ear they couldn't care less

šta će drugi reći. Žive svoj život what|will|others|say|They live|their|life what will others say. They live their life

po svome, po svojim vrednostima by|his own|by|his own|values according to their own, according to their own values

po svojim merilima by|its|standards according to their own standards

žive onako kako oni misle da treba they live|the way|how|they||that|should they live the way they think they should

bez obzira na to šta će ko da kaže without|regard|to|that|what|will|anyone|to|say regardless of what anyone will say

baš ih briga! really|them|care they really don't care!

I ja verujem da vam je ovo možda korisno. I|also|believe|that|to you|is|this|maybe|useful I believe this might be useful to you.

Ako vam je korisno, pritisnite lajk, If|to you|is|useful|press|like If it's useful to you, press like,

A osim toga, ako verujete da znate nekoga And|besides|that|if|you believe|that|you know|someone And besides that, if you believe you know someone

kome ovo može biti korisno, to whom|this|can|be|useful to whom this could be useful,

obavezno kopirajte link i pošaljite mu. обязательно|скопируйте|ссылку|и|отправьте|ему be sure to copy the link and send it to him.

na Viber ili na bilo šta drugo. on|Viber|or|on|any|thing|other on Viber or anything else.

Zato što ja znam da mnogi ljudi Because|that|I|know|that|many|people Because I know that many people

im kažu da im je neko prosledio to them|they say|that|to them|is|someone|forwarded tell them that someone forwarded them

moj video i da im je to mnogo značilo. my|video|and|that|to them|was|it|much|meant my video and that it meant a lot to them.

da im je to život spasilo. Pre neki dan mi je jedna that|to them|was|that|life|saved|A few|some|days|to me|was|one that it saved their lives. The other day one of my

moja polaznica rekla my|student|said students told me

njen 85-godišnji otac her|85-year-old|father her 85-year-old father

joj je rekao: Pogledaj ovaj video, pogledaj šta kaže ova žena. to her|he|said|Look at|this|video|look at|what|says|this|woman told her: Look at this video, see what this woman says.

A ona kaže da je bila na dnu And|she|says|that|was|been|at|the bottom And she says she was at the bottom.

i da joj je to život spasilo and|that|her|was|it|life|saved and that it saved her life

kada je nastavila da gleda moje videe when|she|continued|to|watch|my|videos when she continued to watch my videos

i upisala se kasnije na moju edukaciju. and|enrolled|herself|later|in|my|education and later enrolled in my education.

I uskoro je upis na Online program ličnog prosperiteta And|soon|is|enrollment|for|Online|program|personal|prosperity And soon there will be enrollment for the Online Personal Prosperity program

koji je za mnoge bio prekretnica u životu which|is|for|many|was|turning point|in|life which has been a turning point in life for many

otvorili su oči bukvalno opened|they|eyes|literally they literally opened their eyes

i počeli da žive život po svome. and|started|to|live|life|by|their own and started living life on their own terms.

Od srca vam preporučujem, kliknite na link dole From|heart|to you|recommend|click|on|link|below I wholeheartedly recommend you, click the link below

pogledajte šta se sve radi na toj edukaciji look|what|reflexive pronoun|everything|is done|in|that|education see what is being done in that education

prijavite se i vidimo se! register|reflexive pronoun|and|we see|reflexive pronoun sign up and see you there!