GLUPE GREŠKE kojima sebi otežavate život
STUPID|MISTAKES|by which|yourself|make harder|life
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DUMME FEHLER, die einem das Leben schwer machen
ГЛУПЫЕ ОШИБКИ, которые усложняют себе жизнь
STUPID MISTAKES that make your life harder
Dragi moji, dobro mi došli!
Dear|my|well|to me|you have come
My dear ones, welcome!
Ja sam Slavica i ovo je moj YouTube kanal
I|am|Slavica|and|this|is|my|YouTube|channel
I am Slavica and this is my YouTube channel
i ovde svakog četvrtka dobijate razne
and|here|every|Thursday|you receive|various
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and here every Thursday you will receive various
interesantne i korisne savete
interesting|and|useful|advice
interesting and useful tips
kako da kreirate život
how|to|create|life
how to create a life
i posao koje ćete da obožavate.
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and|job|that|you will|to|love
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and a job that you will love.
U današnjem videu radi se o tome
In|today's|video|it is|reflexive pronoun|about|that
In today's video, it is about
da u stvari mi jako često
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yes|in|fact|we|very|often
the fact that we very often
zafrkavamo sebe
we joke|ourselves
driller|
mess with ourselves.
onim što razmišljamo.
that|what|we think
about what we think.
Znači, da naša razmišljanja često
So|that|our|thoughts|often
This means that our thoughts often
nisu uopšte korisna
are not|at all|useful
are not useful at all
da kreiramo svoj život
to|create|our|life
for creating our life
kakav zaista želimo da bude
what kind of|really|we want|to|be
the way we truly want it to be.
i da nas ona sprečavaju u tome.
and|that|us|she|prevents|in|that
and that they prevent us from doing so.
Razna istraživanja su pokazala, u stvari,
Various|research|have|shown|in|fact
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Various studies have shown, in fact,
da naše blagostanje,
that|our|prosperity
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that our well-being,
naš uspeh, naša sreća
our|success|our|happiness
our success, our happiness
mnogo više zavise od našeg načina razmišljanja
much|more|depend|on|our|way|thinking
depend much more on our way of thinking.
nego od okolnosti.
but|by|circumstances
but rather from circumstances.
Kažu čak da okolnosti utiču na to
They say|even|that|circumstances|influence|on|it
They even say that circumstances affect
samo 20%
only
only 20%
a 80 % način na koji mi razmišljamo.
80%|way|on|which|we|think
and 80% the way we think.
E sad,
And|now
Now,
Šta je u stvari problem? Problem je u tome što mi
What|is|in|fact|problem|The problem|is|in|that|that|us
What is the problem, really? The problem is that we
mi tokom vremena usvojimo razne obrasce razmišljanja
we|over|time|adopt|various|patterns|thinking
we adopt various patterns of thinking over time
neke, u stvari, navike
some|in|fact|habits
some, in fact, habits
kako mi procenjujemo stvari,
how|we|evaluate|things
how we assess things,
kako razmišljamo o stvarima,
how|we think|about|things
how we think about things,
koje nam uopšte nisu korisne.
which|to us|at all|are not|useful
which are not useful to us at all.
I vrlo često ih uopšte nismo svesni
We|very|often|them|at all|are not|aware
And very often we are not even aware of them
i zato ne možemo ni da ih promenimo.
and|that's why|not|we can|either|to|them|change
and therefore we cannot change them.
I što je još gore, mi ih čak
And|what|is|even|worse|we|them|even
And what is even worse, we even
vrlo često razmišljamo o tome
very|often|we think|about|it
very often think about them.
da mi ne možemo da se promenimo,
that|we|not|can|to|ourselves|change
that we cannot change,
a u stvari, možemo!
but|in|fact|we can
but in fact, we can!
I u tome i jeste stvar svega što ja ovde radim
I|in|that|and|is|essence|everything|that|I|here|do
And that is the essence of everything I do here
da promenite način na koji razmišljate o sebi i svojim mogućnostima.
to|change|way|in|which|think|about|yourself|and|your|possibilities
to change the way you think about yourself and your possibilities.
Zato danas hoću da vas uputim na nekoliko
That's why|today|I want|to|you|direct|to|several
So today I want to point you to a few
tih grešaka u razmišljanju
such|mistakes|in|thinking
those thinking errors
koje su ključno važne
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which|are|crucially|important
that are critically important
koje se sigurno i vama dešavaju
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which|(reflexive particle)|surely|and|to you|happen
that surely happen to you as well
a razni naučnici su, na primer,
and|various|scientists|are|in|example
and various scientists have, for example,
razni psiholozi, na primer,
various|psychologists|for|example
various psychologists, for example,
Albert Ellis i Aaron Beck
Albert|Ellis|and|Aaron|Beck
Albert Ellis and Aaron Beck
oni su započeli razmišljanje na tu temu
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they|are|started|thinking|on|that|topic
they started thinking on that topic
kako, u stvari, iracionalni način razmišljanja
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how|in|fact|irrational|way|thinking
how, in fact, irrational ways of thinking
i te neke naše greške u razmišljanju utiču
and|those|some|our|mistakes|in|thinking|affect
and some of our thinking errors affect
na to da se osećamo nelagodno
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to|that|to|ourselves|feel|uncomfortable
how we feel uncomfortable
da čak kreiramo strahove u našem životu
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that|even|we create|fears|in|our|life
that we even create fears in our lives
i da to onda pokreće određenu spiralu
and|that|it|then|triggers|certain|spiral
and that this then triggers a certain spiral
u našem životu
in|our|life
in our lives
koja dovodi do jednog lošeg stanja i
|führt||||Zustand|
which|leads|to|one|bad|state|and
which leads to a bad state and
do toga da ne možemo da uspemo da
to|that|we|not|can|to|succeed|to
to the point where we cannot succeed in
ostvarimo svoje ciljeve uopšte.
erreichen|||
we achieve|our|goals|in general
let's achieve our goals in general.
Ja ću danas da vam navedem nekoliko
I|will|today|to|you (plural/formal)|mention|several
Today, I will point out a few
od tih grešaka u razmišljanju
from|those|mistakes|in|thinking
of those thinking errors
kako biste vi obratili pažnju da li se to i vama dešava
how|would|you|pay|attention|whether|question particle|reflexive pronoun|that|also|to you|happens
so that you can pay attention to whether this is happening to you as well
i na kraju ću vam dati
and|at||I will|to you|give
and in the end, I will give you
ideju šta da radite s tim, kako možete sebi da pomognete
idea|what|to|do|with|that|how|can|yourself|to|help
an idea of what to do with it, how you can help yourself
da izađete iz tih negativnih obrazaca
to|exit|from|those|negative|patterns
to get out of those negative patterns
koji vam u stvari
which|to you|in|fact
that actually
čine život teškim
make|life|difficult
make your life difficult
otežavaju vam nepotrebno život
complicate|your|unnecessarily|life
unnecessarily complicate your life
i sprečavaju da budete i da
and|prevent|from|being|and|from
and prevent you from being and becoming
postanete ono što zaista želite da postanete.
become|what|that|truly|want|to|become
what you truly want to become.
Prvi taj obrazac koji je
The first|that|form|which|is
The first pattern that is
greška, kojom mi u stvari sami sebe
mistake|by which|we|in|fact|ourselves|ourselves
a mistake, by which we actually
zafrkavamo ponekad,
we joke|sometimes
fool ourselves sometimes,
je ideja o tome
is|idea|about|that
is the idea about this
sve ili ništa.
all|or|nothing
all or nothing.
Kao: "Ako se sad ne desi ovo, onda nikad ništa neće da bude"
Like|If|reflexive particle|now|not|happens|this|then|never|anything|will not|to|be
Like: "If this doesn't happen now, then nothing will ever happen"
Kao da je u pitanju
As|if|is|in|question
As if it is about
nešto što utiče na celu našu budućnost.
something|that|influences|on|entire|our|future
something that affects our entire future.
Na primer, ili: "Ako me sada ne prime na ovaj posao, kraj je mog života"
For|example|or|If|me|now|not|hire|for|this|job|end|is|my|life
For example, or: "If I am not hired for this job now, my life is over."
"Moja budućnost je upropaštena"
My|future|is|ruined
"My future is ruined."
"Ako sada dobijem otkaz, onda me nikad u životu niko neće primiti" i tako dalje.
If|now|I receive|termination|then|me|never|in|life|no one|will|hire|||
"If I get fired now, then no one will ever hire me in my life," and so on.
Znači, problem je u tome što ljudi na osnovu tih nekih
So|problem|is|in|that|that|people|on|the basis of|those|some
So, the problem is that people, based on those kinds of
razmišljanja, donose zaključke koji
thoughts|bring|conclusions|that
thoughts, draw conclusions that
koji onda važe za čitavu
which|then|apply|for|entire
which then apply to the whole
budućnost.
future
future.
Kao da je to tačno i da može da se primeni na čitavu budućnost.
As|that|is|it|true|and|that|can|to|reflexive particle|applied|to|entire|future
As if that is true and can be applied to the entire future.
"Ako se sada razvedem, više nikada neću naći partnera"
If|reflexive pronoun|now|divorce|ever|never|I will not|find|partner
"If I get divorced now, I will never find a partner again"
I to ste verovatno čuli ljude da govore
You|have|are|probably|heard|people|to|speak
And you have probably heard people say that.
a možda ste i sami bili nekada u tome.
and|maybe|you|also|alone|were|once|in|that
and maybe you have been in that situation yourself.
I to onda pokreće spiralu
I|then|triggers|starts|spiral
And that then triggers a spiral
emocija, strahova
emotion|of fears
of emotions, fears
postupaka koji ne vode u blagostanje
actions|which|not|lead|to|prosperity
actions that do not lead to well-being
i koji su stvarno samo štetni.
and|which|are|really|only|harmful
and that are really just harmful.
Na primer, još jedna od tih grešaka u razmišljanju je
For|example|another|one|of|those|mistakes|in|thinking|is
For example, another one of those thinking errors is
personalizacija.
personalization
personalization.
Kada se nešto nekome desi,
When|(reflexive particle)|something|to someone|happens
When something happens to someone,
on onda razmišlja da se to samo njemu dešava.
he|then|thinks|that|himself|it|only|to him|happens
they then think that it only happens to them.
Pa na primer,
So|for|example
So for example,
prijavi se za neki posao i tamo ga ne prime
apply|reflexive pronoun|for|some|job|and|there|him|not|accept
apply for a job and they don't accept him there
Ne prime ga možda zato što su prestali da primaju nove saradnike
He|accepts|him|maybe|that's why|that|they|stopped|to|accept|new|collaborators
They might not accept him because they stopped taking new collaborators
ili zato što je kriza nastupila ili šta ja znam,
or|because|that|(is)|crisis|occurred|or|what|I|know
or because a crisis has occurred or who knows,
ali taj misli da je do njega.
but|he|thinks|that|is|to|him
but he thinks it's because of him.
"Opet se meni to dešava"
Again|(reflexive particle)|to me|that|happens
"This is happening to me again"
"MENI se samo to dešava"
to me|reflexive pronoun|only|that|happens
"This only happens to me"
Dobije na primer, kaznu za parkiranje i kaže
He/She receives|for|example|fine|for|parking|and|says
For example, he gets a parking ticket and says
"Samo meni! Evo, svi su tu parkirani"
Only|to me|Here|everyone|are|here|parked
"Only to me! Look, everyone is parked here"
"Samo ja dobijem tu kaznu"
Only|I|receive|that|fine
"Only I get this ticket"
Ili na primer,
Or|at|example
Or for example,
pozove na primer prijateljicu i kaže
he calls|for|example|friend|and|he says
calls a friend for example and says
"Volela bih da se nađemo večeras i da idemo na kafu"
I would love|conditional particle|to|ourselves|we meet|tonight|and|to|we go|for|coffee
"I would love to meet tonight and go for coffee"
a prijateljica kaže: "Jao, stvarno nemam vremena"
and|my friend|says|Oh no|really|I don't have|time
and the friend says: "Oh, I really don't have time"
i možda stvarno nema vremena, jer ima neke druge planove,
and|maybe|really|doesn't have|time|because|has|some|other|plans
and maybe she really doesn't have time, because she has other plans,
"Eto, neće sa mnom da se vidi"
There|won't|with|me|to|himself|see
"See, she doesn't want to meet with me"
"Ona mene ne voli. Ne voli sa mnom da provodi vreme"
She|me|not|loves|Not|loves|with|me|to|spends|time
"She doesn't love me. She doesn't want to spend time with me."
i tako dalje. Znači jednostavno sve što se dešava
and|so|on|It means|simply|everything|that|reflexive particle|happens
and so on. So simply everything that is happening
nekako misle da je
somehow|they think|that|is
they somehow think is
u vezi sa njima.
in|relation|with|them
related to them.
A vrlo često nije.
And|very|often|is not
And very often it isn't.
I to im onda povlači tu spiralu da misle da nešto
I|to|them|then|pulls|that|spiral|to|think|that|something
And that then pulls them into this spiral of thinking that something
s njima nije u redu i znate, to već ide
with|them|is not|in|right|and|you know|that|already|goes
is wrong with them and you know, that already goes
dalje i opet dovodi do toga da
further|and|again|leads|to|that|to
further and again leads to the fact that
jednostavno ne možemo da ostvarimo ciljeve
simply|not|we can|to|achieve|goals
we simply cannot achieve our goals
i ne možemo da
and|not|we can|to
and we cannot
budemo osoba kakva želimo da budemo, zato što
we are|person|what kind of|we want|to|be|that's why|because
we become the person we want to be, because
pravimo tu grešku u proceni
we make|that|mistake|in|judgment
we make that mistake in judgment
takozvana greška u proceni.
so-called|mistake|in|judgment
the so-called mistake in judgment.
Ili, takozvana kognitivna distorzija.
Or|so-called|cognitive|distortion
Or, the so-called cognitive distortion.
I još jedna koju bih rado pomenula
I|another|one|whom|I would|gladly|mentioned
And one more that I would like to mention
A to je
And|that|is
And that is
katastofizacija
catastrophization
catastrophization
ili pravljenje od komarca magarca.
or|making|from|mosquito|donkey
or making a donkey out of a mosquito.
Desi se jedna stvar i to je onda "katastrofa"
happens|reflexive pronoun|one|thing|and|that|is|then|catastrophe
One thing happens and then it is a "catastrophe"
"Ako se to desi, to je katastrofa, to je pitanje života i smrti"
If|reflexive particle|that|happens|it|is|catastrophe|it|is|question|of life|and|death
"If that happens, it is a catastrophe, it is a matter of life and death"
"To je nešto najgore što može da se desi".
It|is|something|worst|that|can|to|(reflexive particle)|happen
"That is the worst thing that can happen."
I sigurna sam da poznajete takve ljude i da znate tačno o čemu pričam.
I|sure|am|that|you know|such|people|and|that|you know|exactly|about|what|I am talking
And I am sure you know such people and that you know exactly what I am talking about.
Kada ljudi imaju utisak da
When|people|have|impression|that
When people have the impression that
eto, ako se to desi
here||it|that|happens
well, if that happens
to je onda smak sveta
it|is|then|end|of the world
then it is the end of the world.
kraj sveta, gotovo je
end|of the world|it's over|
the end of the world, it's over
sa nama, sa životom, sa poslom,
with|us|with|life|with|work
with us, with life, with work,
sa svim i svačim je gotovo
with|everything|and|anything|is|over
it's over with everything and anything
i vrlo često ljudi to
and|very|often|people|that
and very often people use that
u braku, u poslu koriste
in|marriage|in|work|they use
in marriage, in work.
i to im jako, jako smeta, zato što
and|that|them|very|very|bothers|that's why|because
and that really, really bothers them, because
to jednostavno nije tako.
it|simply|is not|that way
it's just not like that.
i ne razmatraju uopšte
and|not|consider|at all
and they don't consider at all
činjenicu da je njihov sud
fact|that|is|their|court
the fact that their judgment
pogrešan i da
wrong|and|yes
is wrong and that
jednostavno preteruju
they simply|exaggerate
they simply exaggerate
i da prave od nečega malog nešto veliko.
and|to|make|from|something|small|something|big
and make something small into something big.
To je nešto zbog čega bih ja volela da vi zaista
It|is|something|because|of which|I would|I|liked|to|you|really
This is something I would like you to really
promislite o tome da li vi to radite.
think|about|that|whether|question particle|you|it|do
think about whether you do this.
Da li vi to sebi radite?
Do|question particle|you|that|to yourself|do
Are you doing this to yourself?
a onda i svima onima koji su vama važni za vaš život.
and|then|to|everyone|those|who|are|you|important|for|your|life
and then to all those who are important to you in your life.
Ono što je, takođe, jedna greška u razmišljanju
What|that|is|also|one|mistake|in|thinking
What is also a mistake in thinking
su generalizacije.
are|generalizations
is generalizations.
Kada na osnovu jednog iskustva
When|on|the basis of|one|experience
When based on one experience
na osnovu jednog nečega što se desilo,
on|the basis of|one|something|that|(reflexive particle)|happened
based on one thing that happened,
vi pomislite
you|think
you think
da je sve bezveze i to zauvek.
that|is|everything|pointless|and|that|forever
that everything is pointless and it will be forever.
I to je stvarno velika šteta.
I|it|is|really|big|shame
And that is really a great shame.
Ali mnogi ljudi razmišljaju na taj način.
But|many|people|think|in|that|way
But many people think that way.
Pa ne znam, žena ako je imala
well|not|I know|woman|if|she|had
Well, I don't know, if a woman has had
jednom nekog bezveznjaka, onda
once|some|fool|then
once with some jerk, then
poveže za ceo život da su svi muškarci bezveze.
connects|for|whole|life|that|are|all|men|worthless
they connect it for a lifetime that all men are jerks.
Što je velika šteta, jer postoje divni muškarci.
What|is|great|shame|because|there are|wonderful|men
Which is a great shame, because there are wonderful men.
Ili, na primer,
Or|at|example
Or, for example,
ako je jednom imala problema sa
if|she|once|had|problems|with
if she once had problems with
ljudima iz HR-a, misle da su oni svi onako
to people|from|||they think|that|are|they|all|like that
people from HR think that they are all like that
hladni i bezobrazni
cold|and|rude
cold and rude
nekako nelojalni i
somehow|disloyal|and
somehow disloyal and
da nisu kako treba.
that|are not|how|should
that they are not as they should be.
Što uopšte nije tačno!
What|at all|is not|true
Which is not true at all!
I tako dalje. Znači ima puno stvari
And|so|on|means|there are|many|things
And so on. So there are many things.
Nešto se jednom desi i onda kao:
Something|(reflexive particle)|once|happens|and|then|like
Something happens once and then it's like:
to je zauvek tako i
it|is|forever|so|and
that's forever like that and
i svi su takvi
and|everyone|are|like that
everyone is like that.
To su sve stvari koje čine da se ne osećamo dobro
Those|are|all|things|that|make|to|ourselves|not|feel|well
These are all things that make us feel bad.
da upadamo u strahove
to|fall into|into|fears
to fall into fears
da upadamo u ideju o tome da nismo dovoljno dobri
to|fall|into|idea|about|that|to|we are not|good enough|good
to fall into the idea that we are not good enough
i da nas jednostavno sprečava da ostvarimo svoje ciljeve
and|to|us|simply|prevents|from|achieving|our|goals
and that it simply prevents us from achieving our goals
a uopšte nije tačno!
but|at all|is not|true
and that is not true at all!
Ja stalno govorim mojim polaznicima
I|always|speak|my|students
I constantly tell my students
na edukacijama
at|trainings
in training
u životu vas neće sprečiti da
in|life|you|will not|prevent|from
in life will not prevent you from
postanete srećni i uspešni
you become|happy|and|successful
becoming happy and successful
nešto što
something|that
something that
što ne znate, što niste naučili
what|not|you know|what|you are not|learned
that you do not know, that you have not learned
nego ono u šta 100 posto verujete, a što uopšte nije tačno.
but|that|in|what|percent|believe|and|which|at all|is not|true
but rather what you believe 100 percent, which is not true at all.
To su te gluposti koje mi verujemo o sebi
Those|are|those|nonsense|that|we|believe|about|ourselves
These are the nonsense we believe about ourselves
a koje uopšte nisu tačne.
and|which|at all|are not|correct
that are not true at all.
Imamo loše procene
We have|poor|estimates
We have poor assessments
ali mi verujemo da su naše procene 100 % tačne.
but|we|believe|that|are|our|estimates|accurate
but we believe that our assessments are 100% accurate.
A vrlo često se varamo!
And|very|often|ourselves|deceive
And we often deceive ourselves!
Koliko se često vama desi da ste pomislili da će nešto biti tako
How much|(reflexive particle)|often|to you|happens|that|you were|thought|that|will|something|be|like this
How often does it happen to you that you thought something would be like this
pa nije bilo tako uopšte?
well|was not|it|like that|at all
but it wasn't like that at all?
Znači, čak se prevarimo i kada nemamo taj obrazac
So|even|ourselves|deceive|and|when|we don't have|that|pattern
So, we even deceive ourselves when we don't have that pattern
a naročito kada ljudi imaju
and|especially|when|people|have
especially when people have it.
te negativne obrasce razmišljanja
those|negative|patterns|thinking
these negative thought patterns
a non-stop se nalaze u iluziji
and|||themselves|find|in|illusion
are constantly in an illusion
svog negativnog razmišljanja
your|negative|thinking
of their negative thinking
o sebi, o svetu i
about|myself|about|world|and
about themselves, about the world and
o okruženju.
about|environment
about their surroundings.
Tako da je jako bitno, prva stvar
So|that|is|very|important|first|thing
So it is very important, the first thing
koju možete da uradite, a ovde se postavlja pitanje
which|you can|to|do|and|here|reflexive pronoun|is asked|question
that you can do, and here the question arises
šta možete vi da uradite protiv toga
what|can|you|to|do|against|that
what can you do about it
prva stvar koju možete da uradite je da
first|thing|that|you can|to|do|is|
the first thing you can do is to
krenete da lovite sebe
you start|to|hunt|yourself
start hunting yourself
da li vi sebe zafrkavate?
do|question particle|you|yourselves|joke
Are you kidding yourself?
Onda kažete sebi: "Ej, aman!"
Then|you say|to yourself|Hey|come on
Then you say to yourself: "Hey, come on!"
"Čemu takva negativna razmišljanja"
What for|such|negative|thoughts
"What is with such negative thinking"
"svakoga dana non-stop"
every|day||
"every single day non-stop"
Hajde da uhvatite sebe kada razmišljate tako
Let's|to|catch|yourself|when|you think|like that
Come on, catch yourself when you think like that
i onda da se kao malo distsncirate od toga
and|then|to|reflexive pronoun|like|a little|distance|from|that
and then to kind of distance yourself from it
i da postavite sebi pitanje
and|to|ask|yourself|question
and to ask yourself a question
da li postoji neki primer kada nije bilo tako?
(verb to be)|question particle|exists|some|example|when|(verb to be) not|was|like that
is there any example when it wasn't like that?
Jel bila neka situacija kada nije bilo tako?
Was|there|any|situation|when|not|was|like that
Was there a situation when it wasn't like that?
Na osnovu kojih kriterijuma uopšte
Based|on|which|criteria|at all
Based on what criteria at all
donosiš taj zaključak da je tako?
|that|conclusion|that|is|so
do you draw that conclusion?
Na osnovu kojih kriterijuma procenjuješ to?
Based|on|which|criteria|do you evaluate|that
Based on what criteria do you assess that?
Postoje li neki argumenti koji govore
There are|question particle|some|arguments|that|speak
Are there any arguments that say
potpuno suprotno?
completely|opposite
the complete opposite?
I postoje li ljudi kojima
And|there are|question particle|people|to whom
And are there people who
koji su, ne znam, dobili otkaz, pa su našli posao?
who|(they)|not|know|received|termination|so|(they)|found|job
who, I don't know, got fired, and then found a job?
Ili koji su se razveli, pa su našli ljubav svog života?
Or|who|(auxiliary verb)||divorced|and then|(auxiliary verb)|found|love|of their|life
Or who got divorced, and then found the love of their life?
Znači, bilo šta ako generalizujete,
So|anything|what|if|you generalize
So, anything if you generalize,
ali postoji barem jedan muškarac na ovom svetu koji nije bezveze
but|there is|at least|one|man|in|this|world|who|is not|pointless
but there is at least one man in this world who is not useless
ili: da li postoji barem jedna ljubazna
or|(particle for yes/no questions)|(question particle)|there is|at least|one|kind (feminine)
or: is there at least one kind
osoba koja radi u HR-u?
person|who|works|in||
a person who works in HR?
Znači, da postavite sebi pitanja
So|to|ask|yourselves|questions
So, ask yourself questions
koja vas teraju
which|you|drive
that push you
da razmislite malo dalje
to|think|a little|further
to think a little further
od toga u šta ste se zakopali
from|that|in|what|you|reflexive pronoun|buried
than what you have buried yourself in
a ako je to neko drugi, neko koga volite,
and|if|is|that|someone|other|someone|whom|you love
and if it is someone else, someone you love,
koga cenite i do koga vam je stalo,
whom|you appreciate|and|to|whom|you|is|concerned
someone you appreciate and care about,
i vi vidite da se zakopa u nekoj
and|you|see|that|himself|buries|in|some
and you see that they are digging themselves into some
grešci, da jednostavno ima grešku u razmišljanju koja
error|that|simply|has|mistake|in|thinking|which
mistake, that they simply have a flaw in their thinking that
ga sprečava da postigne svoj cilj,
him|prevents|from|achieving|his|goal
prevents them from achieving their goal,
postavite mu jedno od ovih pitanja:
ask|him|one|of|these|questions
Ask him one of these questions:
"Na osnovu čega si to procenio?"
On|the basis|of what|you|that|assessed
"What did you base that on?"
"Koje kriterijume si uzeo?"
Which|criteria|you|taken
"What criteria did you use?"
"Postoje li neki drugi primeri?"
Are there|question particle|any|other|examples
"Are there any other examples?"
"Da li možda ima barem jedan primer"
Do|question particle|maybe|has|at least|one|example
"Is there at least one example?"
"Suprotan od toga" i tako dalje
Opposite|of|that|and|so|on
"Opposite of that" and so on
da pokrenete samo razmišljanje.
to|initiate|just|thinking
to just start thinking.
Nemojte davati argumente
Don't|give|arguments
Do not provide arguments
Davanje argumenata će samo
Giving|arguments|will|only
Providing arguments will only
da naiđe na otpor
to|encounters|on|resistance
meet with resistance
nego postavljajte pitanja
but|ask|questions
but ask questions
jer pitanja pokreću na razmišljanje.
because|questions|provoke|to|thinking
because questions provoke thought.
A pokrenuti nekoga na razmišljanje veliki je blagoslov
And|to inspire|someone|to|thought|great|is|blessing
And to provoke someone to think is a great blessing
naročito ako ste to vi
especially|if|you|that|you
especially if it is you
ali i za druge ljude je to važno
but|and|for|other|people|is|it|important
but it is also important for other people.
naročito u kontaktu sa ljudima koje volite, do kojih vam je stalo
especially|in|contact|with|people|whom|you love|to|whom|you|is|concerned
especially in contact with the people you love, whom you care about
da ih pokrenete na razmišljanje, jer samo onaj ko
to|them|motivate|to|thinking|because|only|one|who
to get them to think, because only those who
ko razmišlja
who|thinks
think
može da promeni mišljenje.
can|to|change|mind
can change their mind.
Onaj ko je u otporu
The one|who|is|in|resistance
Those who are resistant
zato što ste vi rekli: "Nije tako, nego je ovako",
because|that|you (plural)|you (plural)|said|It is not|like that|but|is|like this
because you said: "It's not like that, it's like this"
ne, on ne razmišlja, on se samo brani.
no|he|not|thinks|he|himself|only|defends
no, he is not thinking, he is just defending himself.
Brani svoje mišljenje. Zato nemojte
Defend|your|opinion|Therefore|don't
Defending his opinion. So don't
argumentovati protiv, nego jednostavno pitajte.
argue|against|but|simply|ask
argue against it, just ask.
Osobu pitajte da li postoje neki argumenti
The person|ask|if|question particle|there are|any|arguments
Ask the person if there are any arguments
koji bi možda bili drugačiji.
which|would|maybe|be|different
which might be different.
Nadam se da vam je ovo bilo korisno
I hope|reflexive pronoun|that|to you|is|this|was|useful
I hope this was helpful to you.
i ako jeste, onda
and|if|is|then
and if it was, then
pritisnite like,
press|like
press like,
dajte mi jedan lajk
give|me|one|like
give me a like.
i pritisnite subscribe
and|press|subscribe
and press subscribe
i zvonce da vas
and|bell|to|you
and the bell to be
obavestimo kad god ima nešto novo
we will inform you|whenever|there is|there is|something|new
notified whenever there is something new
na našem kanalu
on|our|channel
on our channel
što može da doprinese
what|can|to|contribute
that can contribute
vašem životu, vašem uspehu i vašoj sreći.
your|life|your|success|and|your|happiness
in your life, your success, and your happiness.
Vidimo se!
We see|each other
See you!
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