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Daha önce paylaştığım videolara gelen yorumları okuduktan sonra farkettim ki ||que j'ai partagé|les vidéos|||||| more|before|I shared|videos|coming|comments|after reading|then|I realized|that ||ich geteilt habe||||||| Nach dem Lesen der Kommentare zu den Videos, die ich zuvor geteilt habe, wurde mir klar, dass After reading the comments on the videos I shared before, I realized that

birçok kişi zengin olmak ve many|people|rich|to be|and many people think about being rich and

daha iyi standartlarda yaşamak dediğimde, bunun ||||когда я говорю| ||standards||je dis| more|better|standards|to live|when I said|this ||||ich sage| um einen besseren Lebensstandard zu erreichen. when I say living at better standards, this is what mutlu olmak anlamına geldiğini söylediğimi sanmis. |||||ты думал ||||que je disais|tu as pensé happy|to be|meaning|that I said|that I said|I thought ||||ich gesagt habe|du dachtest Er dachte, ich hätte gesagt, es bedeute, glücklich zu sein. Elle a pensé que je disais que cela signifiait être heureux. Он думал, что я сказал, что это означает быть счастливым. I think you misunderstood me when I said it means to be happy.

Aksine ' para ile saadet olmaz, |||счастье| |||bonheur| on the contrary|money|with|happiness|it doesn't happen |||Glück| Im Gegenteil, mit Geld kann man nicht glücklich werden, Au contraire, 'l'argent ne fait pas le bonheur,' Наоборот, деньги не приносят счастья, On the contrary, 'money cannot buy happiness,'

Türkiyede bu söylediklerinizin uygulanması imkansız в Турции||ваших слов|| en Turquie|||| in der Türkei||was Sie gesagt haben|| in Turkey|this|what you said|implementation|impossible In der Türkei ist es unmöglich, das umzusetzen, was Sie sagen. Il est impossible d'appliquer ce que vous avez dit en Turquie. what you are saying is impossible to implement in Turkey.

burası Türkiye, burada mutlu olamazsın vs diye düşünürseniz, ||||tu ne peux pas||| this is|Turkey|here|happy|you cannot be|etc|that|if you think ||||kannst du nicht|||wenn Sie denken Das ist die Türkei, hier kann man nicht glücklich sein, usw, c'est la Turquie, si vous pensez que vous ne pouvez pas être heureux ici, Если вы думаете, что это Турция, вы не можете быть счастливы здесь и т. д., If you think, 'this is Turkey, you cannot be happy here,' etc. bu tarz yararlı kitaplardan hicbir sey öğrenemez, ||||ничего|| ||||rien|| this|style|useful|from books|no|thing|cannot learn ||||nichts|| er kann aus solchen nützlichen Büchern nichts lernen, vous ne pourrez rien apprendre de ces livres utiles, you can't learn anything from useful books like this,

benzer videoları izlemeniz ya da benzer kitaplar okumanız da ||ваше просмотр|||||| ||vous regardiez|||||| similar|videos|watching|or|also|||| ähnliche Videos ansehen oder ähnliche Bücher lesen regarder des vidéos similaires ou lire des livres similaires non plus watching similar videos or reading similar books will

sizin için sadece zaman kaybından baska birsey olmaz. ||||||ничего| ||||perte de temps||| your|for|only|time||other|thing|it is not ||||Zeitverschwendung||nichts| wird es für Sie nur Zeitverschwendung sein. be nothing but a waste of time for you.

O yüzden, bu kez, Viktor Frankl'ın yazdigi |||||Франкла|который написал |||||de Viktor Frankl| that|reason|this|time|Viktor|Frankl's|writing |||||Frankls| Dieses Mal werde ich mir also ein Buch von Viktor Frankl ansehen. So this time, the book written by Viktor Frankl

‘İnsanın Anlam Arayışı' kitabından öğrendiklerimi sizlerle paylaşmak istedim. ||||то что я узнал||| ||||ce que j'ai appris||| |meaning|search|from the book|what I learned|with you|to share|I wanted Ich wollte mit Ihnen teilen, was ich aus dem Buch "Die Suche des Menschen nach dem Sinn" gelernt habe. I wanted to share what I learned from the book 'Man's Search for Meaning'.

Kitabın yazarı Viktor, ölüm kampı denilen ||||лагерь смерти| |||de la mort|camp| the book's|author|Viktor|death|camp|called ||||das Lager| Viktor, der Autor des Buches, ist der Autor des sogenannten Todeslagers The author of the book, Viktor, spent 3 years as a prisoner in a place called Auschwitz Nazi toplama kampında 3 sene tutsak hayatı yaşamış. Аушвиц(1)|нацист|||||| Auschwitz||||||| Auschwitz|Nazi|concentration|in the camp|years|prisoner|life|he lived |Nazi|Konzentrationslager||||| Er lebte 3 Jahre lang in Gefangenschaft im Nazi-Konzentrationslager Auschwitz. the Auschwitz Nazi concentration camp. Bu kamptaki esirlere aklınıza gelebilecek ||узникам||может прийти в голову ||les prisonniers|| this|in the camp|to the prisoners|to your mind|could come ||den Gefangenen|| Die Gefangenen in diesem Lager erhielten Dans ce camp, toutes les formes de torture possibles sont infligées aux prisonniers. The prisoners in this camp experienced unimaginable things.

her türlü zulüm yapılırmış |||совершался |||on fait every|kind of|oppression|it was said to be done |||wird gemacht wurden alle Arten von Gräueltaten begangen. C'est pourquoi presque tous les jours, un prisonnier ne supporte pas les tortures et all kinds of oppression are inflicted ve o yüzden nerdeyse hergün bir tutsak işkencelere dayanamayıp |||||||пыткам (1)| |||||||à la torture| and|that|reason|almost|every day|a|prisoner|to tortures|not being able to endure |||||||Folterungen| und deshalb erliegt fast jeden Tag ein Gefangener der Folter ... and that's why almost every day a prisoner, unable to endure the torture,

kendi canına kıyarmış. ||убивал себя ||se suiciderait own|life|it was said to take ||sich das Leben nehmen nahm sich das Leben. takes their own life.

Viktorun annesi, babası, eşi ve kardeşi de Виктора|||||| Viktor|||||| Viktors|||||| Viktor's|mother|father|wife||brother|also Viktor's mother, father, spouse, and sibling also

de öbür Nazi kamplarında tutsakmış ve hepsi de ||||был заключён||| |l'autre||dans les autres camps|||| also|other|Nazi||he had been a prisoner|and|all|also |||lagern|gefangen gewesen||| und anderen Nazi-Lagern, und sie wurden alle inhaftiert had also been imprisoned in other Nazi camps and all of them

o kamplarda ölmüşler |в лагерях| |dans les camps| those|in camps|they have died |in den Lagern| had died in those camps

ve Viktor onların öldüğünü çok çok sonraları öğrenmiş. and|Viktor|their|having died|very|very|later|he learned und Viktor erfuhr erst viel, viel später, dass sie tot waren. and Viktor learned about their deaths much later.

Viktor ve onun gibi çok az kişi hayata simsiki tutunarak, |||||||||цепляясь за жизнь ||||||||ferme prise|s'accrochant à Viktor|and|his|like|very|few|person|to life|tightly|holding ||||||||fest|festhalten Viktor und ein paar andere wie er klammern sich ans Leben, Viktor et très peu de personnes comme lui se sont accrochés fermement à la vie, Viktor and very few people like him clung tightly to life,

yapılan zulümlere sonuna kadar dayanmış ve bu zulümlerde ||||выдержал|||угнетениях |les persécutions|||||| the ones that were done|to the oppressions|to the end|as far as|they have endured|and|this|in the oppressions |||||||den Verfolgungen ertrug die Verfolgungen bis zum Ende und in diesen Verfolgungen ont enduré les injustices jusqu'au bout et They have endured the oppression to the end and bile bir anlam bulmaya çalışmışlar. ||||они пытались ||||ils ont essayé even|a|meaning|to find|they have tried ont même essayé de trouver un sens dans ces injustices. even tried to find meaning in this oppression.

Bu da onların hayata olan bağlarını daha da kuvvetlendirmis. |||||связи|||укрепил ||||||||verstärkt hat this|also|their|to life|the one that is|connections|more|also|they have strengthened Dies hat ihre Bindung an das Leben weiter gestärkt. Cela a également renforcé leurs liens avec la vie. This has further strengthened their ties to life.

Kitaptan öğreneceğimiz en önemli ders şudur: |что мы узнаем|||| |nous apprendrons|||| from the book|we will learn|the most|important|lesson|this is La leçon la plus importante que nous pouvons tirer du livre est la suivante : The most important lesson we can learn from the book is this:

Yaşadığımız felaketlere veya karşılaştığımız sorunlara olan |катастрофам|||| |||den wir begegnen|| the disasters we experience|to disasters|or|the problems we face|to problems|related to Die Art und Weise, wie wir auf die Katastrophen, die wir erleben, oder auf die Probleme, mit denen wir konfrontiert sind, reagieren, darf uns nicht überraschen. Sur les catastrophes que nous avons vécues ou les problèmes auxquels nous faisons face. Our reaction to the disasters we experience or the problems we face

tepkimiz sadece bizim bakış açımıza bağlı. наша реакция||||нашей точки зрения| notre réaction||||| our reaction|only|our|perspective|to viewpoint|dependent ||||unserer Perspektive| unsere Reaktion hängt nur von unserer Sichtweise ab. Notre réaction dépend uniquement de notre point de vue. depends solely on our perspective.

Ya onları ‘bu şekilde yaşamanın ne anlamı var ki' either|them|this|way|living|what|meaning|there is|that Ou bien nous les évaluons en disant 'quel sens cela a-t-il de vivre de cette façon' We either evaluate them as 'what's the point of living like this'

diye değerlendirip canımıza kıyarız, ya da |оценив||покончим с собой|| |en évaluant|||| ||unserem Leben|uns das Leben nehmen|| ||||or|also ou alors and take our own lives, or

‘Hayat beni bu sekilde sınıyor. Bu yüzden ben, hayata ||||испытывает|||| |||Art und Weise||||| life|me|this|way|testing|this|reason|I|to life ||||met à l'épreuve|||| 'Life is testing me this way. That's why I am determined to prove how resilient and strong I am'.

ne kadar dayanıklı ve güçlü olduğumu kanıtlamakta kararlıyım' diyerek |||||||я решителен| ||haltbar|||||entschlossen| how|as|resilient|and|strong|I am|to prove|I am determined|saying ||||||prouver|| By saying this, we can give meaning to the challenges we face. yaşadığımız zorluklara bir anlam yükleyebiliriz. ||||можем придать |les difficultés||| we experience|difficulties|a|meaning|we can assign ||||können I would like to give you an example from my own life story.

Size kendi hayat hikayemden bir örnek vermek isterim. |||моей жизни|||| ||vie|mon histoire|||| to you|my own|life|from my story|a|example|to give|I want |||meiner Geschichte|||| I would like to give you an example from my own life story.

Lise son sınıftaydım ||в последнем классе ||j'étais en terminale high school|last|I was in the class ||ich war in der Klasse I was in my last year of high school

ve üniversite sınavlarına çalışıyordum and|university|exams|I was studying and I was studying for university entrance exams

Tüm günlerim okul ve dershane arasında mekik dokumakla geciyordu ||||учебный центр||||проходили ||||cours particuliers|||| all|my days|school|and|tutoring center|between|shuttle|weaving|it was passing ||||Nachhilfeinstitut||hin- und herfahren||verging Ich verbrachte meine Tage damit, zwischen Schule und Klassenzimmer hin und her zu pendeln. Mes journées se passaient à faire des allers-retours entre l'école et les cours de soutien, My days were spent shuttling between school and tutoring

ve anlayacağınız hiçbirimizin sevmediği |вы поймете||не любит ||aucun de nous| and|you will understand|none of us|disliked ||keiner von uns| et vous l'aurez compris, aucune d'entre nous n'aimait and as you can understand, none of us liked it

üniversite sınavına hazırlık dönemini tum acimasizligiyla yaşıyordum. ||||весь этот|своей безжалостностью| ||||toute|| university|exam|preparation|period|all|ruthlessly|I was living ||||ganz|mit aller Grausamkeit| vivre cette période de préparation aux examens universitaires dans toute sa cruauté. I was experiencing the university entrance exam preparation period with all its ruthlessness.

Annem beyin kanseriydi, ||была раком |cerveau|had cancer my mother|brain|she had cancer ||hatte Krebs Meine Mutter hatte Hirnkrebs, Ma mère avait un cancer du cerveau, My mother had brain cancer,

fakat, durumu çok ağır olmasına rağmen hastanede yanlış |||grave|||| but|her condition|very|severe|despite being|although|in the hospital|wrong Cependant, bien que son état soit très grave, il y a eu un mauvais diagnostic à l'hôpital. but despite her very serious condition, she was misdiagnosed with a neurological disease in the hospital.

bir teshis sonucu sinir hastalığı tanisi konulmuştu. ||||||был поставлен |||nerve||diagnostic| a|diagnosis|result|nerve|disease|diagnosis|it had been made |||||Diagnose|gestellt worden war Bei mir wurde eine Nervenerkrankung diagnostiziert. A diagnosis of nerve disease was made as a result of a diagnosis. Suite à un mauvais diagnostic, il a été diagnostiqué une maladie nerveuse.

Annemin durumu o kadar ağırlaşmıştı ki, ayakta duramıyor, ||||усложнилась||| ||||s'était aggravé||| my mother's|condition|that|so|had worsened|that|standing|she couldn't ||||schwer geworden|||konnte nicht stehen L'état de ma mère était devenu si grave qu'elle ne pouvait pas se tenir debout. My mother's condition had worsened so much that she couldn't stand, ancak ben ya da kardeşime dayanarak yürüyebiliyordu ||||||мог ходить mais|||||en m'appuyant| but|I|or|also|to my sibling|by leaning|she could walk ||||||konnte gehen mais elle pouvait marcher en s'appuyant soit sur moi, soit sur mon frère. but she could walk by leaning on either me or my sibling.

Ben ve kardeşim, annem her an gözümüzün önünde ölebilir diye düşünüyorduk, ||||||наших глаз|||| ||||||||||nous pensions I|and|my sibling|my mother|every|moment|our eyes|in front of|she could die|that|we were thinking My sibling and I were thinking that our mother could die at any moment in front of our eyes,

annem de bunun farkındaydı. |||était consciente my mother|also|this|she was aware |||war sich bewusst and my mother was aware of this.

Yalnız, hiçbirimiz, henuz annemin beynindeki tümörün büyüklüğünden ||пока что||мозге матери|опухоли|размера ||encore|||| alone|none of us|yet|my mother's|in her brain|tumor's|size ||||Gehirn von|Tumor| Allerdings konnte bisher niemand von uns feststellen, dass Cependant, aucun de nous n'est encore conscient de la taille de la tumeur dans le cerveau de ma mère. However, none of us were aware of the size of the tumor in my mother's brain yet. haberdar değildik. |не были au courant|n'étions pas aware|we were not |waren nicht Wir wussten nichts davon. We were not informed.

Annem görmesin diye her gün gizli gizli banyoda ağlar |не увидит||||||| |ne pas voir|pour que|||||| my mother|she doesn't see|so that|every|day|secretly|secretly|in the bathroom|I cry |||||||im Badezimmer| Er weint jeden Tag heimlich im Badezimmer, damit Mama ihn nicht sieht. Je pleure discrètement dans la salle de bain chaque jour pour que ma mère ne le voit pas I would secretly cry in the bathroom every day so that my mother wouldn't see me, ve ona ağladığımı hissettirmemeye çalışırdım. |||не давать понять| ||ich weinte|| and|to her|that I cried|to not make her feel|I would try |||ne pas lui| et j'essayais de ne pas lui faire sentir que je pleurais. and I would try not to let her feel that I was crying.

Böyle bir durumda ne üniversite, ne de eğitim umrumda bile değildi. ||||||||je me souciais|| such|a|situation|neither|university|nor|also|education|I care|even|it was not Dans une telle situation, même l'université ou l'éducation ne m'importaient pas. In such a situation, I didn't care about either the university or education. Yaşadığım stresten dolayı ders çalışmaya bir süre ara verdim |||||||pause| I experienced|stress|because of|class|studying|a|period|break|I took Due to the stress I was experiencing, I took a break from studying for a while.

ve ‘zaten annem benim başarımı göremeyecek, o zaman |||||не сможет увидеть|| ||||succès|will not see|| and|already|my mother|my|success|she will not see|that|time ||||Erfolg|nicht sehen|| And I started to think, 'My mother won't be able to see my success anyway, so what does it matter if I go to university?'. üniversitede okumamın ne anlamı var ki' diye düşünmeye başladım. |учёбы||||||| |mes études|||||je me suis demandé|| at university|my studying|what|meaning|there is|that|that|to think|I started |meinem Studium||||||| I started to think, 'What's the point of studying at university? Bir gece uyurken bir ses duydum ve uyandım. a|night|while sleeping|a|sound|I heard|and|I woke up One night while I was sleeping, I heard a sound and woke up.

Bizim ailede annemden sonra uykusu hafif olan |in der Familie||||| our|family|after my mother|after|sleep|light|who is |||||léger| In unserer Familie, nach meiner Mutter, der Leichtschläferin Dans ma famille, après ma mère, il n'y a qu'une seule personne qui a un sommeil léger. In our family, after my mother, I am the only one who has a light sleep.

bir tek ben varım. |||suis a|only|I|I exist C'est moi. I immediately jumped out of bed and left my room.

Hemen yataktan fırladım ve odamdan çıktım. ||||из комнаты| ||je me suis levé||| immediately|from bed|I jumped|and|from my room|I went out ||||meinem Zimmer| I immediately jumped out of bed and left my room. Je me suis immédiatement levé du lit et je suis sorti de ma chambre.

Ve megerse annemin bardagindaki su bitmiş, |||в стакане мамы|| |je suis désolé||dans le verre||est vide and|apparently|my mother's|in the glass|water|finished |||im Glas deiner Mutter||ist leer And it turns out that the water in my mother's glass was finished, evdekileri uyandırmayayım diye de o haliyle duvarlara çarpa çarpa ||||||стенам|ударяться|ударяться les gens à la maison|je ne réveille pas|||||aux murs|frapper| those at home|I didn't want to wake up|so that|also|that|in that state|to the walls|hitting|hitting |||||||stoßen|stoßen and to avoid waking everyone up, she was trying to go to the kitchen,

mutfağa gitmeye çalışıyormus. ||он пытается ||il essaie ||er versucht bumping into the walls in that state.

Annemin yanına gidip ona sımsıkı sarılip ağladım Ich ging zu meiner Mutter, umarmte sie und weinte. I went to my mother, hugged her tightly, and cried.

ve onu yatağına götürdüm. and|him|to his bed|I took and I took him to his bed.

Ardından mutfağa gidip ona su getirdim. |||||j'ai apporté then|to the kitchen|going|to him|water|I brought Then I went to the kitchen and brought him water.

O gece anladım ki, hayat beni ve ailemi sınıyor, ||||la vie|||ma famille| that|night|I understood|that|life|me|and|my family|it is testing |||||||meine Familie| That night I realized that life is testing me and my family,

ve bu yüzden ben moralimi yüksek tutarak bir sekilde hayata tutunmalıyım. ||||настроение||||||должен держаться ||||moral||||||je dois m'accro and|this|reason|I|my morale|high|keeping|a|way|to life|I must hold on ||||||||||festhalten and that's why I should hold on to life somehow by keeping my spirits high.

Tam tersi, hayata, neler yapabileceğimi göstermeliyim. ||||что я смогу|должен показать |au contraire|||je peux faire|je dois montrer exact|opposite|to life|what|I can do|I must show ||||ich tun kann|ich zeigen muss On the contrary, I should show life what I can do.

O geceden sonra, annemin ameliyat olacagi güne kadar |||||дня операции|| |la nuit dernière||||sera|| that|night|after|my mother's|surgery|she will have|day|until |in der Nacht||||Tag|| After that night, until the day my mother would have surgery,

her gece sabaha kadar ders çalıştım. every|night|until morning|until|lessons|I studied I studied all night long.

Sadece öğlenleri uyuyordum. ||спал |l'après-midi|je dormais only|in the afternoons|I was sleeping |mittags|ich schlief I only slept in the afternoons.

Aslinda bu şekilde, ben annemin hastalanmasında на самом деле||||| En parlant|||||la maladie eigentlich|||||Erkrankung meiner Mutter |this|way|I|my mother's|in her getting sick Eigentlich ist es ja so, dass ich der Grund bin. In fact, in this way, I had found meaning in my mother's illness,

bir anlam bulmustum, ||я нашёл ||j'avais trouvé a|meaning|I had found ||ich hatte gefunden with the strength and fighting spirit she gave me,

onun bana verdiği güç ve mücadele ruhuyla, her gece |||||lutte|avec l'esprit|| her|to me|she gave|strength|and|struggle|with spirit|every|night |||||Kampf|mit ihrem Geist|| mit der Kraft und dem Kampfgeist, die er mir gegeben hat, jede Nacht I started to prepare for the university entrance exam with even greater enthusiasm every night.

üniversite sınavına daha da büyük hevesle hazırlanmaya başladım. |||||с большим энтузиазмом|| |||||enthusiasm|| university|exam|more|also|big|with enthusiasm|to prepare|I started |||||mit noch größerer Begeisterung|mich vorbereiten| Ich begann, mich mit noch größerem Enthusiasmus auf die Universitätsprüfung vorzubereiten.

Ve şöyle düşünmeye başladım: and|like this|to think|I started And I started to think like this:

Hayat, annem ya gece kalkıp birşeyler isterse diye düşünmemi sağlayarak ||||||||чтобы я думал|обеспечивая la vie||ou||||||me faire penser|me permettant de life|my mother|or|at night|getting up|something|if she wants|so that|to think|providing |||||||||indem ich La vie, en me faisant penser que ma mère pourrait se lever la nuit et demander quelque chose Life makes me think that my mother might wake up at night and ask for something,

beni her gece uyumamaya ve sabaha kadar ders çalışmaya yönlen diriyor. |||||||||направляет|направляет |||ne pas dormir||||||dirige|me pousse me|every|night|not to sleep|and|until morning|until|study|to work|| |||||||||lenken|veran me pousse chaque nuit à ne pas dormir et à étudier jusqu'au matin. leading me to stay awake every night and study until morning.

Bu şekilde aylar geçti. this|way|months|passed De cette façon, des mois ont passé. In this way, months passed.

Artık annemim beyin kanseri olduğunu biliyorduk |моя мама|||| |ma mère||||nous savions now|my mother|brain|cancer|that it is|we knew |||||wussten Nous savions maintenant que ma mère avait un cancer du cerveau. We already knew that my mother had brain cancer.

ve kendi ulkem olan Azerbaycanda kanser tedavisi cok da gelismedigi icin ||||в Азербайджане|||||развилась| ||mon pays||en Azerbaïdjan|||||développé| and|own|country|that is|in Azerbaijan|cancer|treatment|very|also|it has not developed|because ||meinem Land||Aserbaidschan|||||| und weil die Krebsbehandlung in meinem Land, Aserbaidschan, nicht sehr weit entwickelt ist. And since cancer treatment in our country, Azerbaijan, is not very advanced,

babamla annem ameliyat için Rusyaya gitmişlerdi. ||||в Россию| ||||en Russie| with my father|my mother|surgery|for|to Russia|they had gone ||||Russland| my father and mother had gone to Russia for surgery.

Annem ameliyata girmeden önce bana telefonda, |операцию|||| |à l'opération|||| my mother|to the surgery|before entering|before|to me|on the phone Before my mother went into surgery, she told me on the phone,

‘annenin beynindeki tümör o kadar büyük ki, yaşama şansı sadece %1. матери||||||||| de la mère||tumeur||||||| der Mutter||Tumor||||||| your mother|in her brain|tumor|that|so|big|that|living|chance|only 'The tumor in your mother's brain is so large that her chance of survival is only 1%.

Annenizin ölümüne hazırlıklı olun ve evlatları olarak |смерти||||| votre mère|à la mort de|préparés|||enfants| eurer Mutter|||||| your mother's|death|prepared|be|and|children|as Be prepared for your mother's death and as her children,

bolca dua edin' dediler. prie||| viel|viel beten|| plenty|prayer|make|they said viel beten", sagten sie. pray abundantly,' they said.

Bir evlat için bunu duymanın ne kadar zor olduğunu tahmin edersiniz... |enfant||||||||| a|child|for|this|hearing|how|so|difficult|that it is|guess|you would |Kind||||||||| You can imagine how hard it is for a child to hear this...

Daha sonra öğrendim ki, annem, ben ve kardeşim için, later|then|I learned|that|my mother|I|and|my sibling|for Later I learned that my mother had recorded a farewell video for my father saying, 'my beautiful children, get along well with each other,

babama ‘ birbirinizle iyi geçinin benim güzel evlatlarım, ||||||мои дети |entre vous||entendez-vous|||mes enfants to my father|with each other|good|get along|my|beautiful|my children |||versteht euch|||meine schönen Kinder I am dying now, I wish I could see you one last time.'

ben artık ölüyorum, keşke sizi son bir defa daha görebilseydim' |||||||||мог бы увидеть |||||||||je pouvais voir I|now|I am dying|I wish|you|last|one|time|again|I could see |||||||||sehen könnte This was the message she wanted to convey.

şeklinde bir veda videosu çektirmiş. ||||снял ||vidéo d'adieu|vidéo|a fait in the form of|a|farewell|video|I had recorded ||||drehen lassen It was a heartfelt goodbye.

Bütün bu stres ve zorluklar içinde kendimde biraz güç buldum all|this|stress|and|difficulties|in|in myself|a little|strength|I found Amid all this stress and difficulties, I found a bit of strength in myself.

ve kendime şöyle dedim : Fuat, bu sınava gireceksin, ||||Фуат|||ты сдашь ||||Fuat|||tu vas passer and|to myself|like this|I said|Fuat|this|exam|you will enter ||||Fuat||| And I said to myself: Fuat, you will take this exam,

çok iyi puan tutturacaksın ve annen de |||получишь||| |||tu vas obtenir||| very|good|score|you will achieve|and|your mother|also |||du wirst erzielen||| you will score very well, and your mother will ameliyattan çıkınca bunu duyup çok mutlu olacak. операции|||услышав это||| l'opération|||entendre cela||| der Operation|||||| from surgery|when she comes out|this|hearing|very|happy|she will be be very happy to hear this when she comes out of surgery.

Sınava girdim ve dediğimi yaptim. Cok iyi bir puan tutturdum. |||||||||получил балл ||||j'ai fait|||||j'ai obtenu to the exam|I entered|and|what I said|I did|very|good|a|score|I achieved ||||ich habe gemacht|||||erzielt I took the exam and did what I said. I scored very well.

Annemin ameliyatı başarılı geçmisti ve babama çektirdiği ||||||сделал |||avait réussi|||qu'elle a fait subir my mother's|surgery|successful|it had gone|and|to my father|she had him take ||||||sie ihm gemacht hat Die Operation meiner Mutter war ein Erfolg, und ich bin mir nicht sicher. My mother's surgery was successful and she made my father go through it.

o videoyu da sildirdi. |||удалил |||a supprimé that|video|also|she had him delete |||hat löschen lassen She also had him delete that video.

Annemin geçirdiği ameliyat o kadar riskli ve beynindeki |subie|||||| my mother's|she underwent|surgery|that|so|risky|and|in her brain |die Operation|||||| My mother's surgery was so risky and it was on her brain. tümör o kadar büyüktü ki, hastane bizden bunu sergilerde kullanabilme izni bile aldı. |||||||||использовать||| ||||||||dans les expositions|utilisation||| tumor|that|so|it was big|that|hospital|from us|this|in exhibitions|being able to use|permission|even|it took ||||||||Ausstellungen|||| Der Tumor war so groß, dass das Krankenhaus uns sogar um die Erlaubnis bat, ihn für Ausstellungen zu verwenden. the tumor was so large that the hospital even got permission from us to use it in exhibitions. Bu hikayeyi anlatmaktaki amacım, kitabın ana fikri olan ||в изложении||||| ||narrating|mon but|||| this|story|in telling|my purpose|book's|main|idea|that is ||erzählen||||| My purpose in telling this story is to very simply explain to you the main idea of the book,

“her şeyde farklı bir anlam bulmaya çalışmanın, ne kadar önemli” |всё|||||||| |chose|||||||| every|in everything|different|a|meaning|to find|trying|how|so|important "how important it is to try to find a different meaning in everything."

olduğunu size çok basit bir şekilde anlatabilmekti. ||||||объяснить ||||||pouvait expliquer that it is|to you|very|simple|a|way|to be able to explain ||||||vermitteln können

Unutmayın ki, don't forget|that Remember that,

hayatta insanı çaresiz bırakacak hiçbir sorun yoktur. |||оставит||| ||sans solution|laissera||| in life|a person|helpless|will leave|no|problem|there is not ||hilflos|lassen||| there is no problem in life that can leave a person helpless.

Bize çaresizlik hissi veren de güç veren de, |désespoir|sentiment||||| to us|helplessness|feeling|giving|also|strength|giving|also ||Gefühl||||| What gives us the feeling of helplessness and what gives us strength, etrafımızda o lup bitenler değil, kafamızın içindekiler. ||это|||в нашей голове| autour de nous||ceux qui|ceux qui se passent||notre tête| um uns herum||die Gedanken|||| around us|those|that|ending|not|in our minds|those inside is not what happens around us, but what is in our minds.

Yani olaylara bakış açımız. |||наша точка зрения |||notre perspective so|events|perspective|our |||unsere Perspektive So our perspective on events.

Mutluluğu dışarıda değil, içinizde arayın. |||en vous|cherchez happiness|outside|not|inside you|seek ||||sucht Seek happiness not outside, but within yourself.

Bütün bunları bildikten sonra, şimdiki durumumuzla |||||нашей ситуации ||savoir|||notre situation all|these|knowing|after|current|our situation |||||unserer Situation After knowing all this, we can still be happy with our current situation

ve sonu gelmeyen sorunlarımızla bile mutlu olabiliriz, |||с нашими проблемами||| ||qui ne viennent pas|nos problèmes||| and|end|not coming|our problems|even|happy|we can be |||unseren Problemen||| and our endless problems,

ya da tam tersi, her şeye gücümüzün yettiği refah bir ||||||наша сила||| ||||||notre pouvoir||| or|but|exact|opposite|every|everything|our power|that we can|prosperous|a ||||||||Wohlstand| oder umgekehrt, allmächtiger Wohlstand ist ein or conversely, even if we are in a prosperous life where we can handle everything, hayat içinde olsak bile, küçük sorunlarla dertlenerek ||||||переживая проблемы ||si nous sommes|||avec de petits problèmes|en se plaignant life|inside|we were|even|small|problems|worrying |||||Problemen|mit kleinen Problemen selbst wenn wir im Leben stehen, können wir uns nicht anstrengen we can make ourselves unhappy by worrying about small problems. kendimizi mutsuz edebiliriz. ||можем ||nous pouvons ourselves|unhappy|we can make In fact, around us, with our family or friends,

Aslında etrafımızda, ailemizle veya arkadaşlarımızla ||с семьей|| ||mit unserer Familie|| actually|around us|with our family|or|with our friends ||||nos amis

yaşadığımız sorunlar bizim beynimizin ürettiği seyler değil. |||||вещи| |||notre cerveau|produit|choses| the problems we experience|problems|our|our brain's|produced|things|not |||||Dinge| The problems we experience are not things produced by our brain.

Fakat o sorunlara gösterdiğimiz reaksiyon, |||показали| |||laquelle nous avons montré|réaction but|those|problems|we show|reaction ||||Reaktion However, the reactions we show to those problems,

olayları iyi yönden veya kötü yönden algılamamız ||||||восприятие ||||||notre perception events|good|side|or|bad|side|our perception ||||||unsere Wahrnehmung unsere Wahrnehmung von Ereignissen in einer guten oder schlechten Weise our perception of events in a positive or negative way

kendi düşüncelerimizin birer sonucu. |наших мыслей|| |nos pensées|chacune|résultat our|thoughts|each|result |unserer Gedanken|| is a result of our own thoughts.

Demem o ki, bakış açımızı değiştirerek ||||нашу точку зрения|изменив Je dis||||notre perspective|en changeant I mean|that|that|perspective|our|by changing ||||unsere Perspektive| What I mean is, by changing our perspective,

en kötü durumlarda bile iyi bir şeyler bulmak bizim elimizde. the|worst|situations|even|good|a|things|to find|our|in our hands it is in our hands to find something good even in the worst situations.

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