Thoughtful Chinese essays, 《孤单是对你最好的惩罚》王朔

《孤单是对你最好的惩罚》王朔

王朔：孤单是对你最好的惩罚

文 | 王朔主播 | 云公子

来源 | 王朔

你苦，你比卡扎菲还苦，你总是一副苦大仇深的模样，似乎全世界都亏欠了你，没有一件事顺心，没有一个人顺眼，社会太黑暗，人心太险恶，你认为人与人之间都是种利益关系，各取所需罢了，你不相信爱情，两个人在一起不过是因为寂寞。你对人总是怀有戒备心，所以虽然你在人群中，虽然你脸上挂着笑，虽然你说着无所谓，却依然无法掩饰你眼底的孤单；

你忙，你比奥巴马还忙，你总是马不停蹄地在奔波，你总有很多应酬，你总有打不完的电话，你的口头禅是 “ 我忙啊 ”，这个世界仿佛只有你在忙，你没有时间谈情说爱，因为你在为自己伟大的目标而奋斗，你想改变世界，你最大的痛苦是时间总是不够用。当你拖着疲惫的身体回到清冷的房间时，偶尔也会感到一丝孤单，终有一天，这一丝丝孤单累积起来将会充满整个房间，让你无处可逃；

你伤，你比林黛玉还伤，你沉浸在上一段感情中无法自拔，那些痛彻心扉，那些刻骨铭心，都让你有种欲罢不能的忧伤，时间长了，你自己也分不清究竟是忧伤还是为了忧伤而忧伤。习惯性忧伤就和习惯性流产一样，都有很严重的内在负面原因，一旦形成很难改变。即使又有一个爱情的机会，你也会习惯性忧伤，习惯性逃避，然后习惯性孤单；

你宅，你比普鲁斯特还宅，你沉迷网络，在游戏中呼风唤雨，体验成功的感觉；在 QQ 上勾三搭四，幻想一个艳遇从天而降；整宿看着偶像剧，有那么一瞬间，你觉得自己就是那个男主角。你天天吃泡面天天熬夜天天便秘月月不洗脚月月不理发月月不换衣服，终于有一天，你偶尔看到了镜中的自己 —— 红肿的双眼浮肿的大脸臃肿的身材。。。从那一天起，你恨所有镜子以及能反光的东西，自然也包括异性嫌恶的瞳孔。你喜欢低头走路，你说话时不敢看对方的眼睛，你的视野总停留脚边三十厘米以内，你看不到天边灿烂的晚霞，也看不到天上璀璨的群星，你总在为脸上的某些瑕疵焦虑，即使对方善意的微笑，你也会认为是对自己的嘲笑，于是你仓皇逃离，只留下一个孤单的背影；

你超凡脱俗，你卓尔不群，你是宇宙中唯一的你，所以你对你的另一半也绝不随便，你希望你的另一半玉洁冰清清丽脱俗知书达理善解人意色艺双绝人神共赏。最后，你悲催地发现这个对象好像不存在银河系中，于是你幻想有一天驾着飞船驶向外太空，在茫茫星际中孤单地穿行；

你缺乏安全感，认为太漂亮的 Ho 不住，太丑的带不出，太活泼的过于风骚，太文静的缺乏情趣，年纪大的现实，年纪小的肤浅，好不容易碰到一个年纪合适、不美不丑、活泼文静适中的，结果是已婚的。

你感情丰富，你说爱情的保鲜期只有 7 天，女人对你来说，不过是件装饰品，戴上和摘下同样挥洒自如。你很享受这过程，你从不动真心，可能你也动过，不过你很快就会控制住，因为你深信 “ 谁动真心谁倒霉 ” 的道理。你换女朋友就像换手机，4S 上市后就毫不犹豫抛弃 4。但是你迟早会发现你在抛弃别人的同时别人也在抛弃你，终有一天，你拿起手机翻遍电话薄也不知道打给谁诉说真心。

所以，孤单是对你最好的惩罚，所幸惩罚的不止你一个人。

《孤单是对你最好的惩罚》王朔 Loneliness punishes you|Wang Shuo "Einsamkeit ist die beste Strafe für dich", sagte Wang Shuo. "Loneliness is the best punishment for you" Wang Shuo 'La soledad es el mejor castigo para ti' Wang Shuo "La solitude est la meilleure punition pour toi", dit Wang Shuo. 「孤独はお前にとって最高の罰だ」王朔。

王朔：孤单是对你最好的惩罚 Wang Shuo: Loneliness is the best punishment for you

文 | 王朔主播 | 云公子 |||Cloud|Young Master Text | Wang Shuo anchor | Yun Gongzi

来源 | 王朔 Source | Wang Shuo

你苦，你比卡扎菲还苦，你总是一副苦大仇深的模样，似乎全世界都亏欠了你，没有一件事顺心，没有一个人顺眼，社会太黑暗，人心太险恶，你认为人与人之间都是种利益关系，各取所需罢了，你不相信爱情，两个人在一起不过是因为寂寞。 ||||Gaddafi|even more miserable|||a look|deep resentment||||||owes you||||||||||pleasant to the eye||||||malicious||||||||||||mutual benefit||||||||||||loneliness You are suffering, you are suffering more than Gaddafi, you always look like you are bitter and hateful, it seems that the whole world owes you, nothing goes your way, no one is pleasing to your eyes, the society is too dark, people’s hearts are too sinister, You think that there is a relationship of interests between people, each takes what he needs, you don't believe in love, two people are only together because of loneliness. 你对人总是怀有戒备心，所以虽然你在人群中，虽然你脸上挂着笑，虽然你说着无所谓，却依然无法掩饰你眼底的孤单； ||||harbor|guarded心态||||||||||||||||||||||||loneliness in eyes|| You are always wary of people, so even though you are in the crowd, even though you have a smile on your face, even though you say it doesn't matter, you still can't hide the loneliness in your eyes;

你忙，你比奥巴马还忙，你总是马不停蹄地在奔波，你总有很多应酬，你总有打不完的电话，你的口头禅是 “ 我忙啊 ”，这个世界仿佛只有你在忙，你没有时间谈情说爱，因为你在为自己伟大的目标而奋斗，你想改变世界，你最大的痛苦是时间总是不够用。 ||||Obama|||||busy as a bee|||||||||||||||||I'm busy|||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||| You are busy, you are busier than Obama, you are always on the go, you always have a lot of entertainment, you always have endless phone calls, your mantra is "I'm busy", it seems that only you are busy in this world, You don't have time for romance, because you're fighting for your great goals, you want to change the world, and your biggest pain is that you're always running out of time. 当你拖着疲惫的身体回到清冷的房间时，偶尔也会感到一丝孤单，终有一天，这一丝丝孤单累积起来将会充满整个房间，让你无处可逃； ||||exhausted||||cold room||||||||||||||a trace||accumulate||||||||nowhere to escape When you drag your tired body back to the cold room, you will occasionally feel a trace of loneliness, and one day, this trace of loneliness will accumulate to fill the entire room, leaving you nowhere to escape;

你伤，你比林黛玉还伤，你沉浸在上一段感情中无法自拔，那些痛彻心扉，那些刻骨铭心，都让你有种欲罢不能的忧伤，时间长了，你自己也分不清究竟是忧伤还是为了忧伤而忧伤。 ||||Lin Daiyu|even sadder||immersed||||||unable to extricate||heart-wrenching|heartache||deeply etched|||||unable to stop|||||||||can't tell|||||||| You are hurt, you are hurt more than Lin Daiyu, you are immersed in the last relationship and can't extricate yourself, those heart-wrenching, those unforgettable, let you have a kind of sadness that you can't stop, after a long time, you can't tell whether it is sadness or sadness. Sorrow for sorrow's sake. 习惯性忧伤就和习惯性流产一样，都有很严重的内在负面原因，一旦形成很难改变。 |||||habitual miscarriage||||||||||||| Like habitual miscarriage, habitual sadness has serious internal negative reasons, which are difficult to change once formed. 即使又有一个爱情的机会，你也会习惯性忧伤，习惯性逃避，然后习惯性孤单； |||||||||||||avoidance||| Even if there is another chance of love, you will be habitually sad, habitually avoiding, and then habitually lonely;

你宅，你比普鲁斯特还宅，你沉迷网络，在游戏中呼风唤雨，体验成功的感觉；在 QQ 上勾三搭四，幻想一个艳遇从天而降；整宿看着偶像剧，有那么一瞬间，你觉得自己就是那个男主角。 ||||Proust|even more宅|||||||dominate the game||||||QQ||flirting|||romantic encounter|falling from the sky|whole night||idol drama||||||||| You are a house, you are more house than Proust, you are addicted to the Internet, you are in the game, and you experience the feeling of success; you are hooked on QQ, and you fantasize about a romantic encounter falling from the sky; watching idol dramas all night, there is such a moment , You think you are the hero. 你天天吃泡面天天熬夜天天便秘月月不洗脚月月不理发月月不换衣服，终于有一天，你偶尔看到了镜中的自己 —— 红肿的双眼浮肿的大脸臃肿的身材。 |||instant noodles||||constipation||||foot washing||||haircut||||change clothes||||||||mirror||||red and swollen|||puffy face||big face|bulky body|| You eat instant noodles every day, stay up late every day, have constipation every day, don’t wash your feet every month, don’t cut your hair every month, don’t change your clothes every day, and finally one day, you occasionally see yourself in the mirror—— red, swollen eyes, big face, bloated figure. 。。从那一天起，你恨所有镜子以及能反光的东西，自然也包括异性嫌恶的瞳孔。 ||||||||||reflection|||||||||pupil . . From that day on, you hated all mirrors and things that reflect light, including pupils that the opposite sex hates naturally. . . Kể từ ngày đó, bạn ghét tất cả những chiếc gương và những thứ phản chiếu ánh sáng, kể cả con ngươi mà người khác giới tự nhiên ghét. 你喜欢低头走路，你说话时不敢看对方的眼睛，你的视野总停留脚边三十厘米以内，你看不到天边灿烂的晚霞，也看不到天上璀璨的群星，你总在为脸上的某些瑕疵焦虑，即使对方善意的微笑，你也会认为是对自己的嘲笑，于是你仓皇逃离，只留下一个孤单的背影； |||||||||||||||||at your feet|thirty centimeters|within 30 centimeters||||||||||brilliant stars||the stars||||||||flaws||||kindness||||||||||||||panicked escape||||||| You like to walk with your head down, you dare not look into each other’s eyes when you talk, your vision always stays within 30 centimeters from your feet, you can’t see the brilliant sunset in the sky, and you can’t see the bright stars in the sky, you are always worrying about your face Anxiety about certain flaws in your body, even if the other party smiles kindly, you will think it is a mockery of yourself, so you flee in a hurry, leaving only a lonely back;

你超凡脱俗，你卓尔不群，你是宇宙中唯一的你，所以你对你的另一半也绝不随便，你希望你的另一半玉洁冰清清丽脱俗知书达理善解人意色艺双绝人神共赏。 |extraordinary||outstanding||||||||||||||||||||||pure and clear|pure and beautiful|extraordinary|knowledgeable and reasonable||beauty and talent|admired by all You are extraordinary, you are outstanding, you are the only you in the universe, so you will not be casual with your other half, you hope that your other half is clean, clear, beautiful, refined, knowledgeable, understanding, understanding, beautiful and artistic. 最后，你悲催地发现这个对象好像不存在银河系中，于是你幻想有一天驾着飞船驶向外太空，在茫茫星际中孤单地穿行； |||||||||||||||||driving a spaceship|spaceship||outer space||vastness of space|interstellar space||||traveling through In the end, you find sadly that this object does not seem to exist in the Milky Way, so you imagine that one day you will drive a spaceship to outer space and travel alone in the vast interstellar space;

你向往自由，你喜欢流浪，你最大的爱好就是拿着地图幻想旅行，你是如风般的男子，有一颗漂泊的心，你也向往美丽的邂逅和浪漫的爱情，常常幻想一些电视剧情节把自己感动得要哭，但是你给不了任何保证，甚至不敢承诺，你擅长不主动不拒绝不负责不后悔，但现在的姑娘都聪明了很多，早在一公里外就看穿了你的小伎俩，所以结果就是你一个人走，孤单地走。 |||||drifting|||||||||||||like the wind||man|||drifting heart|||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||see through||||||||||||||| You yearn for freedom, you like wandering, your biggest hobby is to take a map to imagine travel, you are a man like the wind, you have a wandering heart, you also yearn for beautiful encounters and romantic love, often fantasize about some TV drama plots I was so moved that I wanted to cry, but you can’t give any guarantees, you dare not even promise, you are good at not taking the initiative, not refusing, not being responsible, not regretting, but girls nowadays are much smarter, and they can see through your tricks as early as a kilometer away , so the result is that you walk alone, alone.

你缺乏安全感，认为太漂亮的 Ho 不住，太丑的带不出，太活泼的过于风骚，太文静的缺乏情趣，年纪大的现实，年纪小的肤浅，好不容易碰到一个年纪合适、不美不丑、活泼文静适中的，结果是已婚的。 ||sense of security||||Ho(1)||too ugly||||||||flirtatious||too quiet|||interest||||||||||||||average-looking|||moderate||||married| You are insecure, you think too beautiful Ho can’t stand it, too ugly can’t bring it out, too lively and coquettish, too quiet and lack of fun, the reality of old age, the superficiality of young age, it’s hard to meet a man of the right age, Neither beautiful nor ugly, lively and quiet and moderate, turned out to be married.

你感情丰富，你说爱情的保鲜期只有 7 天，女人对你来说，不过是件装饰品，戴上和摘下同样挥洒自如。 |emotionally rich|||||shelf life||||||||||decorative item|||||effortlessly handle You are full of emotions, and you say that the shelf life of love is only 7 days. To you, a woman is just an ornament, and you can put it on and take it off equally freely. 你很享受这过程，你从不动真心，可能你也动过，不过你很快就会控制住，因为你深信 “ 谁动真心谁倒霉 ” 的道理。 ||||||||||||have been sincere||||||||||firm belief|Who moves first||||| You enjoy this process very much, you never move your heart, maybe you have moved, but you will soon control it, because you deeply believe in the truth that "whoever moves the heart will be unlucky". 你换女朋友就像换手机，4S 上市后就毫不犹豫抛弃 4。 |||||||||||without hesitation| Changing your girlfriend is like changing your mobile phone. After the 4S is launched, you will not hesitate to abandon the 4. 但是你迟早会发现你在抛弃别人的同时别人也在抛弃你，终有一天，你拿起手机翻遍电话薄也不知道打给谁诉说真心。 ||||||||possessive particle||||||||||||||scroll through|phone book|||||||confide| But sooner or later, you will find that when you abandon others, others also abandon you. One day, you pick up your mobile phone and search the phone book, but you don’t know who to call to tell your sincerity.

所以，孤单是对你最好的惩罚，所幸惩罚的不止你一个人。 ||||||||Fortunately|||||| Therefore, loneliness is the best punishment for you, but fortunately, you are not the only one punished.