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It`s Okay To Be Smart, Why Do We Get Embarrassed? (2)

Why Do We Get Embarrassed? (2)

We're also more likely to feel embarrassment

in front of members of our own social group

versus outsiders.

So embarrassment shows us where we fit in

and where we don't.

Feeling embarrassed can even benefit our social group.

People who show embarrassment are more likely to engage

in beneficial or pro-social behaviors

like sharing and cooperating.

Because embarrassment follows the rules of society,

what counts as embarrassing changes from culture to culture.

For example, if I visit Japan

and wear my shoes inside my friend's house,

my friend might be embarrassed for me

since that's a social no-no,

even though it's not a big deal in the United States,

and I might become embarrassed because of my faux pas,

which reminds me to be a better guest.

Embarrassment's ability to change our behavior explains

why we relive our most embarrassing moments,

by remembering our mistakes,

we learn from them so that we don't make them again.

Embarrassment isn't our only complex social human emotion,

we also have empathy, which embarrassment can make us feel.

The empathy we feel from embarrassment motivates us

to be better humans and community members.

So while embarrassment feels like the end of the world,

it actually brings us together.

Knowing when we're out of line

and apologizing strengthens our relationships.

That sense of connection can hopefully help us

all feel less alone even when we're walking around

in a pickle suit.

Stay curious.

You don't want to be embarrassed and be the last person

who hasn't subscribed to this channel

and clicked the bell button

so that you find out when we upload a new video, do you?

Doing that is the best way to find our videos

and help other curious learners find them

in this great adventure that is the YouTube algorithm.

You can also join our Patreon page,

help us make more videos like this one

and all the rest that you see on this channel.

We really appreciate your support,

there's a link down in the description

where you can find out more.

And we will see you in the next episode,

probably not in a pickle suit though.

Oh no, don't film me right now,

I'm just checking on my car, it's fine.

- Something that's so authentic,

and I think you're really cool and you've gained my respect.

- Authentically pickle.

Why Do We Get Embarrassed? (2) Warum ist es uns peinlich? (2) Why Do We Get Embarrassed? (2) ¿Por qué nos avergonzamos? (2) Pourquoi sommes-nous gênés ? (2) Perché ci sentiamo in imbarazzo? (2) 人はなぜ恥をかくのか?(2) 우리는 왜 당황할까? (2) Waarom schamen we ons? (2) Dlaczego się wstydzimy? (2) Porque é que nos sentimos envergonhados? (2) Почему нам бывает стыдно? (2) Neden Utanırız? (2) Чому ми соромимося? (2) 为什么我们会感到尴尬? (2) 為什麼我們會感到尷尬? (2)

We're also more likely to feel embarrassment We're also more likely to feel embarrassment Também é mais provável que nos sintamos embaraçados

in front of members of our own social group

versus outsiders. |зовнішніми

So embarrassment shows us where we fit in Assim, o embaraço mostra-nos onde nos encaixamos

and where we don't. e onde não o fazemos.

Feeling embarrassed can even benefit our social group.

People who show embarrassment are more likely to engage

in beneficial or pro-social behaviors

like sharing and cooperating.

Because embarrassment follows the rules of society,

what counts as embarrassing changes from culture to culture.

For example, if I visit Japan

and wear my shoes inside my friend's house,

my friend might be embarrassed for me

since that's a social no-no,

even though it's not a big deal in the United States,

and I might become embarrassed because of my faux pas,

which reminds me to be a better guest.

Embarrassment's ability to change our behavior explains сором'язливості||||||

why we relive our most embarrassing moments,

by remembering our mistakes,

we learn from them so that we don't make them again.

Embarrassment isn't our only complex social human emotion,

we also have empathy, which embarrassment can make us feel.

The empathy we feel from embarrassment motivates us ||||||спонукає нас|

to be better humans and community members.

So while embarrassment feels like the end of the world,

it actually brings us together.

Knowing when we're out of line

and apologizing strengthens our relationships. |вибачення|||

That sense of connection can hopefully help us

all feel less alone even when we're walking around

in a pickle suit.

Stay curious.

You don't want to be embarrassed and be the last person

who hasn't subscribed to this channel

and clicked the bell button

so that you find out when we upload a new video, do you?

Doing that is the best way to find our videos

and help other curious learners find them

in this great adventure that is the YouTube algorithm.

You can also join our Patreon page,

help us make more videos like this one

and all the rest that you see on this channel.

We really appreciate your support,

there's a link down in the description

where you can find out more.

And we will see you in the next episode,

probably not in a pickle suit though.

Oh no, don't film me right now,

I'm just checking on my car, it's fine.

- Something that's so authentic,

and I think you're really cool and you've gained my respect.

- Authentically pickle.