Of children, language and relaxation
Hi everyone, this is Owen and this is my podcast for Friday 4th December 2015. How are you all doing? It has been a rather uneventful [1] month here in Kunming. The highlight [2] was probably Singles' Day. If you listened to my podcast a year ago, you will remember that the day has been hijacked [3] by an online shopping website called Taobao. It has become the largest day of online shopping in the world. Every year the Chinese spend billions in just 24 hours. There are supposed to be big discounts [4] on the day, but I have my doubts. I still joined in though. I bought some pots and pans, a hoover [5], a jar of tahini, a food processor [6] and a kilo of beetroots [7], which are impossible to find in Kunming. Today, I'll be talking about a big announcement [8] made by the Chinese government, what it's like to learn Chinese and my day at the spa.
I think you all know about the one-child policy [9] in China. Well, on October 29th this year the Chinese government announced a change in their one-child policy. From March next year all married couples in China can have two children. Under Mao Zedong families were encouraged [10] to have as many children as possible and the Chinese population grew enormously [11]. In response, the one-child policy was introduced. However, it's important to remember that the policy only affected about 40% of the Chinese. For example, ethnic minorities could have more children and the Han Chinese could have two children if they lived in the countryside. Couples in cities could have two children if they paid a large fine [12]. And if you were rich, you could always travel abroad to have a second child. There were always a lot of families with more than one child. So why has the government decided to change the policy? Well, China has too many old people and not enough young people to work and look after their parents and grandparents. Will the change in policy lead to more babies? Probably not. Two years ago the government already started making it easier for people to have a second child but not many people wanted to have a second child. I've asked some of my friends who are young parents or who could soon be parents whether they would like to have more than one child. Remember, my friends are all only children themselves, they have no brothers or sisters. Almost all of them only want to have one child. The main reason is that they want to give their child the best possible education and this is very expensive in China. The government doesn't help parents much with money for education and so on. Also, young Chinese couples usually have four parents and sometimes grandparents to look after. If they have more children they have less time and money to help them to look after the old people. If the Chinese government wants more babies it will probably have to do more to help parents.
After my last podcast Guy asked about learning Chinese. So I thought I'd tell you a little bit about my experience of learning Chinese. First of all, it is difficult but not impossible. When I first arrived in China, I was a little lazy. Learning the language seemed like an impossible task and I didn't come primarily to learn the language. However, I have taken some lessons. And the longer I'm here, the more I pick up along the way. As with all languages some elements are easier to learn than others. For example, Chinese grammar is rather simple. A Chinese friend of mine once told me that he never studied Chinese grammar in school. The hardest part is probably the writing. Because there is no alphabet, you have to learn thousands of characters in order to be able to read and write. I have studied some characters and I can read and write a few but I have a long way to go. At the moment I have a teacher who knows a lot about Chinese characters and loves to tell us stories about individual characters to help us remember them. The individual characters are made up of some of the same components, so it does get easier. Another very hard part of learning Chinese is the speaking. As you might know, Chinese is a tonal language. Every syllable in Chinese has at least four tones. You have to know whether to keep your voice flat, have your voice rise or drop. Use the wrong tone and you might be calling your mother a horse! It's hard enough to hear the difference sometimes and almost impossible to speak quickly using the right tones. A lot of Chinese aren't used to hearing non-native speakers speaking Chinese, so it can be very frustrating when you think you are using all the right tones but they just don't understand what you are saying. I know quite a few Chinese learners who have given up on the tones just because it's so hard. Lastly, if everyone spoke standard Chinese, it would make things a lot easier. But China is huge and there are countless [13] dialects and accents. So there you go, it's very difficult!
One of the great joys of living in the east is the spa and massage culture. In China, Korea, Japan and Thailand variations of spas are super popular and affordable [14]. In China it's very common to spend an afternoon, day or night in a spa with friends to relax and recover. When I first moved to Beijing I was amazed at how common and cheap they were. I always associated spas with luxury and mountains. Of course not all of them in Beijing were very nice but it's a great way to unwind [15]. In Kunming I went for the first time last week with a friend. It's a fairly small spa down by a lake. The lobby was very luxurious with lots of marble and a big chandelier [16]. First impressions are very important, I guess. Once we were inside though it wasn't as luxurious anymore. There were separate areas for the men and the women. In the changing room we were given a nice towel, a pair of slippers and a bathrobe [17]. From there we walked to the pool area. This particular spa has a large heated swimming pool, a few Jacuzzis, showers, a sauna and a steam room. There were also chairs and tables where you could sit and chat. As for refreshments [18], there were lots of fruit and drinks on offer. The Chinese have a very different sense of privacy. I'm not used to being naked with lots of people around me, especially when those people have never seen a naked foreigner before and are quite curious [19]. After spending some time in the sauna and the Jacuzzi, we put on our robes and headed upstairs where there was a huge Chinese buffet and a lounge with rows of comfortable armchairs. Each seat had a personal screen for entertainment, a blanket to keep warm and a button to press for drinks and massages. We got comfortable with a cup of tea and a foot massage for half an hour before going to the buffet for a nice dinner. There was a real mix of people there, three generations of families, kids, friends, couples, workmates and business associates. Everyone goes to spas here and I've heard that it's quite common to do business there as well. Instead of inviting a client out for a nice dinner, you take them to a fancy spa for an evening. And the best thing about these establishments [20] is that they're open 24 hours a day. If you have a hangover, some people might tell you to drink lots of water or take some aspirin. Here the advice is always: ‘Go to the spa!'
Thank you, Edith, for your comment. I hope you enjoyed your holiday in Thailand and Laos. This is my last podcast before Christmas, so I would like to wish you all a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. I'm going to go to Beijing for Christmas to visit some friends. It's been a year and a half since I left, so I'm really looking forward to it. You'll hear from Gerry in two weeks and I'll be back in January. You can listen to all our podcasts by visiting our website www.podclub.ch or by downloading our app. You can also download our vocabulary trainer to help you learn new words. Until next year, goodbye! Glossaire: Owen in China [1] uneventful: when nothing interesting or exciting happens
[2] highlight: here: the most memorable part
[3] to hijack: here: to use and take advantage of
[4] discount: when the original price of something is reduced
[5] hoover: British English for a vacuum cleaner, an electrical device used to clean floors
[6] food processor: an electrical kitchen device used to chop, mix or puree things
[7] beetroot: a round purple vegetable
[8] announcement: here: a formal public statement by the government
[9] policy: a government plan
[10] to encourage: here: to give support
[11] enormously: here: by a very large number
[12] fine: money that you have to pay if you break the law
[13] countless: too many to count
[14] affordable: not expensive
[15] to unwind: here: to relax after work or a stressful day
[16] chandelier: a large, decorated light that hangs from a ceiling
[17] bathrobe: a long and soft piece of clothing worn after getting out of a bath
[18] refreshment: here: a light snack or drink
[19] curious: here: interested in knowing more
[20] establishment: here: a business