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How To! with Charles Duhigg, 20190813 How To Cook One Perfect Meal

20190813 How To Cook One Perfect Meal

What's the one thing Johnny can do that will blow her mind? The plates that he serves on. They're going to be warm. Nine times out of 10 ex boyfriends trying to impress their girlfriends, make their hot food and then put it on cold plates. It's a little shivery and it's just a bad look. That and napkins. Napkins? Yeah, I mean, I can see in your eyes, Charles. You're making me out is like Alan Alda here like Mr. sensitive. But I'm telling you that a cloth napkin sends a message that you're not a bad guy. Welcome to How to. I'm Charles Duhigg. Each week, we talk to listeners who are trying to figure out how to solve one of life's big problems, like how to withstand pain, or how to fire a bad employee. Then we do some research and we track down an expert, and we learn how to solve the problem. This week, we're headed to Brooklyn in the apartment of Johnny Levin. Here's the doorbell. Hey, Hey, how you doing? Welcome to my home. Hey, I'm Charles. Johnny. Nice to meet you. This is it. This is great. Johnny is originally from Chicago. But he came to New York eight years ago to study film and television at NYU. And and how old are you? I'm 26. Okay, if I was talking to your roommates and asking them to describe you, what would they say? Um messy, especially when it comes to cooking, just like it's kind of like a nuclear explosion. Like everything goes everywhere. The thing is, Johnny's got a lot of great qualities. But he says there's one area where he could really use some work, yes, needs to up his game in the kitchen. Just to become a better cook. There is a catalyzing moment for me, which was I was sitting on my couch in my living room with my ex girlfriend and my roommate had his friend Brian over who's visiting from out of town. And Brian was cooking breakfast. And he was dazzling. He was doing that thing where he's shaking the pan. And it's also like above the fire like professional and tossing it up and down. And my girlfriend was just staring at him. Like, mouth open, just amazed. And I think especially in contrast to to my difficulties, and I was just like, I want to be like Brian, he just has so much control. He has confidence in himself. My ex girlfriend, she could cut vegetables like bam, bam, bam, bam, bam, bam. And she didn't she didn't leave you for Brian. She didn't leave me for Brian. Luckily, Brian lives across the country. But a week later, she's like I talked about Brian in therapy. And I was like, Oh my god, that must have been like vcv me that like, I think he was so poised and in control. He was smooth. And I am not like that. And it's not just that Johnny isn't smooth. One time. For instance, I woke up early. I went to the gym and then I bought one of those ah... Asahi. Okay, Asahi packets and a bunch of fruit, hemp seeds and I put in the blender and cut it up all nice. And then she ate it. And it made her violently ill. And she was throwing up on the sidewalk and we were taking the ferry to an event at Roosevelt Island, and she was nauseous and then like the ferry's about to dock and she jumps off early. Does like throw up more on the dock. Meanwhile, they're shaming her on the public address system like you Mrs. you cannot get off the ferry early. Oh, no. She's throwing up. It was horribly embarrassing. And my fault. What did you how did you screw up? I don't know. I don't know. Maybe it was the hemp seeds. How long ago did you guys break up? Like a few months ago. Okay. Yeah, there's some kind of like raw. Yeah, I'll give Johnny this. Whatever skills he's lacking. He is at least really enthusiastic. And it is possible that learning how to cook the right meal, it might make the difference in his love life. I texted my ex girlfriend for what my difficulties in the kitchen were what can I improve? She said chopping onions with skin still on? eyeballing measurements, general messiness, knife skills, lots of spilling. They said that falls under general messiness. And she said issues with heat like what medium heat or simmer means on the stove. And I do agree that's what stressed me out again talking about precision. It's like turn the thing to medium heat. Like why don't they just say seven or whatever or or low? Why are we talking in code here? And Michelle said struggles with kitchen slang. Like what a clove of garlic means. So what so what you texted your girlfriend recently to ask about? Yeah, in preparation. Okay, so you guys are still on touch. Yeah, yeah. So we're still... on touch. And are you like hoping that like if you are better in the kitchen, you're going to like rekindle the flame or... Who knows? Maybe this is my fatal flaw. So once it's corrected, I don't know. You're you're on fire. Yeah, no, she won't be able to turn you down. Exactly. So, we decided to help Johnny get better in the kitchen by talking to this guy. I'm Sam Sifton. I'm the food editor of the New York Times and the founding editor of NYT cooking. When we come back, we'll see if Sam can help Johnny win back his girlfriend, or at least cook a chicken all the way through. He's just got to be confident about that. And he's not looking to make some really over the top impressive meal. Just gonna make a really good meal and feel good about it, and deliver it to someone who cares about and everything's gonna be okay. Hey, how to listeners, I want to recommend a show that I think you'll like from my friend Jay Shetty, called On Purpose, check out this trailer and subscribe to the show wherever you're listening now. Hey, everyone, it's Jay Shetty. And I'm so excited to share with you my Podcast show, On Purpose. This podcast is dedicated to helping you find your passion, live your purpose and reach your potential. I've been fortunate enough to dive in to the stories of finding purpose of some of the most incredible people in the world including Kobe Bryant, Alicia Keys, Chloe Kardashian, Ray Dalio and Yuval Noah Harare, we discuss topics ranging from lifelong relationships, managing your mental health, and understanding how your mind and brain work. We have new episodes every Monday and Friday. You can subscribe anywhere you get your podcast, and please rate and review the podcast if you enjoy it. Live life today on purpose. I can't wait for you to be a part of the community. If you're enjoying how to you should check out Wondery's podcast, American Scandal, which brings to life some of the biggest controversies in US history, presidential lies, corporate fraud, corruption, and sports and so much more. In their new series, they look at the US federal agencies that tried to stop the civil rights movement. Federal officials went after everyone from Billie Holiday to Martin Luther King Jr. and Fred Hampton, who had led the Illinois chapter of the Black Panther Party. It was a fight that would span decades and eventually face a moment of truth. Subscribe to American Scandal on Apple podcast Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts and join Wondery Plus to listen ad free in the Wondery app. So you are a man who knows food. I know a couple things here or there. Sam Sifton is the food editor of the New York Times and he's the papers from a restaurant critic. That's a tough job to complain about. He's the author of a number of amazing cookbooks, my wife actually loves them. In other words, Sam's a guy who knows his way around the kitchen. But what's amazing about his writing and his recipes is you never feel like he's a snob. I'm not a chef. I'm just a regular Joe. I'm a reporter who happens to cover this stuff. And I'm a critic who happens to think about it a lot. But I'm not dissimilar from most people who cook. And that's actually why we wanted to talk to you is because this young guy reached out to us and he... um has a lady friend that he was hoping to impress. And this guy is a terrible cook. Like he, he like does not know what he's doing the kitchen, which is not that totally dissimilar from me, I must say. It's true for a lot of people yeah, it's also not true for most of them. They think they're terrible cooks, but there's something they know how to do. And if they can access the confidence that they have when they're making popcorn, or mixing up that weird cereal and yogurt concoction, or whatever it is, access that confidence, and you're going to be able to cook that closer meal you're looking for with your special friend. I asked him who I should mention is happily married now and has kids. But I asked him when he was young, like how did he try and impress other people in the kitchen? I never had a sort of go-to like, you know, I make them the piccata. And it's game over. I wish that were the case but it but it's not. I was as I'm arguing others should seeking self confidence in the kitchen so that I could serve a delicious meal that would bring happiness to someone else. So my game was what is the what's the sort of simplest impressive thing that I can pull off? So this actually brings up the first question, which is, when is the right time to try and make a meal for someone? Um, I'm not generally in the business. I'm often in the business that's throwing down, you know. So I'm just gonna say third date. That's the time? Third date, minimum. Okay, I'm thinking that's the safest. There you have it. Sam's first rule is don't even attempt to cook a meal until your third date. Johnny is nervous about this. So we're gonna keep this as simple as possible. So we're going to make skin on bone in chicken thighs. So chicken thighs, we're gonna go, that's our protein. We're not going to do like an order, no appetizer. No, no, you might have a bowl and nuts. Okay. But what Johnny needs is confidence. He got in touch with you, because he's a lousy cook or thinks he's a lousy cook, right? It's true. So maybe what he heard was I'd like a really complicated meal. I'd like there to be all this stuff and there's gonna be champagne and there's gonna be orders. What's Johnny going to do, a tasting menu now? This is the next rule. If you want to cook at least one meal really well. You need to know some basics about food, right? But more than anything else, you need confidence. And the best way to do that is to be a master of his surroundings, not okay, not to have too much going on. But to know the points he's going to hit. And he can hit this main course of the chicken starch and vegetable, serve this amazing melty cheese because 90% of people eat their cheese cold from the fridge, but here we're going to have it room temperature and oozing and melting and very sensual. And that's pretty good luck. Yeah. And then a playful touch at the end with a dessert which I'll give you the spark. So it works every time. Okay, so going back to Johnny. I'm gonna give him the Sam Sifton self improvement, confidence building prep speech. And then he has to actually make a meal. Yeah, so Okay, so he's got chicken. He's bought some chicken breasts. No, no, see already, you're screwing Johnny. So the problem with the breasts, is it's really easy to overcook a chicken breast. Any of that dry soda steam, white meat scenario, that's just not a recipe for a win. Okay. We're going chicken thighs, which are fattier, more forgiving, more flavor, cheaper, not for nothing. And, and, and to my mind, infinitely more delicious. Okay. Okay? So he's got chicken thighs. So we have the chicken thighs. Now for the starch, we're going to go with rice. That's it. That's it? That's it, it's going to be perfect rice. And I know he's nervous about that. But he's going to go to Delancey Street and buy a rice cooker. And that's going to stand them in good stead for the rest of his life whatever happens on this date. A rice cooker is a relatively inexpensive piece of technology that has one job to make perfect rice. It does it every single time. So Johnny didn't actually have a rice cooker. So I went out, and I bought one for him, and then I came back. And then he headed into his kitchen and got started. Right? Are we supposed to wash the rice before we cook the rice? Um, I think I kind of remember that. Johnny's kitchen is pretty small, and it's very, very bare. It's about what you would expect from like a 26 year old guy who lives in a shared apartment. There's a there's a bottle of gin in the freezer, and it's next to this chili that Johnny's mom sent them in 2017. But the kitchen does have a microwave. Okay, my microwave is busted. And it's busted because I used to use it as a timer. But I didn't use the timer function, I would still have it operate. So just turned with nothing in it and it kind of went kerplunk and it's a beautiful big microwave. So you fried your own microwave by using it as a timer. Yep. When you would actually run the microwave empty in order to use the timer function? Correct. Have you told your landlord yet that you fried there, I'm trying to make it seem like it's their fault. This is another rule. Don't run an empty microwave because you're too lazy to get a real timer. Also, don't let your landlord listen to this podcast. So we started with the first step of the recipe Sam gave me. Bring some water to the boil as they say in the cookbook trade heavily salted water and I'd get my green beans into that water for like three minutes max and then get them into the sink under a lot of cold cold cold water to arrest the cooking process. Okay, there'll be bright green as a result of this. Nice. Nice, right? Yeah. If you have a colander, and Johnny I hope you have a colander. You can you can run it through the colander and that'll get that hot water out of there faster and you can ice it and get it quick but if you don't, you'll figure it out. Just get those things cold as quickly as possible. And then you can put them aside. I think you've already... Oh, I think more water you want a lot more a lot more cold water. I think so we've got the rice cooking in the rice cooker. We've got water boiling, so we can throw in some green beans for three minutes. It turns out that Johnny does in fact own a colander which is great. And that means it is time to start in on the chicken. The first thing you do is season the chicken, which you want to do like really aggressively. Okay. Okay? Meaning meaning like more than it feels like I should be. Yeah, you should be like, Wow, that's a lot. We're gonna do like a kind of a, like a like a fake "confit", which is which is a French process of cooking in its own fat. Okay, we're not cooking in chicken fat we'll be cooking in olive oil and not a ton but a lot. So what you want to do is get some salt and pepper on there. Quite a lot of salt. Quite a lot of pepper. Really massage it in there. And then I think, hey, it's Johnny's party, but I'm offering the instruction. Yeah, so we're gonna go with some rosemary as well. Crazy. Right? Super fragrant, piney, funky, really nice. You're gonna let him off the hook, my friend. This is gonna be good. We're getting crazy. And maybe some red pepper flakes. If you have some leftover from the pizzeria when you bought those slices... Right. After the last... We want a little spicy too. Okay, so take yourself, take your pepper. And like you just want to go to town. Like Like, just as it... Yes, you're doing great. That's exactly... Man, you're killing it. Keep on going. Now, we're gonna get a big high sided pan. Okay. I don't know how many pans Johnny has. I'm gonna guess three. How many pans do you have? I have 123. So what's the biggest pan that you own? This guy. That That's the biggest pan? You're gonna take the biggest one. And we're going to put a lot of olive oil on there. Okay. Like, like when you say a lot. How much do you mean? Like glug glug, glug, glug, glug, glug, glug, glug, glug, glug. I think I was like 14 glugs. There is a lot of glugs. Oh, is it... when I put the chicken in, is it going to be submerged? No, it's not. But we're also not skimming the pan with just a little oil. You just roll with it. glug, glug, glug, glug, glug. So we have a lot of olive oil in there. If you have a bayleaf that would be cool to go in that olive oil. But I'm guessing Johnny doesn't have a bayleaf. That's okay. That's okay. Medium heat. Medium heat meaning in the oven. So on the stovetop, Charles, okay, there's a dial under each one of the burners. And usually they're labeled low, medium, and high. We want to go in the middle. And this is a moment for reflection. Watching that oil, what do you reflect about? Well, I'm actually just spacing out and watching the oil because it changes a little bit, it begins to move a little bit. And eventually it's going to take on this thing that it's like a mirage, a little bit of a shimmer. And then we know it's pretty hot. And it's kind of an opportunity to contemplate our lives and to change is inevitable. Is this the right girl to be making this chicken for? Eventually, when it's time to stop contemplating life's most important questions, the oil will be relatively hot. And that's when we put in our chicken. Exactly. Go for it looking good. You want it bubbling, bubbling. But you don't want it out of control. And you can move pretty slowly. Okay, this is a very forgiving process for Johnny who's nervous and doesn't know what he's doing. Oh, sorry. Sorry. That's a lot of oil. Okay, but nobody's hurt. Yeah. And after about 15 or 20 minutes, turn the pieces over. I would start skin down. Skin... It's meaning meaning meaning breasts, like the top of the chicken down. Yeah, the so their thighs, once again, your breast obsession is laudable but misplaced. Their thighs and they have a side that is mostly skin and a side that is mostly not skin right. So I would put the skin side down so that it has more of a chance of crisping. Okay, I think let's let's let's move on. That's it. I think it's time to flip. Nice. Well done. Oil is acting up a little bit but... So that's going and in fact, if you feel that the chicken is done, you can take it out and just like kind of let it hang out on a on a platter. On a plate? Notice... notice that I used the word platter and you use the word plate. I feel like this is where the pro tip starts. Yeah, man. Get the platter. Get the platter. Okay, make it warm. Um, okay, so your chicken is or is going to be done. We're confident about it's gonna be beautiful. It's going to look like a beautiful piece of furniture, this mahogany color. It's going to be just fantastic. I'm feeling very confident right now. Is it done? I'm a little nervous about that. We cooked six of these things. One of them is sacrificial. Okay. So when he thinks it's done, you can take it out. Put it on a cutting board and use a small knife to cut along one of the bones in the thigh and take a peek at the interior meat to see like what's going on in there. Right. Is it red? You want it to be done running the juices running clear and not bloody okay right and and and then done all the way down to the bottom. That seems like a clutch move to not introduce blood into... like... Salmonella is is a buzzkill for a day. And and while you're doing I'm gonna check on our rice. Rice looks good. The rice is all done. Yes. Fantastic. That's huge. That's, that's that's a game changer, right? So we've dealt with the chicken, how about that starch, oh, it's done baby, boom, boom, all it needs is fluffing and put it on the table. So we're two out of three. And we've already cooked those, those green beans. So one thing we could do is just toss them in butter, okay, with maybe with some slivered almonds that you got from a nut aisle at the whole foods... That works. Little salt, squeeze some lemon juice on there at the end, you know, we're serving. So now we're done, we're done. We're done. I mean, one of the things that I really like about this combination that we've we've put together is that you have a kind of crisp, crunchy, salty, almost spicy, or hints of spiciness in the chicken. Yeah. And it's quite juicy. And then you have the the kind of crispness of those green beans, right, they have a little bit of a snap to them. And then a textural element from both the salt that you've put on there at the end. And from the nuts. And that that sweetness vectors with the sweetness of the chicken, the saltiness kind of talks to each other. And the and the rice acts as this kind of nutty tasting pure bridge between the two. Maybe I should get better China, because I have these generic white boring, and then we're done. And so we put it on the plate. Well, we want to be careful about just put it on the plate. This is not a soup kitchen, you're not like in the army, like you don't have to make it looked like an architect was involved. But let's keep the border the border and the food within it. Okay, and maybe you've got the chicken thigh or two chicken thighs, a little drift of the rice, and then a stack of the green beans in which you have Johnny please tried to make them all go in the same direction so that they're parallel. So our final rule, presentation matters. Clean up the plate. Make all the beans point in the same direction. You know, classy right? Sam also says you know, light a few candles. Grab a bottle of red wine. And you don't even have to overthink it. Just Just go to the wine store. Ask the guy what you should serve. And then take his advice. Show me your napkins. What kind of napkins you got. The kind of napkins we have are paper towels, not classy, but I can improvise and use a dish towel as a napkin. Yeah, I'm not I'm not feeling... If it's... that's better. I would say I would say before day, maybe we go buy two nice plates, dinner plates. And maybe we buy two napkins. Yeah. So dessert anything else we need before the doorbell rings? No, no, we still haven't talked about dessert. dessert. dessert is going to be a win. Okay, you're going to take the plates when it's all done. Take them into the kitchen. don't deal with them. Now. Come back with the cheese and two little plates. The bread is right there. Oh man. The cheese is looking great. It is oozing. is like it is super oozing. Get through all of that. Oh my gosh, that was so good. It was so great. Everybody's super Irish. She's stoked. He's stoked. I was right to be confident. Everything is great. What possibly could come next. And now's when you go to the hoop with store bought all the way says the semi confident people will have some ice cream. Yeah, not us man. malamar a glass, a tiny glass like just a couple of ounces of cold organic milk and a malamar Wow. That's how you close did we just blow her mind? That's how you close Johnny malamar organic milk, you know malamar? Yeah, chocolate covered marshmallow with a little amazed ram on the bottom. There's this thing that happens. I found that you have not had milk and perhaps neither has she or he in many, many years. Now you're coming back and it's like a matter line. This taste because organic milk now grass fed organic milk is so delicious. It is amazing and that pure kind of barnyard awesomeness with that one single chocolate cookie. The cheese. So you started out really basic, just like mom would make. And then you got a little more sophisticated with the cheese. And then you're like a little kid again. And I know you want to go listen to records. Who knows what's gonna happen next? Yeah. But you're also good guy, right? a creepy guy would not serve a malamar in organic milk. Right? Right. A creepy guy might like tie up a trout with chives. And you know, like, that's putting a roofie in your drink. Yeah, watch it. Watch it. No, seriously, it's a third day with some dude. And he's like, I mean, he's not a professional chef. But he did this crazy bondage thing with a trout, then there's all kinds of different butters. And like, he told you too much about the wine. And don't be a jerk, man. I love I love this, I would eat this meal, just try to bring pleasure to the other person. That's it. Oh, I like that. It's not about you. It's about serving someone. Like, it's to deliver on joy to other people. So we started by talking about confidence, because I think confidence allows you to do a lot of this stuff. But there's a there's a related word that also applies and that's competence. And I think that probably there is very little that is more attractive than competence. The ability to do something in the service of others is kind of cool. And, and brings confidence to the person who can do it and delivers kind of relief to the person who receives it. I can make this dinner for you and you will find it delicious. I can also change the wheel in your car and fix that leaky toilet. And I'm pretty good at making a living. Am I fine here? Have you in the kitchen? I'm going to take care of you emotionally. It's okay. So we talked about what Johnny should do. What's the one thing Gianni should not do? Well, it's don't apologize. Interesting. Do not apologize. You will be so sorely tempted to do so. But don't apologize because it looks like you're kind of begging for a compliment, which is just an awkward weird, it's a bad luck. By the same token. Don't try and explain how much you know about like you listen to a podcast at slate. You're not like a CIA trained chef. You just barely got that check. On the table there's still a price tag on the rice cooker just here's a delicious thing to eat and I hope you really enjoy it be true designs own Yeah. And then she'll say this bit it's actually pretty dry and if it is, you got to be like Yep, I did that on purpose would you like them Alomar? So me and Johnny went through all of Sam's Rules land and for two hours we cook and then he sat down to eat the meal. Chicken is really good. It's really Really good. And I'll be totally honest with you. The meal was amazing. It was it was perfect. I'm not saying that just That's the name of this episode. It was it was like tasted kind of gourmet but also simple. We really we impressed ourselves. And then after the main course we ate some of the runny cheese with a baguette. And then it was time for dessert and I had a actually gone to the grocery store to find the mallomars but I couldn't find them and so we finished with them. What I had managed to find which was chocolate covered Nutter butter. Which artist Not as close As a malamar but still actually pretty good Okay, so it's We did the meal. Yeah, we The chalk covering About her what's Tell me your reaction. It was delicious. Do you Like, you'll be more confident In the kitchen now I think so having this experience under my belt. I think it can be repeated. So do you think you're gonna invite your ex girlfriend over and make her dinner? Absolutely. Yeah, I mean, this is this is this is definitely a game changer. I think it's one of those things that like she talked to her. And she's like, he made the most amazing meal. And he and it's that thing where they're like, and he can cook. Like, like, I think that if that's the last line in my obituary, I'd be pretty satisfied with that. But maybe on my next day, you'll come over as well. A little the training, we'll still need to be on for a little bit. I'll stand on the window. Yes, exactly. Just give me a thumbs up. If you want to see the recipe for Sam Sifton, one perfect meal, we've actually posted it online, along with photos of Johnny and these beautiful chicken thighs that we made together. They're at sleep calm slash how to. Thanks so much to Johnny Levin for letting us into his kitchen and the SAM Sifton at the New York Times. Sam has a ton of great cookbooks he's written including Thanksgiving, how to cook it well. And a new one coming out in a few months called See you on Sunday, a cookbook for family and friends. We're gonna stay in touch with Johnny and his romantic life improves because of his cooking. We will definitely keep you posted. If you have something we can help you with. We want to hear from you. Send us a note about your problem and how to it's like calm, and we'll take on your case and see if we can't make the problem go away. Also, if you like what you heard today, please give us a rating and a review in Apple podcasts. It helps people find the show. It helps us know that someone's listening. Also my wife might think I'm more cool. how tos executive producer is Derrick john Merrick Jacob is our engineer. Our theme music is by Hannah's Brown. June Thomas is the senior managing producer of slate podcasts. And Gabriel Roth is slate editorial director for audio. Special thanks to Michael Conrado and Asha Cindy Jeff. I'm Charles duhigg. Thanks for listening. If you don't already know tune in is an all in one audio app where you can listen to LiFE sports, music, news and your favorite podcasts. Go to tune in.com to download the app or listen to how to with me Charles duhigg on tune in.

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What's the one thing Johnny can do that will blow her mind? ||||Johnny|||||surpreender|| ما هو الشيء الوحيد الذي يمكن أن يفعله جوني ويفجر عقلها؟ Jaká věc, kterou Johnny dokáže udělat, jí vyrazí dech? Qual é a única coisa que Johnny pode fazer que vai explodir sua mente? The plates that he serves on. الأطباق التي يعمل عليها. Talíře, na kterých slouží. Os pratos em que ele serve. Это поразит ее взгляд на тарелки, на которых он работает? They're going to be warm. ||||quentes Eles vão ficar quentinhos. Nine times out of 10 ex boyfriends trying to impress their girlfriends, make their hot food and then put it on cold plates. |||||||||||||||||||||盤子 ||||ex|ex-namorados|||||namoradas|fazem|||||||||| Nine times out of 10 ex boyfriends trying to impress their girlfriends, make their hot food and then put it on cold plates. Nove em cada 10 ex-namorados tentam impressionar as namoradas, fazem comida quente e depois colocam em pratos frios. It's a little shivery and it's just a bad look. |||有點發抖|||||| it is|||cold and shaky|||||| |||arrepiado|||||| |||发抖|||||| Je to trochu třaslavé a je to prostě špatný pohled. É um pouco arrepiado e é apenas um olhar ruim. That and napkins. ||餐巾紙 ||guardanapos To a ubrousky. Isso e guardanapos. Это и салфетки. Napkins? Yeah, I mean, I can see in your eyes, Charles. You're making me out is like Alan Alda here like Mr. sensitive. ||||||||||||making||||||Alan Alda|||| |||||||||||||||||Alan|guardanapos|||| Ubrousky? Jo, vidím ti to na očích, Charlesi. Děláš ze mě něco jako Alana Aldu, jako pana citlivého. Guardanapos? Sim, quero dizer, posso ver em seus olhos, Charles. Você está me fazendo sair é como Alan Alda aqui como o Sr. sensível. But I'm telling you that a cloth napkin sends a message that you're not a bad guy. ||||||布餐巾|||||||||| |||||||table linen||||||||| ||||||pano|guardanapo||||||||| Welcome to How to. |到|| I'm Charles Duhigg. ||the author ||sou Charles Duhigg Each week, we talk to listeners who are trying to figure out how to solve one of life's big problems, like how to withstand pain, or how to fire a bad employee. |||||||||||||||||||||||承受|||||||| |||||||são||||||||||da vida||||||suportar||||||||funcionário Každý týden hovoříme s posluchači, kteří se snaží přijít na to, jak vyřešit jeden z velkých životních problémů, například jak ustát bolest nebo jak propustit špatného zaměstnance. Then we do some research and we track down an expert, and we learn how to solve the problem. |nós||||||||||||||||| Pak provedeme průzkum, vyhledáme odborníka a zjistíme, jak problém vyřešit. This week, we're headed to Brooklyn in the apartment of Johnny Levin. |||前往|||||||| |||indo||||||||Levin Tento týden se vydáme do Brooklynu do bytu Johnnyho Levina. Here's the doorbell. aqui está||a campainha Tady je zvonek. Hey, Hey, how you doing? Welcome to my home. Hey, I'm Charles. Johnny. Nice to meet you. This is it. This is great. ||minha||||||||||||||| Johnny is originally from Chicago. Johnny pochází z Chicaga. But he came to New York eight years ago to study film and television at NYU. |||||||||||電影|||| Před osmi lety však přijel do New Yorku studovat film a televizi na Newyorské univerzitě. And and how old are you? I'm 26. Okay, if I was talking to your roommates and asking them to describe you, what would they say? Um messy, especially when it comes to cooking, just like it's kind of like a nuclear explosion. |messy||||||||||||||| |bagunçado|||||||||||||||explosão Uma bagunça, especialmente quando se trata de cozinhar, como se fosse uma explosão nuclear. Like everything goes everywhere. |||em todos os lugares Jako by se všechno dostalo všude. The thing is, Johnny's got a lot of great qualities. |||Johnny has|||||| Die Sache ist die, dass Johnny eine Menge großartiger Eigenschaften hat. But he says there's one area where he could really use some work, yes, needs to up his game in the kitchen. Just to become a better cook. |||||||||確實|||||||||||||||||| |ele|||||||||||||||||||||||||| Říká však, že je tu jedna oblast, na které by mohl opravdu zapracovat, ano, potřebuje zlepšit svou hru v kuchyni. Prostě se stát lepším kuchařem. 但他说有一个领域他真的可以做一些工作,是的,需要在厨房里提高自己的水平。只为成为更好的厨师。 There is a catalyzing moment for me, which was I was sitting on my couch in my living room with my ex girlfriend and my roommate had his friend Brian over who's visiting from out of town. |||triggering||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||| Mně se stal katalyzátorem okamžik, kdy jsem seděl se svou bývalou přítelkyní na gauči v obýváku a můj spolubydlící měl u sebe kamaráda Briana, který přijel na návštěvu z jiného města. Há um momento catalisador para mim, que foi quando eu estava sentado no meu sofá na minha sala de estar com minha ex-namorada e meu colega de quarto recebeu seu amigo Brian, que está visitando de fora da cidade. 对我来说有一个催化时刻,那是我和前女友坐在客厅的沙发上,我的室友让他的朋友布莱恩从外地来访。 And Brian was cooking breakfast. And he was dazzling. |||dazzling |||deslumbrante He was doing that thing where he's shaking the pan. |||||||||frigideira Dělal tu věc, kdy třásl pánví. Ele estava fazendo aquela coisa de sacudir a panela. And it's also like above the fire like professional and tossing it up and down. ||||||||||jetant|||| ||||||||||tossing|||| ||||||||||e jogando|||| A je to také jako nad ohněm jako profesionál a hází to nahoru a dolů. E também é como acima do fogo como profissional e jogando para cima e para baixo. And my girlfriend was just staring at him. |||||olhando|| A moje přítelkyně na něj jen zírala. Like, mouth open, just amazed. ||||surpreso Jako s otevřenou pusou, prostě ohromený. And I think especially in contrast to to my difficulties, and I was just like, I want to be like Brian, he just has so much control. ||||||||||||||||||||Brian|ele||||| He has confidence in himself. My ex girlfriend, she could cut vegetables like bam, bam, bam, bam, bam, bam. And she didn't she didn't leave you for Brian. She didn't leave me for Brian. Luckily, Brian lives across the country. |||do outro lado|| But a week later, she's like I talked about Brian in therapy. Mas uma semana depois, ela é como se eu tivesse falado sobre Brian na terapia. And I was like, Oh my god, that must have been like vcv me that like, I think he was so poised and in control. ||||||||||||very cool version|||||||||composed and confident||| ||||||||||||eu|||||||||calmo||| E eu fiquei tipo, Oh meu Deus, deve ter sido assim, acho que ele estava tão equilibrado e no controle. He was smooth. ||suave And I am not like that. And it's not just that Johnny isn't smooth. One time. For instance, I woke up early. I went to the gym and then I bought one of those ah... Asahi. |||||||||||||Japanese beer brand Fui na academia e aí comprei um desses ah... Asahi. Okay, Asahi packets and a bunch of fruit, hemp seeds and I put in the blender and cut it up all nice. |brand of beer|||||||plant-based seeds|||||||blender|||||| |Asahi|pacotes||||||sementes de cânhamo|sementes||||||liquidificador|||||| Ok, pacotes de Asahi e um monte de frutas, sementes de cânhamo e coloquei no liquidificador e cortei tudo bem. 好的,朝日小包和一堆水果,我把大麻种子放进搅拌机里,切得很好。 And then she ate it. And it made her violently ill. ||||violentemente| And she was throwing up on the sidewalk and we were taking the ferry to an event at Roosevelt Island, and she was nauseous and then like the ferry's about to dock and she jumps off early. |||||||||||||||||||||||nauséeuse||||||||||||| |||throwing||||||||||boat for transport||||||||||nauseous|||||the boat's|||dock||||| |||||||calçada||||||ferry|||||Roosevelt|||||enjoada|||||da balsa|||cais||||| Does like throw up more on the dock. Meanwhile, they're shaming her on the public address system like you Mrs. you cannot get off the ferry early. |||||||address||||||||||| enquanto|eles|envergonhando|ela|||público|||||||||||| Entretanto, estão a envergonhá-la no sistema de altifalantes como a Sra. não pode sair do ferry mais cedo. Oh, no. She's throwing up. It was horribly embarrassing. |||||terrivelmente|embaraçoso And my fault. ||culpa What did you how did you screw up? ||||||screw| Como é que fez asneira? 你怎么搞砸了? I don't know. I don't know. Maybe it was the hemp seeds. ||||sementes de cânhamo| How long ago did you guys break up? Wie lange ist es her, dass ihr euch getrennt habt? Like a few months ago. Okay. Yeah, there's some kind of like raw. sim||||||cru/raw Yeah, I'll give Johnny this. Whatever skills he's lacking. |||faltando Sejam quais forem as competências que lhe faltem. He is at least really enthusiastic. |||||enthusiastic And it is possible that learning how to cook the right meal, it might make the difference in his love life. |||||||||||meal||||||||| I texted my ex girlfriend for what my difficulties in the kitchen were what can I improve? ||||girlfriend|||||||||||| |mandei mensagem||||||||||||||| 我给前女友发短信说我在厨房遇到的困难是什么我可以改善什么? She said chopping onions with skin still on? ||picando|cebolas|||| Ela disse que cortar cebolas com a pele ainda em cima? 她说切洋葱还带皮? eyeballing measurements, general messiness, knife skills, lots of spilling. ||||||||溢出 Estimating by sight|||Lack of precision|||||spillage estimativa|medições|||||||derramamento medições oculares, confusão geral, habilidade com facas, muitos derrames. 目测测量,一般混乱,刀技,大量溢出。 They said that falls under general messiness. ||||||messiness ||||||bagunça Disseram que isso se enquadra na confusão geral. And she said issues with heat like what medium heat or simmer means on the stove. |||||||||||simmer|||| |||||||||calor||fogo baixo|||| 她说热问题,比如炉子上的中火或煨火意味着什么。 And I do agree that's what stressed me out again talking about precision. ||||||||||||precisão It's like turn the thing to medium heat. Like why don't they just say seven or whatever or or low? Why are we talking in code here? And Michelle said struggles with kitchen slang. Like what a clove of garlic means. So what so what you texted your girlfriend recently to ask about? Yeah, in preparation. |||Garlic segment|||||||||||||||||| |||dente||alho|||||||||||||||| Como o que significa um dente de alho. Então, o que foi que enviou recentemente uma mensagem de texto à sua namorada para lhe perguntar? Sim, em preparação. 就像一瓣大蒜意味着什么。那你最近给女朋友发短信问什么?是的,正在准备中。 Okay, so you guys are still on touch. Yeah, yeah. So we're still... on touch. And are you like hoping that like if you are better in the kitchen, you're going to like rekindle the flame or... Who knows? |||||||||||||||||||||||rekindle||flame||| |||||||||||||||||||||||reacender||chama||| Maybe this is my fatal flaw. talvez||||fatal|defeito So once it's corrected, I don't know. You're you're on fire. Yeah, no, she won't be able to turn you down. Exactly. So, we decided to help Johnny get better in the kitchen by talking to this guy. I'm Sam Sifton. ||a surname ||eu sou Sam Sifton I'm the food editor of the New York Times and the founding editor of NYT cooking. ||||||||||||||New York Times| |||||||||||fundador|||New York Times| 我是《纽约时报》的美食编辑和《纽约时报》烹饪的创始编辑。 When we come back, we'll see if Sam can help Johnny win back his girlfriend, or at least cook a chicken all the way through. He's just got to be confident about that. And he's not looking to make some really over the top impressive meal. ||||||||||||refeição Just gonna make a really good meal and feel good about it, and deliver it to someone who cares about and everything's gonna be okay. ||||||||||||||||||se importa|||||| Hey, how to listeners, I want to recommend a show that I think you'll like from my friend Jay Shetty, called On Purpose, check out this trailer and subscribe to the show wherever you're listening now. |||||||||||||||||||Jay Shetty's show|||||||trailer||||||||| |||||||||||||você vai||||||||||confira|||||||||||| Hey, everyone, it's Jay Shetty. And I'm so excited to share with you my Podcast show, On Purpose. This podcast is dedicated to helping you find your passion, live your purpose and reach your potential. |||dedicated||||||||||||| ||||||||||||||||potencial I've been fortunate enough to dive in to the stories of finding purpose of some of the most incredible people in the world including Kobe Bryant, Alicia Keys, Chloe Kardashian, Ray Dalio and Yuval Noah Harare, we discuss topics ranging from lifelong relationships, managing your mental health, and understanding how your mind and brain work. ||||||||||||||||||||||||Kobe Bryant||||Khloé Kardashian|Chloe Kardashian||||Yuval Noah Harari||Harari||||||||||||||||||| ||sortudo|||mergulhar|||||||propósito|||||||||||||||||||||||||||||vida toda||||||||||||| We have new episodes every Monday and Friday. You can subscribe anywhere you get your podcast, and please rate and review the podcast if you enjoy it. ||||||||||classifique|||||||| Live life today on purpose. I can't wait for you to be a part of the community. If you're enjoying how to you should check out Wondery's podcast, American Scandal, which brings to life some of the biggest controversies in US history, presidential lies, corporate fraud, corruption, and sports and so much more. ||喜欢||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||| |||||||||Wondery's podcast network|||||||||||||||||||fraud|corruption|||||| In their new series, they look at the US federal agencies that tried to stop the civil rights movement. Federal officials went after everyone from Billie Holiday to Martin Luther King Jr. ||||||Billie Holiday|||||| and Fred Hampton, who had led the Illinois chapter of the Black Panther Party. ||||||||||||黑豹党| ||||||||||||Black Panther Party| It was a fight that would span decades and eventually face a moment of truth. ||||||跨越|||||||| ||||||span|||||||| Subscribe to American Scandal on Apple podcast Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts and join Wondery Plus to listen ad free in the Wondery app. |||||||Spotify||任何平台|||||||奇迹公司||||||||奇迹公司| ||||||||||||||||Podcast network||||||||| So you are a man who knows food. I know a couple things here or there. Sam Sifton is the food editor of the New York Times and he's the papers from a restaurant critic. ||||||||||||||||||评论家 That's a tough job to complain about. |||||reclamar| Das ist ein Job, über den man sich nicht beschweren kann. He's the author of a number of amazing cookbooks, my wife actually loves them. In other words, Sam's a guy who knows his way around the kitchen. |||山姆是||||||||| But what's amazing about his writing and his recipes is you never feel like he's a snob. ||||||||||||||||势利眼 ||||||||||||||||elitist or pretentious I'm not a chef. I'm just a regular Joe. I'm a reporter who happens to cover this stuff. And I'm a critic who happens to think about it a lot. |||评论家|||||||| But I'm not dissimilar from most people who cook. |||不同||||| |||pas dissemblable||||| |||not different||||| |||diferente||||| And that's actually why we wanted to talk to you is because this young guy reached out to us and he... um has a lady friend that he was hoping to impress. And this guy is a terrible cook. Like he, he like does not know what he's doing the kitchen, which is not that totally dissimilar from me, I must say. |||||||||||||||||不太不同||||| ||||||||ele|||||||||||||| It's true for a lot of people yeah, it's also not true for most of them. They think they're terrible cooks, but there's something they know how to do. ||||厨师|||||||| ||||cooks|||||||| And if they can access the confidence that they have when they're making popcorn, or mixing up that weird cereal and yogurt concoction, or whatever it is, access that confidence, and you're going to be able to cook that closer meal you're looking for with your special friend. ||||||||||||||||||||||混合物||||||||||||||||||||||||| ||||access|||||||||||||||cereal|||concoction||||||||||||||||||||||||| |||||||||||||||misturando||||||iogurte|mistura||||||||||||||||||||||||| 如果他们在制作爆米花,或者混合奇怪的麦片和酸奶混合物或其他任何东西时能够获得他们的信心,那么获得这种信心,你将能够为你做更接近的饭菜'正在寻找你的特别朋友。 I asked him who I should mention is happily married now and has kids. But I asked him when he was young, like how did he try and impress other people in the kitchen? I never had a sort of go-to like, you know, I make them the piccata. |||||||||||||||意大利煎肉 |||||||||||||||lemon butter sauce Nunca tive uma espécie de go-to como, sabe, eu faço-lhes a piccata. And it's game over. I wish that were the case but it but it's not. I was as I'm arguing others should seeking self confidence in the kitchen so that I could serve a delicious meal that would bring happiness to someone else. So my game was what is the what's the sort of simplest impressive thing that I can pull off? |||||||||||||||||pull| So this actually brings up the first question, which is, when is the right time to try and make a meal for someone? Um, I'm not generally in the business. I'm often in the business that's throwing down, you know. So I'm just gonna say third date. That's the time? Third date, minimum. Okay, I'm thinking that's the safest. |||||mais seguro There you have it. Sam's first rule is don't even attempt to cook a meal until your third date. do Sam||||||tentativa|||||||| Johnny is nervous about this. So we're gonna keep this as simple as possible. So we're going to make skin on bone in chicken thighs. ||||||||||鸡腿肉 ||||||||||coxas Portanto, vamos fazer pele com osso nas coxas de galinha. So chicken thighs, we're gonna go, that's our protein. We're not going to do like an order, no appetizer. |||||||||开胃菜 |||||||||entrada No, no, you might have a bowl and nuts. Okay. But what Johnny needs is confidence. He got in touch with you, because he's a lousy cook or thinks he's a lousy cook, right? ||||||||||||||||糟糕的|||||||| ||||||||||||||||lousy|||||||| It's true. So maybe what he heard was I'd like a really complicated meal. I'd like there to be all this stuff and there's gonna be champagne and there's gonna be orders. What's Johnny going to do, a tasting menu now? This is the next rule. ||||||||||||香槟酒||||||||||||品鉴菜单||||||| ||||||||||||||||||||||||prova||||||| If you want to cook at least one meal really well. You need to know some basics about food, right? But more than anything else, you need confidence. And the best way to do that is to be a master of his surroundings, not okay, not to have too much going on. ||||||||||||||arredores||||||||| E a melhor maneira de o fazer é ser um mestre do seu ambiente, não está bem, não ter muito a fazer. But to know the points he's going to hit. Mas para saber os pontos que vai atingir. And he can hit this main course of the chicken starch and vegetable, serve this amazing melty cheese because 90% of people eat their cheese cold from the fridge, but here we're going to have it room temperature and oozing and melting and very sensual. ||||||||||淀粉||||||||||||||||||||||||||||流淌的|||||感官享受 ||||||||||starch||||||||||||||||||||||||||||oozing|||||sensual ||||||prato||||||||||derretido||||||||||||||||||e||||escorrendo||derretendo|||sensual E ele pode atingir este prato principal de amido de frango e legumes, servir este espantoso queijo derretido porque 90% das pessoas comem o seu queijo frio do frigorífico, mas aqui vamos tê-lo à temperatura ambiente e a derreter e a derreter e muito sensual. And that's pretty good luck. Yeah. And then a playful touch at the end with a dessert which I'll give you the spark. |||俏皮的|||||||甜点|||||| |||brincalhão|||||||||||||toque So it works every time. ||||tempo Okay, so going back to Johnny. |||||Johnny I'm gonna give him the Sam Sifton self improvement, confidence building prep speech. |||||||||||准备演讲| |||||||||||prep| And then he has to actually make a meal. Yeah, so Okay, so he's got chicken. He's bought some chicken breasts. ||||鸡胸肉 Comprou alguns peitos de frango. No, no, see already, you're screwing Johnny. So the problem with the breasts, is it's really easy to overcook a chicken breast. Any of that dry soda steam, white meat scenario, that's just not a recipe for a win. |||||搞砸了|||||||鸡胸肉||||||煮过头|||鸡胸肉|||||苏打水|蒸汽||||||||食谱||| |||||||||||||||really|||cook too long||||||||soda|||||||||||| ||||||||||||||||||||||||||refrigerante|vapor||||||||||| Okay. We're going chicken thighs, which are fattier, more forgiving, more flavor, cheaper, not for nothing. |||||||更肥腻的||宽容的|||||| ||||thighs|||higher in fat||forgiving||flavor|||| And, and, and to my mind, infinitely more delicious. Okay. ||||||无比||| Okay? So he's got chicken thighs. So we have the chicken thighs. |||||鸡腿肉||||||鸡腿肉 Now for the starch, we're going to go with rice. |||||||||米饭 |||carbohydrate side dish|||||| 现在对于淀粉,我们要和米饭一起吃。 That's it. That's it? That's it, it's going to be perfect rice. And I know he's nervous about that. But he's going to go to Delancey Street and buy a rice cooker. ||||||||||||电饭煲 ||||||a street name|||||| And that's going to stand them in good stead for the rest of his life whatever happens on this date. A rice cooker is a relatively inexpensive piece of technology that has one job to make perfect rice. It does it every single time. ||||||||好处|||||||||||||||||相对较为|便宜的||||||||||||||||| ||||||||benefit||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||| ||||||||||||||||||||||||||inexpensive||||||||||||||||| So Johnny didn't actually have a rice cooker. So I went out, and I bought one for him, and then I came back. And then he headed into his kitchen and got started. Right? Are we supposed to wash the rice before we cook the rice? Um, I think I kind of remember that. Johnny's kitchen is pretty small, and it's very, very bare. It's about what you would expect from like a 26 year old guy who lives in a shared apartment. |||||||||空荡荡的||大约是|||||||||||||||| |||||||||bare|||||||||||||||||| There's a there's a bottle of gin in the freezer, and it's next to this chili that Johnny's mom sent them in 2017. ||||||杜松子酒|||||||||辣椒|||||| But the kitchen does have a microwave. ||||||微波炉 Okay, my microwave is busted. ||||坏了 ||||broken And it's busted because I used to use it as a timer. |||||||||||计时器 But I didn't use the timer function, I would still have it operate. So just turned with nothing in it and it kind of went kerplunk and it's a beautiful big microwave. ||||||||||||咚的一声|||||| ||||||||||||plouf|||||| ||||||||||||dull thud sound|||||| 所以只是转身,里面什么都没有,它有点像 kerplunk,它是一个漂亮的大微波炉。 So you fried your own microwave by using it as a timer. Yep. When you would actually run the microwave empty in order to use the timer function? Correct. ||iria|||||||||||||correto Have you told your landlord yet that you fried there, I'm trying to make it seem like it's their fault. ||||||||炸坏了||||||||||| |||||||||||||make|||||| 你有没有告诉你的房东你在那里炸了,我试图让它看起来像是他们的错。 This is another rule. Don't run an empty microwave because you're too lazy to get a real timer. Also, don't let your landlord listen to this podcast. So we started with the first step of the recipe Sam gave me. Bring some water to the boil as they say in the cookbook trade heavily salted water and I'd get my green beans into that water for like three minutes max and then get them into the sink under a lot of cold cold cold water to arrest the cooking process. ||||||||||||||||||煮沸|||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||水槽||||||||||||| ||||||||||||||||||boil|||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||arrest||| |||||||||||||||||||||||||||salgada||||||||||||||||||||||pia||||||||||interromper||| Okay, there'll be bright green as a result of this. |haverá|||||||| Nice. Nice, right? Yeah. If you have a colander, and Johnny I hope you have a colander. ||||strainer or sieve|||||||| You can you can run it through the colander and that'll get that hot water out of there faster and you can ice it and get it quick but if you don't, you'll figure it out. ||||||||漏勺||||||||||||||||||||||||||| ||||||||strainer or sieve||||||||||||||||||||||||||| |||||||||||retirar|||||||||||||||||||||||| Just get those things cold as quickly as possible. ||aquelas|||||| And then you can put them aside. I think you've already... Oh, I think more water you want a lot more a lot more cold water. |||||deixá-los|||||||||||||||||||| I think so we've got the rice cooking in the rice cooker. We've got water boiling, so we can throw in some green beans for three minutes. It turns out that Johnny does in fact own a colander which is great. ||||||||||passoire||| 事实证明,约翰尼确实拥有一个很棒的滤锅。 And that means it is time to start in on the chicken. The first thing you do is season the chicken, which you want to do like really aggressively. Okay. Okay? Meaning meaning like more than it feels like I should be. ||||||||||||||||大力地||||||||||||| ||||||season||||||||||aggressively||||||||||||| Yeah, you should be like, Wow, that's a lot. We're gonna do like a kind of a, like a like a fake "confit", which is which is a French process of cooking in its own fat. |||||||||||||油封烹饪||||||||||||| |||||||||||||slow-cooked in fat||||||||||||| 我们要做的就像一个,就像一个假的“confit”,这是一个法国人用自己的脂肪烹饪的过程。 Okay, we're not cooking in chicken fat we'll be cooking in olive oil and not a ton but a lot. So what you want to do is get some salt and pepper on there. Quite a lot of salt. Quite a lot of pepper. Really massage it in there. |好好揉进去||| And then I think, hey, it's Johnny's party, but I'm offering the instruction. Yeah, so we're gonna go with some rosemary as well. |||||||迷迭香|| |||||||herb for flavor|| Crazy. Right? Super fragrant, piney, funky, really nice. You're gonna let him off the hook, my friend. |||香气扑鼻|松香味的|怪异的||||||||||| |||fragrant|Smelling like pine|funky||||||||||| ||||||||||||||soltar|| This is gonna be good. We're getting crazy. And maybe some red pepper flakes. |||||碎片 |||||flakes If you have some leftover from the pizzeria when you bought those slices... Right. After the last... ||||剩下的披萨|||披萨店|||||几片披萨|||| |||||||pizzeria||||||||| We want a little spicy too. Okay, so take yourself, take your pepper. And like you just want to go to town. Like Like, just as it... Yes, you're doing great. That's exactly... Man, you're killing it. Keep on going. ||man|||||| Now, we're gonna get a big high sided pan. |||||||高边的| |||||||sided| 现在,我们要得到一个大的高边平底锅。 Okay. I don't know how many pans Johnny has. I'm gonna guess three. How many pans do you have? I have 123. So what's the biggest pan that you own? This guy. That That's the biggest pan? You're gonna take the biggest one. And we're going to put a lot of olive oil on there. Okay. Like, like when you say a lot. How much do you mean? Like glug glug, glug, glug, glug, glug, glug, glug, glug, glug. |咕噜咕噜||||||||| |Gulping sound repeatedly.||||||||| I think I was like 14 glugs. There is a lot of glugs. |||||||||||drinks or sips Oh, is it... when I put the chicken in, is it going to be submerged? ||||||||||||||浸没 ||||||||||||||submerged 哦,是不是……当我把鸡放进去的时候,它会被淹没吗? No, it's not. But we're also not skimming the pan with just a little oil. ||||掠过||||||| ||||skimming||||||| You just roll with it. ||顺其自然|| you|||| 你只是滚动它。 glug, glug, glug, glug, glug. So we have a lot of olive oil in there. If you have a bayleaf that would be cool to go in that olive oil. ||||月桂叶|||||||||| ||||bay leaf|||||||||| But I'm guessing Johnny doesn't have a bayleaf. That's okay. That's okay. Medium heat. Medium heat meaning in the oven. |||||||中火烤箱 中等热量。中火意味着在烤箱中。 So on the stovetop, Charles, okay, there's a dial under each one of the burners. |||炉灶上||||||||||| |||cooking surface|||||dial||||||burners And usually they're labeled low, medium, and high. We want to go in the middle. And this is a moment for reflection. Watching that oil, what do you reflect about? Well, I'm actually just spacing out and watching the oil because it changes a little bit, it begins to move a little bit. ||||发呆|走神||||||||||||||||| ||||daydreaming|||||||||||||||||| And eventually it's going to take on this thing that it's like a mirage, a little bit of a shimmer. |||||||||||||海市蜃楼||||||闪烁 |||||||||||||mirage||||||glow or gleam And then we know it's pretty hot. And it's kind of an opportunity to contemplate our lives and to change is inevitable. Is this the right girl to be making this chicken for? Eventually, when it's time to stop contemplating life's most important questions, the oil will be relatively hot. |||||||思考|||||||不可避免的|||||||||||||||||||||||||||| |||||||contemplate|||||||inevitable|||||||||||||||||||||||||||| And that's when we put in our chicken. ||||||our| Exactly. Go for it looking good. You want it bubbling, bubbling. |||冒泡的| |||bubbling| But you don't want it out of control. And you can move pretty slowly. Okay, this is a very forgiving process for Johnny who's nervous and doesn't know what he's doing. |||||宽容的||||||||||| 好的,对于紧张且不知道自己在做什么的约翰尼来说,这是一个非常宽容的过程。 Oh, sorry. Sorry. That's a lot of oil. Okay, but nobody's hurt. Yeah. And after about 15 or 20 minutes, turn the pieces over. I would start skin down. Skin... It's meaning meaning meaning breasts, like the top of the chicken down. Yeah, the so their thighs, once again, your breast obsession is laudable but misplaced. Their thighs and they have a side that is mostly skin and a side that is mostly not skin right. |||||||||痴迷||值得赞扬的||错位的|||||||||||||||||||| |||||||||||louable|||||||||||||||||||||| |||||||||||praiseworthy but misplaced||misplaced|||||||||||||||||||| So I would put the skin side down so that it has more of a chance of crisping. |||||||||||||||||becoming crispy Okay, I think let's let's let's move on. That's it. I think it's time to flip. |||||翻转 Nice. Well done. Oil is acting up a little bit but... So that's going and in fact, if you feel that the chicken is done, you can take it out and just like kind of let it hang out on a on a platter. ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||盘子 ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||prato On a plate? Notice... notice that I used the word platter and you use the word plate. ||||||||||platter|||||| ||prato|||||||||||||| I feel like this is where the pro tip starts. Yeah, man. Get the platter. Get the platter. Okay, make it warm. Um, okay, so your chicken is or is going to be done. We're confident about it's gonna be beautiful. It's going to look like a beautiful piece of furniture, this mahogany color. |||||||||||红木色| |||||||||||mahogany| |||||||||||mogno| It's going to be just fantastic. I'm feeling very confident right now. Is it done? I'm a little nervous about that. We cooked six of these things. |煮了|||| One of them is sacrificial. ||||牺牲的 ||||sacrificial Okay. So when he thinks it's done, you can take it out. Put it on a cutting board and use a small knife to cut along one of the bones in the thigh and take a peek at the interior meat to see like what's going on in there. ||||||||||||||||||||大腿部位||||看一看|||||||||||| ||||cutting|||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||| Right. Is it red? You want it to be done running the juices running clear and not bloody okay right and and and then done all the way down to the bottom. ||||||||汁液流出||||||||||||||||||| ||||||||juices||||||||||||||||||| 你希望它完成运行,使果汁清澈而不是血腥,好吧,然后一直到底部。 That seems like a clutch move to not introduce blood into... like... Salmonella is is a buzzkill for a day. ||||关键的||||||||沙门氏菌||||扫兴的事||| ||||clutch||||||||Salmonella||||buzzkill||| ||||||||||||||||desanimador||| 这似乎是一个不将血液引入......就像......沙门氏菌的关键举措是一天的嗡嗡声。 And and while you're doing I'm gonna check on our rice. Rice looks good. The rice is all done. Yes. Fantastic. That's huge. That's, that's that's a game changer, right? So we've dealt with the chicken, how about that starch, oh, it's done baby, boom, boom, all it needs is fluffing and put it on the table. |||||||||淀粉|||||||||||翻松一下|||||| ||||||||||||||||||||fluffing|||||| So we're two out of three. And we've already cooked those, those green beans. So one thing we could do is just toss them in butter, okay, with maybe with some slivered almonds that you got from a nut aisle at the whole foods... That works. Little salt, squeeze some lemon juice on there at the end, you know, we're serving. ||||||||拌匀|||||||||切成薄片的|杏仁片|||||||坚果区|||||||||挤一点||柠檬汁||||||||||上菜 ||||||||toss|||||||||thinly sliced||||||||aisle||||||||||||||||||||| ||||||||jogar||||||||||amêndoas|||||||||||||||||||||||||||| So now we're done, we're done. We're done. I mean, one of the things that I really like about this combination that we've we've put together is that you have a kind of crisp, crunchy, salty, almost spicy, or hints of spiciness in the chicken. |||||||||||||||||||||||||酥脆的|酥脆的|咸味的||||提示||辣味||| ||||||||||||||||||||||||||crunchy|||||||||| |||||||||||||||||||||||||crocante|crocante|||||||||| Yeah. And it's quite juicy. |||多汁的 And then you have the the kind of crispness of those green beans, right, they have a little bit of a snap to them. ||||||||脆爽感||||||||||||||| ||||||||firm texture|||||||||||||snap|| ||||||||a crocância||||||||||||||| And then a textural element from both the salt that you've put on there at the end. |||质感的||||||||||||| 然后是你最后放在那里的盐的纹理元素。 And from the nuts. |||e das nozes. And that that sweetness vectors with the sweetness of the chicken, the saltiness kind of talks to each other. ||||传递||||||||咸味|||||| ||||vectors|||||||||||||| And the and the rice acts as this kind of nutty tasting pure bridge between the two. ||||||||||坚果味的|坚果味的||||| ||||||||||nutty|||||| 和米饭充当了两者之间的这种坚果味纯正的桥梁。 Maybe I should get better China, because I have these generic white boring, and then we're done. ||||||||||普通的|||||| |||||China|||||generic|||||| And so we put it on the plate. Well, we want to be careful about just put it on the plate. This is not a soup kitchen, you're not like in the army, like you don't have to make it looked like an architect was involved. ||||||||||||||||||||||architect|| |||||cozinha||||||||||||||||||| But let's keep the border the border and the food within it. ||||||border||||| Okay, and maybe you've got the chicken thigh or two chicken thighs, a little drift of the rice, and then a stack of the green beans in which you have Johnny please tried to make them all go in the same direction so that they're parallel. |||||||||||鸡腿肉|||一点点|||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||平行的 ||||||||||||||drift|||||||stack|||||||||||||||||||||||| ||||||||||||||fio|||||||pilha|||||||||||||||||||||||| So our final rule, presentation matters. Clean up the plate. Make all the beans point in the same direction. You know, classy right? ||有品位的| Sam also says you know, light a few candles. Grab a bottle of red wine. And you don't even have to overthink it. ||||||过度思考| ||||||e você nem precisa pensar demais nisso.| Just Just go to the wine store. Ask the guy what you should serve. And then take his advice. Show me your napkins. What kind of napkins you got. The kind of napkins we have are paper towels, not classy, but I can improvise and use a dish towel as a napkin. ||||||||||||||毛巾||高档的||||即兴使用||||抹布|毛巾||| ||||||||||||||||||||improvise|||||||| 你买了什么样的餐巾纸。我们的餐巾纸是纸巾,不优雅,但我可以即兴发挥,用洗碗巾当餐巾纸。 Yeah, I'm not I'm not feeling... If it's... that's better. I would say I would say before day, maybe we go buy two nice plates, dinner plates. ||||||||||||||盘子|| And maybe we buy two napkins. Yeah. So dessert anything else we need before the doorbell rings? 那么|甜点||||||||响起 Brauchen wir noch etwas, bevor es an der Tür klingelt? No, no, we still haven't talked about dessert. dessert. dessert is going to be a win. Okay, you're going to take the plates when it's all done. Take them into the kitchen. don't deal with them. |não lidar||com eles Now. Come back with the cheese and two little plates. The bread is right there. ||||ali Oh man. The cheese is looking great. It is oozing. ||在渗出。 ||está escorrendo is like it is super oozing. |||||超级渗出 Get through all of that. Oh my gosh, that was so good. ||天哪|||| It was so great. Everybody's super Irish. ||爱尔兰人 Tout le monde|| She's stoked. |她很兴奋。 |She's very excited. He's stoked. |他很兴奋。 I was right to be confident. Everything is great. What possibly could come next. And now's when you go to the hoop with store bought all the way says the semi confident people will have some ice cream. |现在是||||||上篮|||||||||||||||| |agora||||||balde|||comprado||para||||||||||| Yeah, not us man. malamar a glass, a tiny glass like just a couple of ounces of cold organic milk and a malamar Wow. 玛拉玛尔|||||||||||盎司|||||||玛拉玛尔| chocolate marshmallow cookie||||||||||||||||||| ||||pequeno|||||um par||onzas|||||||| malamar 一杯,很小的玻璃杯,就像几盎司冷有机牛奶和 malamar 哇。 That's how you close did we just blow her mind? That's how you close Johnny malamar organic milk, you know malamar? |||||玛拉玛尔||||| ||||Johnny||||||malamar Yeah, chocolate covered marshmallow with a little amazed ram on the bottom. |||棉花糖|||||公羊||| ||||||||ram||| ||coberto|||||surpreso|carneiro|com|sim| There's this thing that happens. I found that you have not had milk and perhaps neither has she or he in many, many years. Now you're coming back and it's like a matter line. ||||||||assunto| This taste because organic milk now grass fed organic milk is so delicious. ||||||草饲的|草饲养的||||| |sabor|porque||||grama|alimentado||||| It is amazing and that pure kind of barnyard awesomeness with that one single chocolate cookie. ||||||||农家气息|纯粹的棒||||||饼干 ||||||||barnyard||||||| ||||||||celeiro|incrível|||||| The cheese. So you started out really basic, just like mom would make. And then you got a little more sophisticated with the cheese. And then you're like a little kid again. And I know you want to go listen to records. Who knows what's gonna happen next? |sabe|||| Yeah. But you're also good guy, right? a creepy guy would not serve a malamar in organic milk. |诡异的||||||玛瑙水母||| |creepy||||||||| |arrepiante||||||||| Right? Right. A creepy guy might like tie up a trout with chives. |令人毛骨悚然的||||绑住|||鳟鱼||细香葱 ||||||||trout||herbaceous green onions |arrepiante|||||||truta||cebolinha 一个令人毛骨悚然的家伙可能喜欢用韭菜绑一条鳟鱼。 And you know, like, that's putting a roofie in your drink. |||||||迷奸药||| |||||||date rape drug||| ||sabe|||||colocar uma droga na sua bebida||| Yeah, watch it. Watch it. No, seriously, it's a third day with some dude. ||||||||家伙 |||||||algum|cara And he's like, I mean, he's not a professional chef. But he did this crazy bondage thing with a trout, then there's all kinds of different butters. |||||捆绑游戏||||鳟鱼|||||||黄油种类 |||||bondage||||||||||| |||||bondage||||||há|||||manteigas 但是他用一条鳟鱼做了这个疯狂的束缚,然后有各种不同的黄油。 And like, he told you too much about the wine. |||||||sobre|| And don't be a jerk, man. I love I love this, I would eat this meal, just try to bring pleasure to the other person. ||eu|||||||||||traga|prazer|||| That's it. Oh, I like that. It's not about you. It's about serving someone. ||服务| ||servir| Like, it's to deliver on joy to other people. |||||alegria||| So we started by talking about confidence, because I think confidence allows you to do a lot of this stuff. ||||||||||confiança||||||||| But there's a there's a related word that also applies and that's competence. ||||||||||||能力 ||||||||||||competence |||||||||aplica||| And I think that probably there is very little that is more attractive than competence. ||||||||||||||competência The ability to do something in the service of others is kind of cool. And, and brings confidence to the person who can do it and delivers kind of relief to the person who receives it. |||||||||||||||宽慰|||||接受的人| I can make this dinner for you and you will find it delicious. I can also change the wheel in your car and fix that leaky toilet. ||||||||||||漏水的| ||||||||||||leaky| And I'm pretty good at making a living. Am I fine here? Have you in the kitchen? I'm going to take care of you emotionally. |||||||情感上 It's okay. So we talked about what Johnny should do. |||||约翰尼|| What's the one thing Gianni should not do? ||||he||| Well, it's don't apologize. Interesting. Do not apologize. You will be so sorely tempted to do so. |||||诱惑||| ||||very|||| But don't apologize because it looks like you're kind of begging for a compliment, which is just an awkward weird, it's a bad luck. |||||||||||||compliment|||||||||| 但是不要道歉,因为这看起来像是在乞求赞美,这只是一个尴尬的怪事,这是一种运气不好。 By the same token. |||token Don't try and explain how much you know about like you listen to a podcast at slate. 不要试图解释你知道多少,就像你听一个播客一样。 You're not like a CIA trained chef. 你不像受过中央情报局培训的厨师。 You just barely got that check. On the table there's still a price tag on the rice cooker just here's a delicious thing to eat and I hope you really enjoy it be true designs own Yeah. 桌子上还有电饭煲的价格标签,只是这里有好吃的东西,我希望你真的喜欢它是真正的设计自己呀。 And then she'll say this bit it's actually pretty dry and if it is, you got to be like Yep, I did that on purpose would you like them Alomar? |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||a la mode So me and Johnny went through all of Sam's Rules land and for two hours we cook and then he sat down to eat the meal. Chicken is really good. It's really Really good. And I'll be totally honest with you. The meal was amazing. It was it was perfect. I'm not saying that just That's the name of this episode. It was it was like tasted kind of gourmet but also simple. ||||||||gourmet||| We really we impressed ourselves. And then after the main course we ate some of the runny cheese with a baguette. |||||||||||runny||||baguette And then it was time for dessert and I had a actually gone to the grocery store to find the mallomars but I couldn't find them and so we finished with them. ||||||||||||||||||||chocolate-covered cookies||||||||||| What I had managed to find which was chocolate covered Nutter butter. ||||||||||peanut butter cookie| 我设法找到的是巧克力覆盖的坚果黄油。 Which artist Not as close As a malamar but still actually pretty good Okay, so it's We did the meal. 哪位艺术家不像马拉马尔那样接近,但实际上仍然相当不错 好的,所以我们做了这顿饭。 Yeah, we The chalk covering About her what's Tell me your reaction. It was delicious. Do you Like, you'll be more confident In the kitchen now I think so having this experience under my belt. I think it can be repeated. So do you think you're gonna invite your ex girlfriend over and make her dinner? Absolutely. Yeah, I mean, this is this is this is definitely a game changer. |||||||this||||| 是的,我的意思是,这就是这绝对是一个游戏规则的改变者。 I think it's one of those things that like she talked to her. ||it is|||||||||| And she's like, he made the most amazing meal. And he and it's that thing where they're like, and he can cook. Like, like, I think that if that's the last line in my obituary, I'd be pretty satisfied with that. ||||||||||||final life summary|||||| 就像,就像,我想如果这是我讣告的最后一行,我会很满意的。 But maybe on my next day, you'll come over as well. but|||||||||| A little the training, we'll still need to be on for a little bit. I'll stand on the window. Yes, exactly. Just give me a thumbs up. If you want to see the recipe for Sam Sifton, one perfect meal, we've actually posted it online, along with photos of Johnny and these beautiful chicken thighs that we made together. 如果你想看看山姆·西夫顿的食谱,一顿完美的饭菜,我们实际上已经在网上发布了,还有约翰尼的照片和我们一起制作的这些漂亮的鸡大腿。 They're at sleep calm slash how to. Thanks so much to Johnny Levin for letting us into his kitchen and the SAM Sifton at the New York Times. Sam has a ton of great cookbooks he's written including Thanksgiving, how to cook it well. And a new one coming out in a few months called See you on Sunday, a cookbook for family and friends. We're gonna stay in touch with Johnny and his romantic life improves because of his cooking. We will definitely keep you posted. If you have something we can help you with. We want to hear from you. Send us a note about your problem and how to it's like calm, and we'll take on your case and see if we can't make the problem go away. Also, if you like what you heard today, please give us a rating and a review in Apple podcasts. It helps people find the show. ||||the| It helps us know that someone's listening. Also my wife might think I'm more cool. how tos executive producer is Derrick john Merrick Jacob is our engineer. |||||Derrick John Merrick||Derrick John Merrick|||| Our theme music is by Hannah's Brown. |||||Hannah Brown's| June Thomas is the senior managing producer of slate podcasts. And Gabriel Roth is slate editorial director for audio. Special thanks to Michael Conrado and Asha Cindy Jeff. ||||a surname||Asha Cindy Jeff|| I'm Charles duhigg. Thanks for listening. If you don't already know tune in is an all in one audio app where you can listen to LiFE sports, music, news and your favorite podcasts. Go to tune in.com to download the app or listen to how to with me Charles duhigg on tune in.