How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks - Leil Lowndes - ANIMATED BOOK REVIEW
hey this is going to be an animated book review of the book how to talk to anyone
92 little tricks for big success in relationships by Leo landers now since
there's no need to little tricks I'm gonna split up in this video I'm only
going to do six the first one I really enjoyed was when you look at the other
person's face make sure that your smile is genuine and the tip that she gives is
to wait maybe a quarter of a second maybe a half of a second longer take
their faces look at their face and then smile don't just smile at everyone don't
give your smiles for free
look at their face and then smile this quarter of a second she realized makes
you smile more genuine it makes you smile more valuable the second little
trick is to pretend that your eyes are glued to the speaker is someone is
talking part in your eyes are glued to them and try not to look away very often
and this goes hand in hand with the third tip which is trying not to fidget
now in the book compelling people they did a little bit of research and they
found that people who fit or attach their face or miss with their glasses
too little fidgeting like this are less influential so you should try not to
fidget it'll make it easier to talk to someone and make it easier for them to
talk to you the first electric is to match their mood if someone is in a
really crappy mood and they're not just feeling it today you should try to match
that doesn't mean to get down in the dumps with him that means you should try
to match it and not be overwhelming for them if they are overwhelming you should
not be sad or depressing you should try to match their mood and make them like
you better it's basically mirroring only with your personality
the fifth one is to be aware detective and there was a really good story that I
wanted to include in this video and that is I was visiting my aunt and she seemed
really down she seemed really upset and I don't know why and every time I asked
her she always says don't know now say something about that
about the dog and she kept talking about this dog and as I in the world so
eventually I was putting Leal's little trick to use and I said all right if you
want to talk about is the dog also talking about the dog so I started
talking to her and asking her questions about a dog
and little did she know she started talking to me ten times more and I found
out that her dog had actually had surgery and she was really upset about
it so you need to pay really close attention to the words that they are
saying because it is usually in their subconscious about something that
they're concerned about pay attention that if someone says a word more than
ones you can probably make it leverage for talking to them in a conversation
and the six thing is pretty common sense but i wanna put it on here cuz everyone
should know it and that is don't ever tease if you were teasing someone that's
not in the conversation
other people are going to look at you and say hey that person teases about
other people I want to tease about me when I'm not in this conversation so
don't ever tease the first one has to look at the other person's face and wait
a little bit before smiling the second one is a pretend that your eyes are
glued to the speaker the third one is don't fidget don't mess with your hair
anything the first one is to try to match their mood the fifth one is be
aware detective in pay close attention to the words that they are saying and
the last tip I'm going to give in this video is don't ever tease hope you found
it interesting and helpful I hope you enjoyed watching it thanks for watching
and subscribe for more because I will be putting more videos out about this very
specific book because there are tons of awesome tricks I had talked to anyone
