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Why Trust Is Worth It

Anya and Gael have to trust each other.As acrobats in Cirque du Soleil they sometimes literally put their lives in someone else's hands.

Trust is a confusing thing.

It seems so simple, but when you try to pin it down, it can be elusive. I think of the way that my body sits on a surface that's new to me, unknown. And how my muscles remain tight, anticipating anything, and I'm constantly aware of that surface. Over time, with familiarity, I can relax and start to lean back. For many of us, that initial tension exists so much of the time.

We expend so much energy watching, and calculating, trying to predict, reading signals in people, ready for anything to change suddenly. Preparing to be disappointed. So much energy spent. We talk about trust as something you build, as if it is a structure or a thing, but in that building there seems to be something about letting go. And what it affords us is a luxury. It allows us to stop thinking. To stop worrying that someone won't catch us if we fall, to stop constantly scanning for inconsistencies, to stop wondering how other people act when they are not in our presence.It allows us to relax a part of our minds, so that we can focus on what's in front of us. And that's why it's such a tragedy when it's broken.

A betrayal can make you think of all the other betrayals that are waiting for you in things you haven't thought of, in people you rely on. And you can feel yourself tightening up--bracing and in the worst cases, you might resolve to trust no one. But, that doesn't really work. Trust is your relationship to the unknown, what you can't control.

And you can't control everything. And it's not all or none. It's a slow and steady practice of learning about the capacity of the world. And it's worth it. To keep trying. And it's not easy. Anya says that trust is like a fork, not one way, but many ways.

Physical, emotional, and maybe something else. I almost imagine trust as these invisible hands that we stretch out into the world, looking for someone to hold on to as we walk into the unknown future. Anya and Gael began practicing together as friends, and now they are a couple.

It took time. So who do you trust? And how can you grow it?

Why Trust Is Worth It Warum es sich lohnt, zu vertrauen Por qué merece la pena confiar Porque é que a confiança vale a pena Почему доверие стоит того Güven Neden Buna Değer? 为什么信任值得

Anya and Gael have to trust each other.As acrobats in Cirque du Soleil they sometimes literally put their lives in someone else’s hands. Аня||Гаэль|||||||акробаты цирка||Цирк дю Солей||Цирк дю Солей|||||||||| Anya ve Gael birbirlerine güvenmek zorundalar. Cirque du Soleil'de akrobatlar olarak bazen hayatlarını gerçekten başkalarının ellerine bırakıyorlar.

Trust is a confusing thing. Güven kafa karıştırıcı bir şeydir.

It seems so simple, but when you try to pin it down, it can be elusive. |||||||||||||||неуловимый |||||||||||||||difficult to grasp |||||||tenta|||||isso|pode|| Çok basit görünüyor, ancak onu tespit etmeye çalıştığınızda anlaşılması zor olabilir. I think of the way that my body sits on a surface that’s new to me, unknown. Pienso en la forma en que mi cuerpo se asienta en una superficie que es nueva para mí, desconocida. Vücudumun benim için yeni, bilinmeyen bir yüzeyde nasıl durduğunu düşünüyorum. And how my muscles remain tight, anticipating anything, and I’m constantly aware of that surface. ||||||ожидая|||||||| ||||||expecting|||||||| y|||||tensas||||||consciente||| Y cómo mis músculos permanecen tensos, anticipando cualquier cosa, y estoy constantemente consciente de esa superficie. Ve kaslarım nasıl da gergin kalıyor, her şeyi tahmin ediyor ve sürekli o yüzeyin farkındayım. Over time, with familiarity, I can relax and start to lean back. |||знакомство|||||||| |||comfort|||||||| con el tiempo|con el tiempo||familiaridad|||||||reclinarme| Con el tiempo, con familiaridad, puedo relajarme y empezar a recostarme. Zamanla, aşinalıkla rahatlayabilir ve arkama yaslanmaya başlayabilirim. For many of us, that initial tension exists so much of the time.

We expend so much energy watching, and calculating, trying to predict, reading signals in people, ready for anything to change suddenly. |тратим||||||||||||||||||| Preparing to be disappointed. |||Готовлюсь разочароваться. |||decepcionado So much energy spent. We talk about trust as something you build, as if it is a structure or a thing, but in that building there seems to be something about letting go. ||||||||||||||||||||||parece haber|||||dejar ir| And what it affords us is a luxury. |||предоставляет|||| |||ofrece||||lujo It allows us to stop thinking. |permite|||| To stop worrying that someone won’t catch us if we fall, to stop constantly scanning for inconsistencies, to stop wondering how other people act when they are not in our presence.It allows us to relax a part of our minds, so that we can focus on what’s in front of us. ||||||||||||||||несоответствия|||задаваться вопросом|||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||| ||||||||||||||||inconsistencies||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||| And that’s why it’s such a tragedy when it’s broken.

A betrayal can make you think of all the other betrayals that are waiting for you in things you haven’t thought of, in people you rely on. |предательство|||||||||предательства|||||||||||||||| |treachery||||||||||||||||||||||||| |traición|||||||||traiciones|||que te esperan||||||||||||| 裏切りは、あなたが思いもよらなかったこと、あなたが頼りにしている人々の中であなたを待っている他のすべての裏切りを思い起こさせることができます。 And you can feel yourself tightening up--bracing and in the worst cases, you might resolve to trust no one. |||||напрягаетесь||напрягаясь|||||||||||| |||||tensando||preparándote|||||||||||| Y puede sentir que se está endureciendo - y, en el peor de los casos, podría decidir no confiar en nadie. But, that doesn’t really work. Trust is your relationship to the unknown, what you can’t control. |||relación|||||||

And you can’t control everything. And it’s not all or none. It’s a slow and steady practice of learning about the capacity of the world. And it’s worth it. ||vale la pena| وهذا يستحق كل هذا العناء. To keep trying. And it’s not easy. Anya says that trust is like a fork, not one way, but many ways. |||||||tenedor||||||

Physical, emotional, and maybe something else. Физический||||| I almost imagine trust as these invisible hands that we stretch out into the world, looking for someone to hold on to as we walk into the unknown future. Casi imagino la confianza como estas manos invisibles que extendemos hacia el mundo, buscando a alguien a quien sostener mientras caminamos hacia un futuro desconocido. 私たちが未知の未来に足を踏み入れるときに握ってくれる誰かを探して、私たちが世界に伸ばしているこれらの目に見えない手としての信頼をほとんど想像します。 Anya and Gael began practicing together as friends, and now they are a couple. |||||||||||||una pareja

It took time. So who do you trust? ||||confías Entonces, ¿en quién confías? And how can you grow it? ||||cultivar| ¿Y cómo puedes cultivarlo? Ve onu nasıl büyütebilirsin?