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Slavica Squire, Da li da USTANETE ili da odustanete?

Da li da USTANETE ili da odustanete?

Dragi moji, dobro mi došli!

ja sam Slavica,

a ovo je moj YouTube kanal

i svakog četvrtka ovde imate

korisne savete kako da kreirate život i posao koje ćete da obožavate.

U današnjem videu

radi se o tome kako da ne odustanete

kada ste na putu ostvarenja svojih ciljeva.

Prošle nedelje sam imala LIVE na YouTube-u i puno ljudi me je to pitalo.

i čak i kada sam objasnila, opet malo kasnije,

opet me je neko to pitao i onda sam odlučila da ću da snimim video o tome jer očigledno to predstavlja

ljudima danas veliki problem.

A i inače, iz prakse znam,

da su ljudi jako nestrpljivi danas kada su

u pitanju ostvarenja nekih ciljeva životnih

i da lako odustaju od velikih stvari

i onda životare i to je velika šteta.

Ja ću vam danas dati par

ideja kako, u stvari, možete da

istrajete lakše u ostvarenju svojih ciljeva.

Obavezno pogledajte ovaj video do kraja

i pritisnite subscribe i zvonce, kako biste

uvek bili obavešteni kad ima nešto novo na mom kanalu.

I korisno, naravno!

Tamo negde, pre dvadeset godina

ja sam upoznala NLP i coaching

prvo NLP, pa kasnije coaching.

i prva misao koju sam imala kada sam upoznala tu fenomenalnu metodologiju

je bila da

da zaista od srca želim

da dođem u Srbiju

i da podučavam ljude.

Jer sam shvatila koliko je to korisno i da želim

svima to da

približim, da mogu da uče,

da im obezbedim da mogu da

imaju kvalitetan trening na našem jeziku.

Ali, zašto počinjem odatle?

Zato što je to bio san koji sam imala pre 20 godina

a danas ga živim.

I zato što je jako dugo trajalo

to ostvarenje. Ali danas kada pogledam,

šta bih sve izgubila da sam odustala,

bukvalno mi nije dobro.

Jako mi je bilo teško

jako dugo je trajalo,

kroz mnoga pakla sam prošla,

ali,

sam mnogo srećna što sam danas tu gde jesam.

I znam da mnogi od vas imaju neke svoje velike snove

i žele da postignu neke stvari

ali odustanu.

Neki odustanu zato što ne ide brzo

Zato što razmišljaju da se sve to dešava preko noći

Ni drugim ljudima se ne dešava preko noći!

Vama se ČINI

da se nekome dešava preko noći

ali vi niste imali pojma da ja postojim

pre dvadeset godina

niste imali pojma da sam ja imala san pre dvadeset godina

vi sada možda mene vidite i kažete:

"WOW, blago Slavici! Ona priča na YouTube-u! Ljudi je slušaju!"

"Ona ima neke edukacije, ljudi dođu!"

"Tako bih volela i ja! Ona je napisala neke knjige"

"Tako bih volela i ja!"

Ali najgore je što ljudi koji bi voleli tako da rade

kao ja i koji bi možda mogli i trebali da rade kao ja

možda i bolje od toga,

odustanu zato što to

Primete da za godinu dana ne postignu to što sam postigla

za dvadeset niti mogu da postignu za dve

i onda, kao, "Ok", odustanu.

A ne treba odustajati!

Ako je nešto vaš san

onda zaista postoje načini

kako vi možete da dođete do njega.

Ali jedan od osnovnih

sastojaka tog ostvarenja je, u stvari, istrajnost.

Da istrajete u tome.

I istrajati naravno nije lako,

jer da je lako, svako bi,

istrajao, ali ne može svako da istraje

i teško je!

Ja vas neću lagati. Neću reći

"Postoji lak način da"

"stignete do svojih ciljeva". Ne!

Ne postoji lak, samo postoji način!

Jedna od ključnih stvari je vaša svest

znači, pod broj jedan je vaša svest o tome

šta ćete sve izgubiti ako odustanete.

i zato vam ja dajem moj primer.

Zamislite danas da ja nemam ovaj život

da sam i dalje u Nemačkoj zaposlena

i da nisam uzela svoj život u svoje ruke i da sam, evo, sa pedeset i nešto godina

skoro, onako

poprilično u tom nekom

dobu u kom kada izgubite posao, ne možete više da se zaposlite nigde

i da drhtim da li će me neko zaposliti

i upropastiti mi moj stil života

na koji sam navikla

i sve te stvari koje idu s tim.

Znate, s tim godinama kada ste zaposleni

i kada će vas otpustiti i, šta ja znam, zameniti nekim mlađim.

To je jedna stvar, a druga je stvar

zamislite sve te ljude koje sam u poslednjih

eto, šesnaest godina, koliko sam stvarno

na putu u Srbiji, da kažem,

na našim prostorima koliko radim

sve te ljude koji su od mene učili, da nisu

imali tu priliku da uče od mene

i da nisu imali tu priliku da promene svoje živote.

I koliko u stvari je to nekim životima značilo

mom najviše!

Ali i mnogim drugima takođe.

I to što vi imate kao san, takođe

može da znači mnogim životima

mnogo, jer ne znam, šta god da je vaš san

problem je u tome što mi u stvari

često odustajemo zbog nestrpljenja

i zbog toga što ne shvatamo šta ćemo sve izgubiti ako

odustanemo

a drugi problem je što odustajemo zbog toga što nam ljudi govore.

Ja se sećam pre

20 godina imala sam taj san,

i, naravno, kad sam o tome govorila,

svi su mislili: Ma pusti je, neće to ona uraditi.

Kao, nemoguće je da će tako nešto uraditi

da će dati otkaz i doći u Srbiju da radi

ali kada sam konačno to uradila,

2003. sam dala otkaz i 2004. sam prestala da radim došla prvi put u Beograd

i krenula da započinjem celu ovu stvar

to je bilo jako teško,

znači, tri - četiri godine kasnije nakon što sam zaista poželela

i sebi postavila taj cilj,

tri godine straha i drhtanja

i premišljanja i odlučivanja

i konačno kad sam odlučila,

i kada sam došla ovde,

ljudi su mislili da sam odlepila.

Toliko su mislili da sam poludela

da su mi davali vizit kartice

da s nekim porazgovaram

"sa nekim pametnim", tako su mi govorili.

"Evo imam ja...", pa onda psihoterapeut ili

psiholog ili psihijatar

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Da li da USTANETE ili da odustanete? |||aufstehen||| (verb to be)|question particle|(verb to be)|you get up|or|(verb to be)|you give up Sollten Sie AUFSTEHEN oder sollten Sie aufgeben? Should you STAND UP or give up?

Dragi moji, dobro mi došli! Dear|my|well|to me|arrived My dear ones, welcome!

ja sam Slavica, I|am|Slavica I am Slavica,

a ovo je moj YouTube kanal and|this|is|my|YouTube|channel and this is my YouTube channel

i svakog četvrtka ovde imate and|every|Thursday|here|you have and every Thursday you have here

korisne savete kako da kreirate život i posao koje ćete da obožavate. useful|tips|how|to|create|life|and|work|that|you will|to|love useful tips on how to create a life and business that you will love.

U današnjem videu In|today's|video In today's video

radi se o tome kako da ne odustanete it is about|reflexive pronoun|about|how|to|not||give up it's about how not to give up

kada ste na putu ostvarenja svojih ciljeva. when|you|on|path|achievement|your|goals when you are on the path to achieving your goals.

Prošle nedelje sam imala LIVE na YouTube-u i puno ljudi me je to pitalo. Last|week|I|had|LIVE|on|||and|many|people|me|was|that|asking Last week I had a LIVE on YouTube and many people asked me about it.

i čak i kada sam objasnila, opet malo kasnije, and|even|and|when|I|explained|again|a little|later and even when I explained it, a little later,

opet me je neko to pitao i onda sam odlučila da ću da snimim video o tome jer očigledno to predstavlja again|me|was|someone|that|asked|and|then|I|decided|to|I will||record|video|about|that|because|obviously|that|represents someone asked me about it again and then I decided that I would record a video about it because obviously it represents

ljudima danas veliki problem. people|today|big|problem a big problem for people today.

A i inače, iz prakse znam, And|also|otherwise|from|practice|I know And also, from experience I know,

da su ljudi jako nestrpljivi danas kada su that|are|people|very|impatient|today|when|are that people are very impatient today when it comes to

u pitanju ostvarenja nekih ciljeva životnih in|question|achievement|some|goals|life regarding the achievement of certain life goals

i da lako odustaju od velikih stvari and|that|easily|give up|from|great|things and that they easily give up on big things

i onda životare i to je velika šteta. and|then|just survive|and|that|is|great|shame and then they just get by, and that is a great shame.

Ja ću vam danas dati par I|will|to you|today|give|pair Today, I will give you a few

ideja kako, u stvari, možete da idea|how|in|fact|you can|to ideas on how, in fact, you can

istrajete lakše u ostvarenju svojih ciljeva. you persist|more easily|in|achieving|your|goals you persevere more easily in achieving your goals.

Obavezno pogledajte ovaj video do kraja Be sure to|watch|this|video|until|the end Make sure to watch this video until the end

i pritisnite subscribe i zvonce, kako biste and|press|subscribe|and|bell|how|you would and press subscribe and the bell, so you can

uvek bili obavešteni kad ima nešto novo na mom kanalu. always|be|informed|when|there is|something|new|on|my|channel always be notified when there is something new on my channel.

I korisno, naravno! It|useful|of course And useful, of course!

Tamo negde, pre dvadeset godina There|somewhere|before|twenty|years Somewhere, twenty years ago

ja sam upoznala NLP i coaching I|am|met|NLP|and|coaching I met NLP and coaching

prvo NLP, pa kasnije coaching. first|NLP|then|later|coaching first NLP, then later coaching.

i prva misao koju sam imala kada sam upoznala tu fenomenalnu metodologiju and|first|thought|that|I|had|when|I|met|that|phenomenal|methodology And the first thought I had when I encountered that phenomenal methodology

je bila da was|female|to be was that

da zaista od srca želim that|truly|from|heart|I wish that I truly wish from the heart

da dođem u Srbiju to|come|to|Serbia to come to Serbia

i da podučavam ljude. and|to|teach|people and to teach people.

Jer sam shvatila koliko je to korisno i da želim Because|I|realized|how much|is|it|useful|and|that|I want Because I realized how useful it is and that I want

svima to da to everyone|that|yes everyone to

približim, da mogu da uče, I bring closer|so that|they can|to|learn I get closer so they can learn,

da im obezbedim da mogu da that|to them|I provide|that|they can|to to provide them with the ability to

imaju kvalitetan trening na našem jeziku. they have|quality|training|in|our|language have quality training in our language.

Ali, zašto počinjem odatle? But|why|do I start|from there But why do I start from there?

Zato što je to bio san koji sam imala pre 20 godina Because|that|it was|that|dream|dream|that|I|had|before|years Because that was a dream I had 20 years ago.

a danas ga živim. and|today|him|live and today I live it.

I zato što je jako dugo trajalo I|that's why|that|is|very|long|lasted And because it lasted a very long time

to ostvarenje. Ali danas kada pogledam, to|realization|But|today|when|I look to achieve. But today when I look,

šta bih sve izgubila da sam odustala, what|would|everything|have lost|if|I|had given up at what I would have lost if I had given up,

bukvalno mi nije dobro. literally|to me|is not|well I literally feel unwell.

Jako mi je bilo teško Very|to me|was|hard|difficult It was very hard for me.

jako dugo je trajalo, very|long|it|lasted It lasted a very long time,

kroz mnoga pakla sam prošla, through|many|hells|I|have passed I went through many hells,

ali, but but,

sam mnogo srećna što sam danas tu gde jesam. am|very|happy|that|am|today|here|where|I am I am very happy that I am here today.

I znam da mnogi od vas imaju neke svoje velike snove I|know|that|many|of|you|have|some|their|big|dreams And I know that many of you have some big dreams

i žele da postignu neke stvari and|they want|to|achieve|some|things and want to achieve some things

ali odustanu. but|they give up but give up.

Neki odustanu zato što ne ide brzo Some|give up|because|that|not|goes|fast Some give up because it doesn't happen quickly

Zato što razmišljaju da se sve to dešava preko noći Because|that|they think|that|reflexive pronoun|all|that|happens|overnight|night Because they think that all of this happens overnight.

Ni drugim ljudima se ne dešava preko noći! Neither|other|people|(reflexive particle)|not|happens|overnight|night It doesn't happen to other people overnight either!

Vama se ČINI to you|reflexive pronoun|seems It SEEMS to you

da se nekome dešava preko noći to|oneself|someone|happens|overnight|night that something happens to someone overnight

ali vi niste imali pojma da ja postojim but|you|were not|had||that|I|exist but you had no idea that I existed

pre dvadeset godina before|twenty|years twenty years ago

niste imali pojma da sam ja imala san pre dvadeset godina you (plural)|had|idea|that|I|I|had|dream|before|twenty|years you had no idea that I had a dream twenty years ago

vi sada možda mene vidite i kažete: you|now|maybe|me|see|and|say you might see me now and say:

"WOW, blago Slavici! Ona priča na YouTube-u! Ljudi je slušaju!" WOW|lucky|Slavica|She|talks|on|||People|are|listening "WOW, lucky Slavica! She's talking on YouTube! People are listening to her!"

"Ona ima neke edukacije, ljudi dođu!" She|has|some|training|people|come "She has some educational sessions, people come!"

"Tako bih volela i ja! Ona je napisala neke knjige" So|would|love|also|I|She|has|written|some|books "I wish I could do that too! She has written some books"

"Tako bih volela i ja!" So|would|love|also|I "I would love that too!"

Ali najgore je što ljudi koji bi voleli tako da rade But|worst|is|that|people|who|would|like|like that|to|work But the worst part is that people who would love to work like that

kao ja i koji bi možda mogli i trebali da rade kao ja like|me|and|who|would|maybe|could|and|should|to|work|like|me like me and who might be able and should work like me

možda i bolje od toga, maybe|and|better|than|that maybe even better than that,

odustanu zato što to give up|because|that|it give up because of that.

Primete da za godinu dana ne postignu to što sam postigla They notice|that|in|year|days|not|achieve|what|that|I|achieved They notice that in a year they don't achieve what I have achieved.

za dvadeset niti mogu da postignu za dve in|twenty|threads|I can|to|achieve|in|two In twenty years, they can't achieve it in two.

i onda, kao, "Ok", odustanu. and|then|like|okay|they give up And then, like, "Okay," they give up.

A ne treba odustajati! And|not|should|give up But you shouldn't give up!

Ako je nešto vaš san If|is|something|your|dream If something is your dream.

onda zaista postoje načini then|really|there are|ways then there really are ways

kako vi možete da dođete do njega. how|you|can|to|get|to|him how you can reach it.

Ali jedan od osnovnih But|one|of|basic But one of the basic

sastojaka tog ostvarenja je, u stvari, istrajnost. ingredients|that|achievement|is|in|fact|perseverance ingredients of that achievement is, in fact, perseverance.

Da istrajete u tome. To|persevere|in|that To persevere in it.

I istrajati naravno nije lako, It|to persist|of course|is not|easy And persisting is certainly not easy,

jer da je lako, svako bi, because|to|is|easy|everyone|would because if it were easy, everyone would,

istrajao, ali ne može svako da istraje persevered|but|not|can|everyone|to|persevere persist, but not everyone can persist

i teško je! and|hard|is and it is hard!

Ja vas neću lagati. Neću reći I|you|will not|lie|I will not|tell I will not lie to you. I will not say

"Postoji lak način da" There is|easy|way|to "There is an easy way to"

"stignete do svojih ciljeva". Ne! you reach|to|your|goals| "reach your goals". No!

Ne postoji lak, samo postoji način! There|is|easy|only|exists|way There is no easy way, there is only a way!

Jedna od ključnih stvari je vaša svest One|of|key|things|is|your|awareness One of the key things is your awareness

znači, pod broj jedan je vaša svest o tome it means|under|number|one|is|your|awareness|about|that meaning, number one is your awareness of that

šta ćete sve izgubiti ako odustanete. what|will|everything|lose|if|give up what you will lose if you give up.

i zato vam ja dajem moj primer. and|therefore|to you|I|give|my|example and that's why I give you my example.

Zamislite danas da ja nemam ovaj život Imagine|today|that|I|do not have|this|life Imagine today that I don't have this life

da sam i dalje u Nemačkoj zaposlena that|I am|still|employed|in|Germany|female employee that I am still employed in Germany

i da nisam uzela svoj život u svoje ruke i da sam, evo, sa pedeset i nešto godina and|that|I had not|taken|my|life|in|my|hands|and|that|I|here|at|fifty|and|something|years and that I haven't taken my life into my own hands and that I am, look, in my fifties.

skoro, onako almost|like that almost, like that

poprilično u tom nekom fairly|in|that|some pretty much in that kind of

dobu u kom kada izgubite posao, ne možete više da se zaposlite nigde time|in|which|when|you lose|job|not|you can|anymore|to|reflexive pronoun|get employed|anywhere time when you lose your job, you can't get hired anywhere anymore

i da drhtim da li će me neko zaposliti and|to|tremble|||will|me|someone|employ and I tremble whether someone will hire me

i upropastiti mi moj stil života and|ruin|my|my|style|life and ruin my lifestyle

na koji sam navikla to|which|I|got used to that I have gotten used to

i sve te stvari koje idu s tim. and|all|those|things|that|go|with|that and all those things that come with it.

Znate, s tim godinama kada ste zaposleni You know|with|those|years|when|you are|employed You know, with those years when you are employed

i kada će vas otpustiti i, šta ja znam, zameniti nekim mlađim. and|when|will|you|fire|and|what|I|know|replace|someone|younger and when they will let you go and, I don't know, replace you with someone younger.

To je jedna stvar, a druga je stvar It|is|one|thing|but|another|is|thing That's one thing, and the other thing is

zamislite sve te ljude koje sam u poslednjih imagine|all|those|people|whom|I|in|last imagine all those people I have met in the last

eto, šesnaest godina, koliko sam stvarno here|sixteen|years|how much|I am|really well, sixteen years, how long I have really

na putu u Srbiji, da kažem, on|the road|in|Serbia|to|say been on the road in Serbia, to say,

na našim prostorima koliko radim in|our|areas|as much as|I work in our areas how much I work

sve te ljude koji su od mene učili, da nisu all|those|people|who|are|from|me|learned|that|they are not all those people who have learned from me, if they hadn't

imali tu priliku da uče od mene they had|that|opportunity|to|learn|from|me they had the opportunity to learn from me

i da nisu imali tu priliku da promene svoje živote. and|that|they did not|had|that|opportunity|to|change|their|lives and they did not have the opportunity to change their lives.

I koliko u stvari je to nekim životima značilo And|how much|in|fact|is|that|some|lives|meant And how much that actually meant in some lives

mom najviše! mom|the most the most for me!

Ali i mnogim drugima takođe. But|and|many|others|also But for many others as well.

I to što vi imate kao san, takođe I|to|what|you|have|as|dream|also And what you have as a dream, also

može da znači mnogim životima can|to|mean|many|lives can mean a lot in many lives

mnogo, jer ne znam, šta god da je vaš san a lot|because|not|I know|what|ever|to be|your|your|dream a lot, because I don't know, whatever your dream is

problem je u tome što mi u stvari the problem|is|in|that|what|we|in|reality the problem is that we actually

često odustajemo zbog nestrpljenja often|give up|due to|impatience often give up due to impatience

i zbog toga što ne shvatamo šta ćemo sve izgubiti ako and|because|that|what|not|we understand|what|we will|everything|lose|if and because we do not understand what we will lose if

odustanemo we give up we give up

a drugi problem je što odustajemo zbog toga što nam ljudi govore. and|second|problem|is|that|we give up|because|that|what|to us|people|say and another problem is that we give up because people tell us.

Ja se sećam pre I|reflexive pronoun|remember|before I remember 20 years ago I had that dream,

20 godina imala sam taj san, years|had|I|that|dream

i, naravno, kad sam o tome govorila, and|of course|when|I|about|that|spoke and, of course, when I talked about it,

svi su mislili: Ma pusti je, neće to ona uraditi. everyone|were|thinking|Oh|leave|her|will not|that|she|do everyone thought: Oh, just leave her, she won't do that.

Kao, nemoguće je da će tako nešto uraditi Like|impossible|is|that|will|so|something|do Like, it's impossible that she would do something like that

da će dati otkaz i doći u Srbiju da radi that|will|give|resignation|and|come|to||to|work that she would quit her job and come to Serbia to work

ali kada sam konačno to uradila, but|when|I|finally|that|did but when I finally did it,

2003\. sam dala otkaz i 2004. sam prestala da radim I|gave|resignation|and|I|stopped|to|work In 2003, I quit my job and in 2004, I stopped working. došla prvi put u Beograd arrived|first|time|in|Belgrade I came to Belgrade for the first time.

i krenula da započinjem celu ovu stvar I|started|to|begin|whole|this|thing And I started to begin this whole thing.

to je bilo jako teško, it|was|very|hard|difficult It was very difficult,

znači, tri - četiri godine kasnije nakon što sam zaista poželela it means|three|four|years|later|after|that|I|really|wished I mean, three to four years later after I really wanted to.

i sebi postavila taj cilj, and|to myself|set|that|goal and set that goal for myself,

tri godine straha i drhtanja three|years|of fear|and|trembling three years of fear and trembling

i premišljanja i odlučivanja and|reflection|and|decision-making and reconsidering and deciding

i konačno kad sam odlučila, and|finally|when|I|decided and finally when I made the decision,

i kada sam došla ovde, and|when|I|arrived|here and when I came here,

ljudi su mislili da sam odlepila. people|were|thinking|that|I|went crazy people thought I had gone crazy.

Toliko su mislili da sam poludela They thought|were|thinking|that|I|went crazy They thought I had lost my mind.

da su mi davali vizit kartice that|they|to me|gave|business|cards They even gave me business cards.

da s nekim porazgovaram to|with|someone|I talk to talk to someone.

"sa nekim pametnim", tako su mi govorili. with|someone|smart|like that|they|to me|told "to someone smart," that's what they told me.

"Evo imam ja...", pa onda psihoterapeut ili Here|I have|me|then|or|psychotherapist| "Here I have...", then the psychotherapist or

psiholog ili psihijatar psychologist|or|psychiatrist psychologist or psychiatrist

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